I have been talked about bad on this site and I am very upset about it. Half the things are not even true and the other half are very negative to say the least. I am one of the best at erotic prostate massage and have been in the business for almost 40 years. I know what I'm doing. The negative reviews about me make me look terrible and there have been several thousand men that have read them. They are the ones that if they decide not to see me will lose out on a hell of an erotic prostate massage. I have asked to have the negative things about me taken off this site nicely, and Fred told me that he would not take anything off here. I don't advertise on Terb and I don't think it is right for this board to slander the ladies like they do.. This has caused a lot of problems for me. The ladies that see the Terb members are at risk for having their personal information out there for the whole world to see. Terv had a terrible policy that needs to change in the way they review the ladies. You guys put us at risk by giving the whole world all this personal information about us. It needs to stop before something really bad happens.. I am a very friendly lady and make all my clients feel welcome.. The guys that know me love me. I don't steal for anyone, and my clients are perfectly safe coming to visit me.. This site made me look so bad that hundreds of clients will not even give me a chance.. It not only hurt me but my grandson that I was trying to support. So, before you guys just get on here and give these lowlife reviews about me or any other lady, think about the negative effect that it will have and if the lady really deserves to be hurt like that. I have been in this business longer than most of these ladies and I can tell you that I still have many clients that love older women.. So guys try hard to show a little class before you post these nasty reviews. They really hurt more than just the lady that is being disrespected. I expect a lot of negative feed back for this post but too bad.. The truth is the truth. Most men that have any respect for themsselves or the lady they have visited would never post on here, negative or positive. It is just wrong and that is the bottom line.. Think about this and try to picture how it would feel if the ladies got on here and talked about the men that have visited them. Putting them at risk for their families to find out about their secrets. It really works both ways.. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.. Anyway if this post is too freaking long to read, oh well. Carmen
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Carmen, I don't think Terb is doing anything to hurt your business. I think you are.
1) I am not interested in a prostate massage.
2) I am not interested in a person old enough to be my grandmother.
3) Clearly you don't respect men, why would you expect us to respect you back?
4) A review board is just is just that. Not everyone is going to have a positive experience with you. Just because they express that doesn't mean they're a lowlife. Wouldn't you rather people who expect something more not waste your time?
5) If you don't like that people describe your house like they do, don't invite them there in the condition it is in to 'work'.
6) In previous threads, people didn't accuse you of stealing, they said the neighborhood you lived in scared them. That's a VALID point for someone expecting service in a safe environment.
Earlier on a different thread you said: "Listen here my dear. I don't depend on Terb for my business." Now you're blaming Terb for your lack of business. Which is it?
Posting a review is a commentary on an experience. If someone has a good experience with you, maybe they'll post a good review. If the experiences are all bad, then you have to expect bad reviews. Maybe you should look at what you can do to improve the situation for your clients. Many of them complain about sharing a massage table with a cat, or dogs running free in your apartment. You may enjoy the company of your animals, but when was the last time you went to another business and saw animals running free.. Just saying..
1) I am not interested in a prostate massage.
2) I am not interested in a person old enough to be my grandmother.
3) Clearly you don't respect men, why would you expect us to respect you back?
4) A review board is just is just that. Not everyone is going to have a positive experience with you. Just because they express that doesn't mean they're a lowlife. Wouldn't you rather people who expect something more not waste your time?
5) If you don't like that people describe your house like they do, don't invite them there in the condition it is in to 'work'.
6) In previous threads, people didn't accuse you of stealing, they said the neighborhood you lived in scared them. That's a VALID point for someone expecting service in a safe environment.
Earlier on a different thread you said: "Listen here my dear. I don't depend on Terb for my business." Now you're blaming Terb for your lack of business. Which is it?
Posting a review is a commentary on an experience. If someone has a good experience with you, maybe they'll post a good review. If the experiences are all bad, then you have to expect bad reviews. Maybe you should look at what you can do to improve the situation for your clients. Many of them complain about sharing a massage table with a cat, or dogs running free in your apartment. You may enjoy the company of your animals, but when was the last time you went to another business and saw animals running free.. Just saying..
I have seen Carmen when she was in south Oshawa. It was a pretty dicey neighbourhood. Upon entering her apartment I was overwhelmed by the sound and smell of birds. Yes, the cat was in the room with us. Carmen's prostate massage skills are excellent however, I would never go back because of the environment. As, the years go by I am amazed to see how many ladies operate out of shady places and then wonder why customers won't visit more than once. Thanks to terb I have avoided many sketchy places and service providers but, thanks to terb I have had many excellent encounters. Go Terb!
There ya go Carmen. A client who was completely thrilled with your service. He won't go back. Nothing to do with your reviews, nothing to do with the comments, nothing to do with Terb.
I'm sure the clients that can tolerate the animals, that don't mind that you're an older provider, and that enjoy a prostate massage will still frequent your service. It's not for everyone. There's a few complaints about the location you work in.
I'm sure the clients that can tolerate the animals, that don't mind that you're an older provider, and that enjoy a prostate massage will still frequent your service. It's not for everyone. There's a few complaints about the location you work in.
Respect is a two way street. If you think it is ok to trash the ladies you visit then it is ok for the ladies to do the same thing. This thread was about the way Terb members review the ladies you all visit, not to put me down. Privacy is needed and appreciated by everyone,not just the men.
That is bull. I have never put a picture of me out there, especially a fake.. You have never visited me so why are you keeping the negative shit going? This thread is not about putting me down.
It happens carmen. Ive had negative stuff said about me too by people who have never met me. You just have to let that stuff roll off your back. I think ive met you before. I was going to rent a room off of you waay way back. You have a nice apartment.
It's a review board Carmen. What you're complaining about is also a part of the reason it exists. You are a SP. You get reviewed. We are customers and the ones paying for services. We don't get reviewed. We give you our hard earned dollars for the services you provide. You get our money. We like to make informed decisions based on the reviews we read here.
You're right it is a two way street. What you should be doing is reading the reviews with an open mind and tailoring your services based on the customer's likes and dislikes. Use the feedback to your advantage and you can increase your business by making positive changes based on the negative feedback. The ambiance of the environment of any business establishment is as important as the service they provide.
"Build it and they will cum"
You're right it is a two way street. What you should be doing is reading the reviews with an open mind and tailoring your services based on the customer's likes and dislikes. Use the feedback to your advantage and you can increase your business by making positive changes based on the negative feedback. The ambiance of the environment of any business establishment is as important as the service they provide.
"Build it and they will cum"
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I still am not getting my point across. It's not about you guys wanting to review the girls , it's about the way you are going about it. It's frickin barbaric. You guys forget to realize that the whole world has access to your posts and yes it is personal.. It doesn't take much for our families to figure out who we are after we have been described and our location.. It is not only bad for the the ladies it is certainly bad for the men.. If the women got on here describing the men and all the personal things we get to know about you guys, after a while, the shit would hit the fan. Don't think for one minute that women are as stupid as you think we are.. Even if you come on here and say all the details of what you did with whomever you are only hurting yourselves. The women will think twice about what she does with her clients because you guys come on here an blab everything, every little detail.. It is a dirty , underhanded thing that you guys are gettiing away with and it has to stop. Do it more privately so the world can't read about the details of a women's private life.. One day something really bad is going to happen. You guys are not respecting our privacy and are putting the ladies at risk for anything.. It doesn't matter what you guys say about me, I DON'T CARE The damage has already been done. It does matter to me how you review us. I have asked fred to remove the nasty thread about me on here because my family some how got wind of it.. it has caused me major trouble. That is why I am taking this personal. The other ladies may be hestitate about saying anything because they have to depend on you guys for their bread and butter, but I don't need the men on here to survive. I will not give up until you stop hurting the ladies by the way you are going about reviewing them. Good reviews , bad reviews, should be done privately. You guys can still have access to the information about the girls you visit , just the whole world won't. I have been hurt by the wrong people reading these nasty posts and I am taking this very personal. It has nothing to do with the loss of clients..
The service you provide is personal. The information that normally is personal is relevant to a review on your service? If you sold pastry people might review your pie crust and fillings? Some people may not like it. I read the review, Your street was mentioned but it is a 15km stretch of pavement. Having animals running around? Well I would want to know that.
It was only vague information given, which was relevant to the business that you conduct. I'm sure you're not the only woman, that age with animals on that street.
We all know what you're really upset about the comments on you and your home. You thought RF's words were harsh. He was being honest and was a dissatisfied customer. Albeit harsh, it is all part of the free enterprise system. A lot like a restaurant review but with information which directly pertains to your services
A persons business is not their private life and is subject to customer review. The profession you have chosen and the place that you conduct it spills over into what for others would be considered personal. That however was your choice. If you consider yourself a professional then client confidentiality is of utmost importance.
It was only vague information given, which was relevant to the business that you conduct. I'm sure you're not the only woman, that age with animals on that street.
We all know what you're really upset about the comments on you and your home. You thought RF's words were harsh. He was being honest and was a dissatisfied customer. Albeit harsh, it is all part of the free enterprise system. A lot like a restaurant review but with information which directly pertains to your services
A persons business is not their private life and is subject to customer review. The profession you have chosen and the place that you conduct it spills over into what for others would be considered personal. That however was your choice. If you consider yourself a professional then client confidentiality is of utmost importance.
Girl, u gotta stop this ranting & complaining. Ur saying the reviews shouldn't be public access, yet u think they should be allowed to review. How exactly are they supposed to research who to see? By reviews silly! Terb is quite strict about names/privacy. Be thankful ur only on terb.
U have yet to do anything to calm down and LISTEN. People have said fair & honest comments and u attack. FYI, a girls personal life isn't detailed here....her professional life is. Imagine if TripAdvisor or Urban Spoon censored as much as ur wanting Terb to?! How would the public find a decent meal or trip? Reviews would go like this: "I went to Cuba. It was nice. I'll repeat". Hahahaha
Its time for you to stop ranting and start hearing. Fix ur work space, get off Terb, and make improvements. Terb or otherwise, a paying customer is entitled to customer feedback. U can't change that so stop trying. Instead, accept what u can change and run with it.
Believe me, us gals are just fine. No barberic-ness. U can't take it personal. Its not about you as a person. Its about ur professional persona/services/etc. Toughen up, smarten up, and quite ur bitchin'. Pull up those boot straps cuz no one else will. Work harder/smarter/better, or retire.
U have yet to do anything to calm down and LISTEN. People have said fair & honest comments and u attack. FYI, a girls personal life isn't detailed here....her professional life is. Imagine if TripAdvisor or Urban Spoon censored as much as ur wanting Terb to?! How would the public find a decent meal or trip? Reviews would go like this: "I went to Cuba. It was nice. I'll repeat". Hahahaha
Its time for you to stop ranting and start hearing. Fix ur work space, get off Terb, and make improvements. Terb or otherwise, a paying customer is entitled to customer feedback. U can't change that so stop trying. Instead, accept what u can change and run with it.
Believe me, us gals are just fine. No barberic-ness. U can't take it personal. Its not about you as a person. Its about ur professional persona/services/etc. Toughen up, smarten up, and quite ur bitchin'. Pull up those boot straps cuz no one else will. Work harder/smarter/better, or retire.
Hello Carmen
You talk about privacy, and reviews giving out to much personal information about the girls here on TERB. You talk about details about a womans private life, and her not wanting the world to know. Well anything posted here on TERB can only be viewed by members, now anyone can become a member, its not that hard to join TERB.
But consider this, when you post your phone number anywhere on the net, anyone can google that number and find out info about you. Try googling your phone number, 10 hits per page, 6 are ads you posted. If you are worried about your personal info, and family knowing your business you might want to watch posting your phone number. This is far more harmful that us hobbyists posting here on TERB.
And I have seen you, You are an older provider, witch I like. I think older women are very sexy. You do live in a scarier area of town, its not the worst, or the best. You do have your pets, this was fine with me, but it may not be fine with some. You are a very friendly woman, very easy to talk to, you made me feel very comfortable.
You talk about privacy, and reviews giving out to much personal information about the girls here on TERB. You talk about details about a womans private life, and her not wanting the world to know. Well anything posted here on TERB can only be viewed by members, now anyone can become a member, its not that hard to join TERB.
But consider this, when you post your phone number anywhere on the net, anyone can google that number and find out info about you. Try googling your phone number, 10 hits per page, 6 are ads you posted. If you are worried about your personal info, and family knowing your business you might want to watch posting your phone number. This is far more harmful that us hobbyists posting here on TERB.
And I have seen you, You are an older provider, witch I like. I think older women are very sexy. You do live in a scarier area of town, its not the worst, or the best. You do have your pets, this was fine with me, but it may not be fine with some. You are a very friendly woman, very easy to talk to, you made me feel very comfortable.
I am fighting a losing battle here. I give up. I have been in this business longer then most of you ladies have been breathing and I know the right and wrong way of doing things.. Good luck ladies dealing with these jerks.I was hoping that you all would understand what I saying here. You could still have your good reviews but it would be done more privately..
Ur assuming we are all young bucks. I'm a 10yr MPA vet & now run a spa with another 10yr MPA vet. So our combined 30yrs makes us no rookie.
"These jerks" EXCUSE ME?! Do u speak to ur clients that way??? No wonder they aren't happy! If I don't like a restaurant and post a review, does that make me a jerk?! NO. U've long passed trying to make a point, u've ranted for months now about how ladies need to save themselves from all the assholes that review. Bull! Good reviews AND bad reviews are the paying customers perogative. U simply can't take it at face value. Improve ur place already! Listen to YOUR customers feedback and quit crying here.
"These jerks" EXCUSE ME?! Do u speak to ur clients that way??? No wonder they aren't happy! If I don't like a restaurant and post a review, does that make me a jerk?! NO. U've long passed trying to make a point, u've ranted for months now about how ladies need to save themselves from all the assholes that review. Bull! Good reviews AND bad reviews are the paying customers perogative. U simply can't take it at face value. Improve ur place already! Listen to YOUR customers feedback and quit crying here.
Thanks outtolunch. I appreciate that you can be fair in your posting and not be so negative. I still say that this all can be done more privately. That is all I am saying..And not all men are jerks, only some of them, ones that have little if no respect for the ladies they visit. I do make my clients feel very welcome and treat them very well. I respect them and hate the fact that they can't tell me to my face that they have a problem instead of coming on here and saying a lot of degrading things about me. It is true about Google, what they are doing is wrong and they will get sued one day by someone, if they don't change their privacy policies.. It is a very dangerous practice..
I don't understand how a "good review" can be posted to a public message board "more privately?" What about bad reviews? should they not be allowed? There are 2 sides on a review coin
So Google is the one who's causing the problem. Not you posting your phone number on a website advertising your services? Goodle is only allowing people to FIND the information that YOU post online. Google is NOT posting your information, and neither is TERB.
Wow, are you that fucking oblivious?
I have a great deal of respect for the ladies and MP's I visit. I recently posted something about an experience I had at Muse, and I've posted something about Chantelle as well. I haven't always had great experiences, but usually when I have a subpar experience, I let the person know directly. If they choose to try to rectify it, then I let them have the benefit of the doubt. If they choose to just say 'screw you, I got paid that's all I care about' then I will post my review. If they STILL choose to do nothing about the poor service then it's their own fault, not mine.
A lot of the service industry has to figure out how to be better at all times. Your industry is no different. You aren't as unique in your offering any longer. There are a few providers that do what you do, Carmen. If you can't measure up to the experience, or the environment that other providers offer, then you better damn-well expect to be compared to them, and if you don't listen to the people who do negatively review you.. you should understand WHY other people aren't going to be using your service.
As for privacy, if you are posting your phone number and general location on the internet in ads, then you can expect the same from the clients that review you. THEY aren't the ones putting you in harm's way by simply REPEATING what you have posted yourself. If you don't get that. well.. I can't help you.
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