Enough is enough!!

[too nice]

Hello!

I have had enough!
You guys come on here and talk bad about escorts. Where's the site that escorts can talk bad about tricks.

I must say I am really pissed at the tricks out there!
As an escort I make sure that I am always nice and cheerful on the phone. And the guys that DO come and see me are always happy with my service, and usually come back to see me.

But the reason I am writing this is that I am fed up with the guys that keep calling and calling and don't come to see me. What do you think I do run a personal chat line.
Now you know why escorts are mean on the phone. Well to be honest I am at that point that I am going to be mean on the phone. I really do feel bad for my regulars and the guys who call really want to see me. But enough is enough.
IF YOU REALLY ARE NOT INTERESTED IN SEEING AN ESCORT THEN DON'T CALL!!! Leave the phone open for the men who do want to see me. And Guys Escorts are not stupid we do reconize your voice.

What about the men that ask so many questions?
You guys know that you can't ask too many questions over the phone. So read or really listen to the ad before calling.

Because it make an escort go crazy when she has to repeat her self 100 times a day. Espically when all the information is already in the ad.

Well I guess I have said what was on my mind.

 

[bigmoe69er]

Not Too Nice

Men need reassurance; the premier escorts recognize this and handle themselves with class. The elite group of escorts love their work and the money they make. They can overindulge men's insecurities without the attitude and resentment you appear to harbor. What you describe in your post comes with the territory. Not too many men are going to feel sorry for you. Get with it or get out of it! --Dr. Moe

 

[meta4]

i'm sure your anger and frustration are justifiable. yes, there are a lot of jerks out there but, as you acknowledge, there are good guys too. the problem is that when the phone rings you don't know which it is. being mean to the unknown caller only ends up hurting yourself because your business will inevitably decline.

 

[zoickss]

Perhaps a middle road can be found - on the phone don't be rude (rudeness will cost business) or overly friendly (this can cost you time - and frustration that has been vented here)- more to the point is what I am getting at here. I have numerous SP's that I have established a sort of friendship with - and I have heard your side and can sympathize. What one did was for initial contacts were only strictly by email - only after finding out the guy was seriously interested she would pass on the phone number - she has learned to screen through the emails quite efficiently. We aren't all jerks but some of you aren't well reviewed - as well not all guys know about these boards. AlsoAs mentioned some guys need reassurance - others want to establish a rapport before meeting. And unfortunately some are trying to get cheap thrills. This is part of the business unfortunately - some things you just can't change - But I think being rude will only hurt you - try to find ways around it. Like the saying goes "When life gives you Lemons .........Make Lemonade"

Just my 2 cents worth,

Zoickss

 

[zoickss]

Another alternative would be to work for an agency - let them deal with the calls and hassles - You do the calls. Balance it out and do whats right for you.

 

[Cruise]

is there a problem?

hi.

i totally understand what you saying...
but consider the business you would get by being nice and friendly, you should reconsidering being cold to ur potential clients.


lets think about it. i was working in a cake factory, making thousands of cakes every hour, and i got paid for 7/hour... i do the same thing repeatly, and i dont complain.

BECAUSE THIS IS MY JOB.

 

[Gilbey]

from observation

I know many people in the business and I know there are jerks and there are good guys, and that is hard enough to deal with, I'm sure you are a very nice perosn who tries to please, or you wouldnt be here ranting,
but your frustrations have another place to lay blame, in this business, there are many , I mean a majority of the indie escorts who,
1/ describe them selves as Pamela Anderson when they could be 3 of her

2/ they promise the world such as "no rush and unhurried", and cant wait to get the deed done and race to the next call"

3/ or they put the guy in the tub, and then take wallet, laptop and what ever else is not nailed down and run

4/ a different girl shows up and claimes she will scream in this nice hotel if the guy refuses her.

the list goes on, so when you get frustrated at all the questions,
remember that many of these guys have been ripped off so many times and disapointed that they are bring carefull.

Talk to girls who were doing this 15 years ago, when there were so few escorts in Torotno, they will tell you , guys called, got a desroption and usually booked and things went alot smoother.

so when you get pissed, call one of the fly by nights and give them a earfull for contributing to make your life a living hell.

there are two side to this one.

 

[Faith]

In this biz, you will always have to deal with certain aspects, whether its from the same man calling time after time again, booking and never showing up, and then starting the cycle over again to calls asking to be your slave. If you recognize the voice or the number let your voicemail pick up or simply hang-up. Don't let yourself get worked up over someone that does such things as it will ruin your mood and your work ethic to those that don't deserve such treatment. Keep your best foot forward and your mind clear of nuisances. And, keep in mind too, that when there is a full moon out, the wierdo's come out. Always think positive and you will reap the rewards.

Ciao
Faith

 

[OldPervert]

get a website...

layout your info and enogh pics to satisfy window shoppers...
learn to weed out the idiots and masturbators from the serious customers who have specialized needs or are simply just sick and tired of the old bait and switches or tell you want you want to hear just to get you there etc etc...there are discreet ways to ask about and give out info regarding your boundaries or your "do's and don'ts"...

everybusiness is about converting browsers to paying customers...yours is no different. you may need to give your "repetitive" spiel out 100 times to get 2 visitors and that sweetie is simply the way it is with this business in this marketplace...everyones a player don't you know and you are fighting with the many many scammers out there...assume your callers all assume you are a scammer, then go from there.

instead of complaining and moaning, advertise properly, develop a web site, install a good voice mail strategy ( a few good ones have been mentioned here) and more importantly, give a good service and you will build a solid and successful business...

with out the above, you are just another "fly by nighter" who would be better off to work with an established agency...

Just my 2 cents
OP

 

[Big Daddy]

You have to put up with it...

Although I sympathasize with you, you have to learn to be polite. It is called "work experience". It seems you are new. The world is not a perfect place, and you run into idiots all over the place. Like someone and Kiarra said, find a middle ground.

Also, when guys call they might be shopping around. There is no gurantee that the guy who calls you does not see a SP. It may be that it is not you. One way to lower the non-serious customers may be to not pick the phone and let the customer leave their number on your machine and over time you know which phone numbers are bad clients.

There is no sure way to avoid all problems, but you can find ways to minimize them. Terb is a good place to find solutions to your problems

 

[bigmoe69er]

Kiarra, you've been watching too much of the Sopranos! (LOL) ---Dr. Moe

 

[too nice]

Hi!
Well thank you for your input.
But come on if all the information is on the red zone why should I have to repeat myself.
Guys should lisen to the ad s and if they are interested then call Get a feel for me then ask the price and thats it. Not ramble on and on. I also know alot of escorts who are kinda mean on the phone and get alot of calls.
I think I am just going to get to the point with guys not be as freindly. Cause like the guy said too freindly is not good.

 

[bigmoe69er]

Not Too Nice

Your immature attitude shines through! ---Dr. Moe

 

[johnyboy]

I called a MP today looking for Miss Special when she was not there I asked who was and I was given 2 names at which I asked for a brief desciption.. well OMG can't do that I would have to come and see for myself..blah blah Guess business must be really good...

 

[Bacon]

Hello!

I have had enough!

I must say I am really pissed at the tricks out there!

Well to be honest I am at that point that I am going to be mean on the phone.

too nice? I think you're too stressed. You should take a break man, I for one dont't need to see a chick thats all freaked out about answering a phone. Its called SERVICE babe,,,,,