Enlightenment

BigBlack

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I'm at the point in life where there's money in the bank, life is pretty balanced, I'm fit, enjoy things and work is ok. My question is, have any Terbities ever sought out enlightenment or some sort of search/quest to greatly increase the quality/nature of their lives? The thought of enduring the rat race for another couple of decades...there is so much more out there right?

BB
 
there is nothing more. this is as good as it gets. you can only make yourself miserable thinking there is more to life, rather than enjoying what you have. everyday you need to shave, clean the dishes, throw out the garbage, deal with assholes, pay taxes and work for a living. If you were going to invent something or cure cancer or write a best seller or win a nobel prize, chances are you would have done so by now, or at least you would have drafted a couple of failed novels. I will assume you have not. but that doesn't mean that you cannot be happy, accept reality, and enjoy it to the fullest. its all about realizing how good you have it and not focusing on how bad your shit stinks.
 
I both agree and disagree with Red. Part of success is the journey and when that is over there can feel like there is a void. Take up a hobby, do some voulenteer work or find something else that gives you happiness. Banging hot chicks counts as well. :D
 
I think you're in the best position to go on a quest. If you think about it many philosophers, thinkers, creators etc were able to do these things because they were wealthy or didn't have to worry about the mundane things required in surviving. Yes I know there are also plenty of starving artists too. But the point is that a lot of things were accomplished by because people because they had money. For example, explorers and mountain climbers are generally wealthy people.

Now as for you, you don't have to have super lofty goals. I'd suggeset just pursuing something that interests you not because you have to or need to but because you want to. Ever wanted to travel somewhere? Learn how to do something that you currently can't do? Want to leave something behind?

One thing I'd love to do its to take a drive from one end of Canada to the other with enough time to stop and see some sights.
 
You will take one step towards enlightenment when you stop being materialistic. If you're into sprituality, go to Tibet for a year and live with the monks.
 
frankcastle said:
One thing I'd love to do its to take a drive from one end of Canada to the other with enough time to stop and see some sights.

And hit every Tim Hortons between St John's and Vancouver??

Hey BB, take a day off of work. Choose one of those days that we get at the end of August or in September that are sunny and not too warm. Take a pad of paper and grab a coffee or juice and sit down overlooking Lake Ontario (maybe a spot in scenic Scarborough) and jot down some short, medium and long term goals. What have YOU wanted to do:

Before the end of the summer
By year's end
Before you turn.....65, ie.,

Buy a vacation property
Learn to speak Italian
Travel to Chile
Ski in Colorado
Visit Jenn @HFH
Learn to play the piano
Improve your lawn bowling

Keep this list with you. There is nothing wrong with changing your goals from time to time.
 
Enlightenment is finding out who you really are...

which is God. "Know thyself." Look into meditation - it's the key. Check out the "Force" and the "Sixth Sense" by Stuart Wilde. He also has a bunch of other books and a website. There are also many other authors to look in to as well.

Becoming enlightened takes time, effort, and patience. Like another said, you sound like your in a good position to start your trip.

And no, I would not say that I am all that enlightened. Anyone can repeat what they have read.

God is an energy that possesses the more feminine qualities; and ITS not male.
 
BigBlack said:
I'm at the point in life where there's money in the bank, life is pretty balanced, I'm fit, enjoy things and work is ok. My question is, have any Terbities ever sought out enlightenment or some sort of search/quest to greatly increase the quality/nature of their lives? The thought of enduring the rat race for another couple of decades...there is so much more out there right?

BB

I smell a mid-life crisis. This means more business for the SP's!

Some advice I do have is:

Buy a boat, if you like water.

Go to a cottage, do manly things with the guys.

Take a vacation in another country.
 
As someone suggested earlier, make a list of things you WANT to do. Depending on your age make it a long list. If you are well set in life you may just tick items off the list quickly and your current feelings will intensify.
 
What's it all about Alfie? Remember that great movie starring one of the Redgrave sisters?

I am in a somewhat similar position. It seems to me that the answer is in widening our set of experiences. After selling his business, one of my friends decided to pursue a masters degree in fine arts. Another person I know took a bicycle trip cross-country with his grand son who just graduated highschool. Are these quests? I don't know.

When I was in Alaska last month, I had the opportunity to take a helicopter ride up onto the ice field at Denali. One of the explorers of Denali built a cabin on a rock outcropping. The cabin can be rented out. I want to spend a night in that cabin.
 
My Son, expand thy wine cellar. Nothing like buying a vintage you can't drink for 30 years, and won't be able to taste properly in 30 years, anyway.

Seriously, maybe 10% wine, but for a quest/ enlightening experience... Do what cannot/ dare not be done. Don't buy into the program- Vegas is great, but do that once a year for fun. Go off the beaten track, while it still exists. Some experiences from the recent past can never be lived again. The thrill of discovery is now the province of heavily funded university programs or drug companies. You can no longer raise an army and exert your will over the known world, without Dick Cheney's say so.

Had I money, and courage, I would be:

A chef, who cooked to please himself, and a small lunch crowd. No TV show.

Or, a storyteller, who travelled the world learning histories and fables from different cultures, many of which may become extinct in the not to distant future. And then, tell children in Africa how Qu'Appel valley got it's name, and return the favour here, with stories of lions and sciroccos.

Sadly, I'm still working for the man. Volunteer with kids. There is no better reward.