Effects of hobbying

[King1984]

Reading some of these reminded me a couple weeks ago, a new wolf was asking me for advice about hobbying....

I wrote him almost like a 10-commendments.. like a few of the old bros that responded, I have been hobbying for like 15+ years..

Here are a few things to watch out for to NOT fuck your life up...

1. Be safe
   • no matter how much you like the provider or how much trust you have with her.. she still fucks other guys for money.. Don't SKIN it with her.. always wear a condom... getting Clym and Gonno are easy stuff.. but you definitely don't want to catch Hep B, Herpes or HIV. I am sure most guys here have caught it at least once.. just because they don't talk about it.. doesn't mean it won't happen. And sometimes the girl don't even know she has it because she is working when there is no symptoms during her incubation period.
2. Get tested regularly
   • chances are... this will NOT be the first hooker you fuck.. So get tested regularly to make sure you are safe to fuck your future GF or wife at home. Last thing you want her to know is to find out that you have been sleeping around because you gave her some STDs. Better yet, if you are in a commited relationship, consider CBJ as well, as covered-FS is default.
3. Be responsible (with your money and your time)
   • sooner or later you will get the "power of money" and how it can get another person to do things TO you. Like sucking your dick... cumming on her face.. and some may even swallow and let you fuck their ass.. so this excitement will and CAN be endless. And equally, if you don't control your desires.. you will likely spend all your money on your dick... So before you even consider fucking a girl.. I would give yourself a budget... perhaps every week or every month.. and that's will be your whore money.. and if you go over that.. stop. With time, make sure you know what your priorities are, if you have family, don't miss important dates because you are going to see a hooker.
4. Don't let your emotions mix with a provider
   • she's in for the money.. you are in to fuck your pussy.. NO MORE. There will be no doubt over the years.. you will have a provider you like or even LOVE.. but relationship like this.. doesn't matter how hard you try will never work... Sooner or later when you are in an argument with her.. you will bring up/remember the fact that she is a whore once.. and you may even have image of her fucking or sucking other guy's dick... probably more trouble that its worth for you. Fuck her at face value that she is a hooker.. and find a nice homey girl to marry.
5. Be respectful... (to women)
   • Sooner or later you will have found girlfriend.. be sure to make the distinction that the one you have at home is NOT the ones you fuck outside. And make the distinction of having sex and making love.. the end result may be bliss when you cum.. but the feelings associated is definitely different. It's like eating a $200 meal vs Mcdonalds... both can make you full.. but you enjoy and savour the $200 meal and Mcd's just get you full not to mention the effort going into that $200-meal is not the same as the assembly-line at Mcd's.
6. Be discreet
   • Unless you have a mate that you go whoring with, I suggest you to keep this hobby to yourself and off your phone. You don't want anyone to judge you, or worst yet, have your SO (significant other) find out that you are whoring because you wrote a bunch of reviews for Terb.

Some of the stuff is similar to what others have said before.. I put it in my own words... my 2 cents.

 

[Coolsin000]

Reading some of these reminded me a couple weeks ago, a new wolf was asking me for advice about hobbying....

I wrote him almost like a 10-commendments.. like a few of the old bros that responded, I have been hobbying for like 15+ years..

Here are a few things to watch out for to NOT fuck your life up...

1. Be safe
   • no matter how much you like the provider or how much trust you have with her.. she still fucks other guys for money.. Don't SKIN it with her.. always wear a condom... getting Clym and Gonno are easy stuff.. but you definitely don't want to catch Hep B, Herpes or HIV. I am sure most guys here have caught it at least once.. just because they don't talk about it.. doesn't mean it won't happen. And sometimes the girl don't even know she has it because she is working when there is no symptoms during her incubation period.
2. Get tested regularly
   • chances are... this will NOT be the first hooker you fuck.. So get tested regularly to make sure you are safe to fuck your future GF or wife at home. Last thing you want her to know is to find out that you have been sleeping around because you gave her some STDs. Better yet, if you are in a commited relationship, consider CBJ as well, as covered-FS is default.
3. Be responsible (with your money and your time)
   • sooner or later you will get the "power of money" and how it can get another person to do things TO you. Like sucking your dick... cumming on her face.. and some may even swallow and let you fuck their ass.. so this excitement will and CAN be endless. And equally, if you don't control your desires.. you will likely spend all your money on your dick... So before you even consider fucking a girl.. I would give yourself a budget... perhaps every week or every month.. and that's will be your whore money.. and if you go over that.. stop. With time, make sure you know what your priorities are, if you have family, don't miss important dates because you are going to see a hooker.
4. Don't let your emotions mix with a provider
   • she's in for the money.. you are in to fuck your pussy.. NO MORE. There will be no doubt over the years.. you will have a provider you like or even LOVE.. but relationship like this.. doesn't matter how hard you try will never work... Sooner or later when you are in an argument with her.. you will bring up/remember the fact that she is a whore once.. and you may even have image of her fucking or sucking other guy's dick... probably more trouble that its worth for you. Fuck her at face value that she is a hooker.. and find a nice homey girl to marry.
5. Be respectful... (to women)
   • Sooner or later you will have found girlfriend.. be sure to make the distinction that the one you have at home is NOT the ones you fuck outside. And make the distinction of having sex and making love.. the end result may be bliss when you cum.. but the feelings associated is definitely different. It's like eating a $200 meal vs Mcdonalds... both can make you full.. but you enjoy and savour the $200 meal and Mcd's just get you full not to mention the effort going into that $200-meal is not the same as the assembly-line at Mcd's.
6. Be discreet
   • Unless you have a mate that you go whoring with, I suggest you to keep this hobby to yourself and off your phone. You don't want anyone to judge you, or worst yet, have your SO (significant other) find out that you are whoring because you wrote a bunch of reviews for Terb.

Some of the stuff is similar to what others have said before.. I put it in my own words... my 2 cents.

Truth.

 

[Sonic Temple]

Reading some of these reminded me a couple weeks ago, a new wolf was asking me for advice about hobbying....

I wrote him almost like a 10-commendments.. like a few of the old bros that responded, I have been hobbying for like 15+ years..

Here are a few things to watch out for to NOT fuck your life up...

1. Be safe
   • no matter how much you like the provider or how much trust you have with her.. she still fucks other guys for money.. Don't SKIN it with her.. always wear a condom... getting Clym and Gonno are easy stuff.. but you definitely don't want to catch Hep B, Herpes or HIV. I am sure most guys here have caught it at least once.. just because they don't talk about it.. doesn't mean it won't happen. And sometimes the girl don't even know she has it because she is working when there is no symptoms during her incubation period.
2. Get tested regularly
   • chances are... this will NOT be the first hooker you fuck.. So get tested regularly to make sure you are safe to fuck your future GF or wife at home. Last thing you want her to know is to find out that you have been sleeping around because you gave her some STDs. Better yet, if you are in a commited relationship, consider CBJ as well, as covered-FS is default.
3. Be responsible (with your money and your time)
   • sooner or later you will get the "power of money" and how it can get another person to do things TO you. Like sucking your dick... cumming on her face.. and some may even swallow and let you fuck their ass.. so this excitement will and CAN be endless. And equally, if you don't control your desires.. you will likely spend all your money on your dick... So before you even consider fucking a girl.. I would give yourself a budget... perhaps every week or every month.. and that's will be your whore money.. and if you go over that.. stop. With time, make sure you know what your priorities are, if you have family, don't miss important dates because you are going to see a hooker.
4. Don't let your emotions mix with a provider
   • she's in for the money.. you are in to fuck your pussy.. NO MORE. There will be no doubt over the years.. you will have a provider you like or even LOVE.. but relationship like this.. doesn't matter how hard you try will never work... Sooner or later when you are in an argument with her.. you will bring up/remember the fact that she is a whore once.. and you may even have image of her fucking or sucking other guy's dick... probably more trouble that its worth for you. Fuck her at face value that she is a hooker.. and find a nice homey girl to marry.
5. Be respectful... (to women)
   • Sooner or later you will have found girlfriend.. be sure to make the distinction that the one you have at home is NOT the ones you fuck outside. And make the distinction of having sex and making love.. the end result may be bliss when you cum.. but the feelings associated is definitely different. It's like eating a $200 meal vs Mcdonalds... both can make you full.. but you enjoy and savour the $200 meal and Mcd's just get you full not to mention the effort going into that $200-meal is not the same as the assembly-line at Mcd's.
6. Be discreet
   • Unless you have a mate that you go whoring with, I suggest you to keep this hobby to yourself and off your phone. You don't want anyone to judge you, or worst yet, have your SO (significant other) find out that you are whoring because you wrote a bunch of reviews for Terb.

Some of the stuff is similar to what others have said before.. I put it in my own words... my 2 cents.

Well said mate!

 

[Clean@jerk]

I never said I didn’t treat them right or respectfully. I’m simply pointing out facts. It’s a paid sexual service. That’s it. And all of you are missing my point because you can’t get past your egos. I’m done trying to explain.

That's not the point I was trying to make. What I was trying to say, you come off as having such a low opinion of what you and the ladies are doing, so if you have moral issues with it, then stop.
Take it for what it is. For some, it's therapeutic no need to analyze it in depth.

Of course, I would never believe the sps have feelings for you, but dont also think that all will despise you.

Some have gone out of heir way to make me happy and its not all about getting some weird extra service some guys are into.

Terms like wolf's and Hobby sound pathetic.

 

[greg_c]

Family life is over rated

+1 to hobbing

Enjoy it while its still doable.

Im afraid with all the rights of men going down the toilet over time, you never know what we take for granted (e.g. being able to see decent SPs easily here, is eliminated)

 

[Daddy2021]

That's not the point I was trying to make. What I was trying to say, you come off as having such a low opinion of what you and the ladies are doing, so if you have moral issues with it, then stop.
Take it for what it is. For some, it's therapeutic no need to analyze it in depth.

Of course, I would never believe the sps have feelings for you, but dont also think that all will despise you.

Some have gone out of heir way to make me happy and its not all about getting some weird extra service some guys are into.

Terms like wolf's and Hobby sound pathetic.

Low opinion??? Lol don’t assume. I was not implying that at all. No where did I indicate I felt i thought poorly of these ladies. In fact it’s the opposite. You’re reaching instead of just looking at the facts. It’s most you the guys in here with the false sense of accomplishment I’m scoffing at. The ladies in the other hand I admire and respect. They have to deal with the likes of us.

 

[Daddy2021]

Low opinion??? Lol don’t assume. I was not implying that at all. No where did I indicate I felt i thought poorly of these ladies. In fact it’s the opposite. You’re teaching instead of just looking at the facts. It’s most you the guys in here with the false sense of accomplishment I’m scoffing at. The ladies in the other hand I admire and respect. They have to deal with the likes of us

That's not the point I was trying to make. What I was trying to say, you come off as having such a low opinion of what you and the ladies are doing, so if you have moral issues with it, then stop.
Take it for what it is. For some, it's therapeutic no need to analyze it in depth.

Of course, I would never believe the sps have feelings for you, but dont also think that all will despise you.

Some have gone out of heir way to make me happy and its not all about getting some weird extra service some guys are into.

Terms like wolf's and Hobby sound pathetic.

i also never claimed they despise us. Wow you really jump to conclusions don’t you ? I said they are NOT for the most part sexually attracted to us or have any initial desire for the sexual services they provide us. If you take despise from that then you are the one with the problems. Not them and not me. Have a good day

 

[sammy1076]

If you’re young, talk to women in real life, develop relationships and have sex. This is the easy way out, 2 texts and you can get an SP anytime when you’re older. The satisfaction of having sex with a women where you are both attracted to each other cannot be matched by any SP encounter in my opinion.

 

[Clean@jerk]

Ok, sure, I do jump to conclusions. My apologies.

 

[sammy1076]

So you just give up and pay for sex? Heard the dating apps excuse a million times. Men these days are not real men anymore. Give up too easily.

Good advice but easier said then done. Dating apps have changed and in my opinion ruined the dating scene for young men like myself and others.

 

[sammy1076]

Are you actively in the dating scene? Have you dated women in the last 5 to 8 years? If not then with all due respect you shouldn't say anything. Also is regular sex truly free? You're paying for dates to essentially get laid.

Yes, yes and No.Not here to argue. Good luck. Cheers.

 

[SexConnoisseur]

I seriously wonder what demographic majority of hobbyists fall under. I used to think it was all rich white men (no offence, just following stereotypes) but after having been on this board for awhile, I realize it’s very diverse. Are you all rich/wealthy businessmen or blue collar working types? Regardless of your financial status, hobbying is is additive & not a sustainable habit.

 

[Carfreak1971]

Everyone hobbies for different reasons at different stages of their life. We pay for different reasons. Whether to satisfy a fetish or fantasy or whatever. I'm an older guy that's divorced and have no interest in relationships. I pay to leave. When I close the door I leave any expectations that would come with relationships behind. To the op I would say enjoy what we do. Don't fall in love ,be mindful that it is fantasy and above all else keep it to yourself. Nothing good will come from sharing.

 

[twoteeshots]

Are you actively in the dating scene? Have you dated women in the last 5 to 8 years? If not then with all due respect you shouldn't say anything. Also is regular sex truly free? You're paying for dates to essentially get laid.

Personally, I think you're giving up prematurely. I had a bit of luck with Hinge and Bumble. The reason I stopped was because I wasn't able to distinguish sex with a civilian and segzz with an SP. I ghosted all the girls after getting in once or twice and I realize I'm not the dog I think I am. I felt terrible when they confronted me if I had used them because they caught some feelings, I guess.

I have a friend that is probably even pushing 50 soon. Out of shape, rude, does drugs but he still gets pussy. Why? Because he plays the odds. Lol despite how nasty of a person you are, no way 100 women in a row will turn you down if you're even half presentable. Is the quality of these women great? Absolutely not but it's the crowd he attracts now at this age. You're still young and so is your crowd. Take your chances now rather than let time pass you by and you're still hitting cougar bars in your 40s and 50s. This piece of advice here applies to all aspects of life. If you ask for something, the worst thing that'll happen is they say NO! Best thing that CAN happen is they say YES.

 

[Blahblahblah1617]

Reading some of these reminded me a couple weeks ago, a new wolf was asking me for advice about hobbying....

I wrote him almost like a 10-commendments.. like a few of the old bros that responded, I have been hobbying for like 15+ years..

Here are a few things to watch out for to NOT fuck your life up...

1. Be safe
   • no matter how much you like the provider or how much trust you have with her.. she still fucks other guys for money.. Don't SKIN it with her.. always wear a condom... getting Clym and Gonno are easy stuff.. but you definitely don't want to catch Hep B, Herpes or HIV. I am sure most guys here have caught it at least once.. just because they don't talk about it.. doesn't mean it won't happen. And sometimes the girl don't even know she has it because she is working when there is no symptoms during her incubation period.
2. Get tested regularly
   • chances are... this will NOT be the first hooker you fuck.. So get tested regularly to make sure you are safe to fuck your future GF or wife at home. Last thing you want her to know is to find out that you have been sleeping around because you gave her some STDs. Better yet, if you are in a commited relationship, consider CBJ as well, as covered-FS is default.
3. Be responsible (with your money and your time)
   • sooner or later you will get the "power of money" and how it can get another person to do things TO you. Like sucking your dick... cumming on her face.. and some may even swallow and let you fuck their ass.. so this excitement will and CAN be endless. And equally, if you don't control your desires.. you will likely spend all your money on your dick... So before you even consider fucking a girl.. I would give yourself a budget... perhaps every week or every month.. and that's will be your whore money.. and if you go over that.. stop. With time, make sure you know what your priorities are, if you have family, don't miss important dates because you are going to see a hooker.
4. Don't let your emotions mix with a provider
   • she's in for the money.. you are in to fuck your pussy.. NO MORE. There will be no doubt over the years.. you will have a provider you like or even LOVE.. but relationship like this.. doesn't matter how hard you try will never work... Sooner or later when you are in an argument with her.. you will bring up/remember the fact that she is a whore once.. and you may even have image of her fucking or sucking other guy's dick... probably more trouble that its worth for you. Fuck her at face value that she is a hooker.. and find a nice homey girl to marry.
5. Be respectful... (to women)
   • Sooner or later you will have found girlfriend.. be sure to make the distinction that the one you have at home is NOT the ones you fuck outside. And make the distinction of having sex and making love.. the end result may be bliss when you cum.. but the feelings associated is definitely different. It's like eating a $200 meal vs Mcdonalds... both can make you full.. but you enjoy and savour the $200 meal and Mcd's just get you full not to mention the effort going into that $200-meal is not the same as the assembly-line at Mcd's.
6. Be discreet
   • Unless you have a mate that you go whoring with, I suggest you to keep this hobby to yourself and off your phone. You don't want anyone to judge you, or worst yet, have your SO (significant other) find out that you are whoring because you wrote a bunch of reviews for Terb.

Some of the stuff is similar to what others have said before.. I put it in my own words... my 2 cents.

CBJ always. You guys love to play with fire and get BBJs. You can catch an STD with BBJ and ruin your whole fucking life! Not sure what you guys on here are thinking when asking about BBJs or only getting BBJs. Get some Skyn condoms ultra thin for CBJs and you’ll sleep better at night.

 

[Abcd95958888]

Are the girls in agencies tested regularly or is the answer "it depends"?

 

[RavenX]

Facts. I started doing this hobby almost 5 years ago when I was 25 because I was never great with women and they were never attracted to me. Now stuck and lately using SPs doesn't feel fulfilling to me anymore. Maybe I'm looking for real affection and intimacy from a women

Once u get married for a few years ur intimacy will be ur pillow and dominant hand unless u hobby; i recommend a bamboo pillow, and it doesn't snore or talk;

 

[justme86]

I've personally had one nice lady while out of town honestly for a time kill cause I was left alone at a hotel while a buddy worked... sure was great to get out of town but boredom set in horribly... however because my small town has an adult spa I was kinda looking for that same feeling so I tried an escort.. could be something I'll dabble in on occasion. But I've mainly stuck with my spa treatments lol. Basically I get rubbed by woman that would never get a chance with ever. But it's been like a confidence booster of such an overall amazing experiences thus far. Maybe I'll branch out but again I have a small town some sketchy ads an places when inquired..so time will tell.

 

[King1984]

Are the girls in agencies tested regularly or is the answer "it depends"?

It depends... Some ladies are clean and they will go get tested for the small stuff every 3 months.. and the big stuff every 6... but the reality for the ladies is the same as guys.. if there are no symptoms some may not even go get tested... Even if the girls are tested regularly.. there is still a risk.. problem is... even when you are infected the symptoms don't show up and you ARE contigeous during that incubation period.. and by the time the symptoms are in full swing you have already spread it around... its no different than a common cold or sore throat... by the time you "feel" the symptoms.. the infection actually took place days ago...

CBJ always. You guys love to play with fire and get BBJs. You can catch an STD with BBJ and ruin your whole fucking life! Not sure what you guys on here are thinking when asking about BBJs or only getting BBJs. Get some Skyn condoms ultra thin for CBJs and you’ll sleep better at night.

And yes.. this is the safest bet.

 

[Goodoer]

I think hobbying has reinforced my lack of ability to cum... I'll have chance with a new SP (and I do so), but with a repeat, it is tough. With my wife it is downright impossible. She's hot when she awakens from her sexual slumber, but I get no results except staying hard for 1+ hours.

I've always been able to go forever, but it is now a horrible issue. I can't even sign up to do porn as I'll never deliver the money shot.