ED after first visit in a while?

Jsky7

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Not sure if it's because of my death grips or because I fapped earlier in the day of the session.
I wasn't able to stay hard at all and it was really embarrassing.
Any suggestions/tips?
 
To add to the questions above….

has this happened before?

If yes…. Are you able to get hard with porn easily, and have a tougher time with real person?
 
How old are you?
Are you overweight?
Any medical conditions?
Don’t fap the same day.

Late 20s.
Slightly overweight.
No medical conditions.

To add to the questions above….

has this happened before?

If yes…. Are you able to get hard with porn easily, and have a tougher time with real person?

With my GF a long time ago.
But yes, with porn it's relatively easy, much more difficult in person and I don't feel much (but that's probably because of death grips)
 
Late 20s.
Slightly overweight.
No medical conditions.



With my GF a long time ago.
But yes, with porn it's relatively easy, much more difficult in person and I don't feel much (but that's probably because of death grips)

This is about 15 mins. Even if it’s not the problem, it is really interesting.

 
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One session I would not worry too much.

It happened to me when the girl really did not attracted me. And once or twice when it was a group event...

Try again but this time no fap. And do not worry about it.
 
I use viagra just for this. I dont have any problems at home, I masturbate 5 times a day at least.

I just get nervous sometimes when visiting an incall. Sometimes you have to stand around waiting for a while, especially in the cold, and by the time I get in I can't perform. It usually isn't an issue but if I havent seen anyone in a few weeks especially, or it's a new location I've never been to, I do get nervous.
 
Not sure if it's because of my death grips or because I fapped earlier in the day of the session.
I wasn't able to stay hard at all and it was really embarrassing.
Any suggestions/tips?
try intermittent fasting or daily running/walking...definitely would help
also don't sweat it - it happens to all men at one point or another...ur not a robot
 
try intermittent fasting or daily running/walking...definitely would help
also don't sweat it - it happens to all men at one point or another...ur not a robot
@Jsky7 , the exercising will definitely help. Cardio especially. High Intensity Interval Training (HIIT) is especially effective. This type of cardio has the bonus effect of dilating then relaxing the blood vessels. This is exactly what you need for stronger erections. And this type of workout is very time efficient.

I had a very bad reaction to the covid vaccine (that is, myocarditis) and am now on insanely high doses of beta Blockers to slow my heart rate and lower my adrenaline levels. After three months of HIIT, I was able to maintain harder erections while still on the high dose beta blocker. What ever you do, only go the viagra/cialis route as your absolute last resort. You definitely don’t want to become dependent on that stuff.
 
Sounds like you were just a little nervous.
 
I use viagra just for this. I dont have any problems at home, I masturbate 5 times a day at least.

I just get nervous sometimes when visiting an incall. Sometimes you have to stand around waiting for a while, especially in the cold, and by the time I get in I can't perform. It usually isn't an issue but if I havent seen anyone in a few weeks especially, or it's a new location I've never been to, I do get nervous.


This is my problem. Major anxiety until I get to know the SP. That's why I don't like going to all different SP's. Just like to find one I click with, and stick with them. I even have to tell them that if I have trouble during the few meetings, it's not them it's me, and once I get a little more comfortable with them I'll be fine.
 
On a different nots, that's insane. Maybe you need to talk to someone...lol.

I definitely have a sex addiction. I can't go a week without seeing a sp. Some days I'm up to 7-9 times jerking off. It started because of working from home. I did rub one out occasionally in the washroom at work, but at home it's just too easy not to masturbate.
 
I definitely have a sex addiction. I can't go a week without seeing a sp. Some days I'm up to 7-9 times jerking off. It started because of working from home. I did rub one out occasionally in the washroom at work, but at home it's just too easy not to masturbate.
You’re going to think I’m crazy. In your life, you are likely spending too much time on lower priority/lower values in your life. And this is a form of escapism for you. The body & mind are smart. I had the same issue when I started working from home. If you care to know more, DM me.