Durham Recommendation

[jcharger86]

How about the best duo in Durham?

Jessica Rabbit isn’t available the day im in town.

 

[Jenesis]

I don't understand why I am unable to post my reply here and other girls can?

It is because you keep adding an ad to the post. In the post that was deleted, you had a jpeg picture in the post with a pic of you, your rates, your services. It is considered advertising in a non-advertising section.

You need to put that stuff in your signature. Not in posts, Then you won’t have your posts deleted.

Well yeah, they should expect less. But honestly, I don't see the problem with negotiating services and rates if it's done respectfully and in good faith.

These three examples, in my opinion, are simply inquiring about rates and services.

- I can't afford $200 tonight, do you have anything for $160?
- I'm only interested in oral, do you have a BnG rate?
- Does your $200 include Greek?

This, on the other hand, is just an asshole haggling.
AH - Can you do $160?
SP - Sorry, no.
AH - Come on, that's all you're worth in Durham
SP - Fuck off.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying providers are obligated to negotiate. I'm just answering Thumper's rhetorical question.

“I can't afford $200 tonight, do you have anything for $160? “ That is a haggle.

The other two examples are not. The difference, you know the rate and you ask for lower. That is automatic haggle. The other two are service related questions.

Also asking for a 45 mins rate is a rate inquiry so not a haggle on price. That is the difference there.

 

[justplainbob]

“I can't afford $200 tonight, do you have anything for $160? “ That is a haggle.
The other two examples are not. The difference, you know the rate and you ask for lower. That is automatic haggle. The other two are service related questions.

I disagree, but just on semantics. "Do you have anything for $160?" to me means do you offer any other service (less time, uglier duo partner, whatever) for $160. Not "will you do the same services for $160?" I can see where the wording would likely be interpreted incorrectly though. Maybe "I only have $160, do you offer anything in my budget?".

Or even just "sorry, that's too much for me" and leave it there. A couple times I've had a girl respond with "how much can you afford?" Of course this was after they gave a ridiculous rate to start with, and to me it screams scam, but I suppose a legit provider who is otherwise not busy might be interested.

 

[foxxxy lady]

How about the best duo in Durham?

Jessica Rabbit isn’t available the day im in town.

I am sorry

 

[justplainbob]

How about the best duo in Durham?

Jessica Rabbit isn’t available the day im in town.

I normally would have said Kaydence and Kyla, but Kaydence has only been advertising solo the last couple weeks so not sure if it's still available.

 

[justplainbob]

^^^^^^^ Hey to each their own. But if you say do you have anything for $160... personally I take that as a respect thing. I've been in this hobby now for 7 years or so and during that time I have NEVER, EVER thought about negotiating. The girls come in this business at the bottom (pay scale) and built a client base and reputation. I show my respect by gifting (usually baking) for my regulars and being prompt, leaving on time and treating the girls I meet like angels. Agencies and Independents in their ads advertise their price... when you ask the girl if she has anything for $160 I think it's a lack of respect. But as I said to each their own.

Actually, very few independents advertise all of the possible services, times, and rates combinations that are available. That's really my point here. Asking politely if there's something available that wasn't in the ad isn't disrespectful, in my opinion.

So a girl posts an ad at $200/hr, and maybe I only have $160 or maybe I only have enough time for 45 minutes.

1. Can you do anything for $160?
2. Can you do 45 minutes for $160?
3. Could you do 45 minutes instead?

I get why #1 is bad - 95% of those questions are people haggling, so there's guilt by association.

What I find interesting here is that most people think that only #2 is acceptable - the guy proposing both an alternative service and price is OK, but only proposing the service and letting the girl offer a price isn't.

At any rate, this began as response to a rhetorical question and some hypotheticals. I'm going to wander away now since the thread has grown too long to make that obvious anymore.

 

[Paul1971]

Actually, very few independents advertise all of the possible services, times, and rates combinations that are available. That's really my point here. Asking politely if there's something available that wasn't in the ad isn't disrespectful, in my opinion.

So a girl posts an ad at $200/hr, and maybe I only have $160 or maybe I only have enough time for 45 minutes.

1. Can you do anything for $160?
2. Can you do 45 minutes for $160?
3. Could you do 45 minutes instead?

I get why #1 is bad - 95% of those questions are people haggling, so there's guilt by association.

What I find interesting here is that most people think that only #2 is acceptable - the guy proposing both an alternative service and price is OK, but only proposing the service and letting the girl offer a price isn't.

At any rate, this began as response to a rhetorical question and some hypotheticals. I'm going to wander away now since the thread has grown too long to make that obvious anymore.

Well Mates. I have to chime in here. Best providers in Durham are my favourites kitty and Tina. Hands down in looks service and price. Nikky in Pickering is top 5 but out of my price range to be a regular. Mimi is wonderful. And Samantha from Pickering outstanding as well. I like slim only beautiful faces only and perfect service which is absolutely affordable given the covid crisis.

 

[Bud123]

Is Adrianna still around?