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I did reply. Just agreed we should stay in touch. Problem is the husband. lol. I was thinking of telling her a couple of times at work that if she wasn't married I would be hitting on her, but in these days of extreme correctness I didn't try to step in shit.
Workplace or not makes a big, big difference. The husband though :unsure: ...
 
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Workplace or not makes a big, big difference. The husband though :unsure: ...
It won't hurt to find out. Maybe she wants to set you up with someone.
 
I have decided to leave it. The husband is the reason I never made a move on her before so there's that reality check. Also I do have some morals. Most women aren't that starved for cock that they would risk wrecking their lives for it. I tend to subscribe to the broadly preached thesis on youtube these days "don't chase women".
It got me going to get the text. Probably has some ulterior motive to keep me on the backburner in case she needs me to do some kind of chore for her in the future. It was just that I was thinking in the 24 hours prior to getting the text " I wish she would text me" lol.
 
I did reply. Just agreed we should stay in touch. Problem is the husband. lol. I was thinking of telling her a couple of times at work that if she wasn't married I would be hitting on her, but in these days of extreme correctness I didn't try to step in shit.

In the beginning, I would have suggested that you confess the above to her now, since she's no longer working there. You did the right thing not to mention it while she was working there.
But then you sent the dick pic. Game over.
Nobody knows if you had a chance at all, especially with the husband and all... but the dick pic definitely burned your bridges.

Sorry, mate.
 
Having sex with some other man's wife is terrific.

Eh...
I've done it...her husband found out and confronted me. They eventually seperated....I've always felt like shit afterwards. Never again.

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Careful. A week or so ago i textd my boss
About being off and she said she was too and I should come over help her move dirt. I immediately assumed I'm getting some. I even wore sleeveless shirt to show off my arms.... Nope!

Strictly to help with manual labour. All i got was a hug and her wearing slightly revealing outfit.
 
She could have sent it to many colleagues, it's always good for people to not burn bridges, and have social networks in the work setting.

If she sent it to other people as well, that's probably what it is. Find out.

If she sent it only to you, try to exchange some texts (ask her how she's doing), and see the tone of the text. If there are a lot of emojis and exclamation marks, and the general tone is flirtatious, then take it to the next level. Ask her out for dinner and see what the response is. From there, it should be easy to see if she's into you.
Dinner will not work with married woman. Gotta keep those as daytime lunches and trysts if you get to that point. Dinner too much associated with cheating in the sense that friends of husband also are a risk. If they see former colleagues at lunch most won’t think twice. If they see two of you at dinner, that’s more of something to note.
 
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In the beginning, I would have suggested that you confess the above to her now, since she's no longer working there. You did the right thing not to mention it while she was working there.
But then you sent the dick pic. Game over.
Nobody knows if you had a chance at all, especially with the husband and all... but the dick pic definitely burned your bridges.

Sorry, mate.
The dick pick remark was a joke. What is wrong with you?
 
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Encouraged by all the well wishers I upped my game and sent her a dick pic. :) Seems to have gone quiet all of a sudden.
Anyway. I think I was having one of my Walter Mitty moments. I was just surprised by the anomaly of getting a text out of the blue. I wasn't really part of her social network. Thus the surprise. Probably got some heavy boxes to move with my name on them. If there wasn't a husband involved I would jump in and take a chance
 
Eh...
I've done it...her husband found out and confronted me. They eventually seperated....I've always felt like shit afterwards. Never again.

@OP

Careful. A week or so ago i textd my boss
About being off and she said she was too and I should come over help her move dirt. I immediately assumed I'm getting some. I even wore sleeveless shirt to show off my arms.... Nope!

Strictly to help with manual labour. All i got was a hug and her wearing slightly revealing outfit.
You didn’t ask to use her shower to freshen up?
 
I did reply. Just agreed we should stay in touch. Problem is the husband. lol. I was thinking of telling her a couple of times at work that if she wasn't married I would be hitting on her, but in these days of extreme correctness I didn't try to step in shit.

Perhaps she subscribes to the Bill Clinton School of Morality in which 'Eatin' ain't cheatin''?

I had just naturally assumed that you were retired from the workforce, as some of your reminiscences suggest that you should be past mandatory retirement age by now. Have you been using Amanda LaBelle's time machine?
 
Dinner will not work with married woman. Gotta keep those as daytime lunches and trysts if you get to that point. Dinner too much associated with cheating in the sense that friends of husband also are a risk. If they see former colleagues at lunch most won’t think twice. If they see two of you at dinner, that’s more of something to note.


 
Perhaps she subscribes to the Bill Clinton School of Morality in which 'Eatin' ain't cheatin''?

I had just naturally assumed that you were retired from the workforce, as some of your reminiscences suggest that you should be past mandatory retirement age by now. Have you been using Amanda LaBelle's time machine?
LOL. I should have been retired by now. I blame my younger self. (Idiot retard drunk) Yes. Time machine would be nice.
 
Don't read too much into why she reached out to you. Meet for a casual drink and/or meal - lunch or dinner - and just talk and get a feel for the vibe she's sending. She's either staying in touch with you as a former co-worker/friend or if the "vibe is right" when you meet, she may be looking for a FWB. And if it's the latter, then your wish is coming true...but just don't do it at her place!!!

LTO_3
 
When she asks for a quid to mend the shed...run!
 
The related joke for this thread:

A very unattractive man is walking along the street in a residential area when a beautiful woman wearing only a sheer negligee runs up to him, grabs his arm, and says "Oh, you're perfect! Come home with me now!". The guy is puzzled, but decides to see where this will lead. They reach the woman's home, and she says "Follow me upstairs.". At the second floor, she says "The bedroom's at the end of the hall. C'mon!".

He follows her in, and see's a terrified young child in bed, trying to hide behind the covers. The woman says "Do you see? I told you I'd bring the boogieman if you won't eat your peas!".
 
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