Dry patch
- Thread starter leonard
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Hobby fatigue. With too much frequency, the thrill, excitement and satisfaction starts to wane. Maybe take a break for a month and start fresh. Your mojo is still there, it's just bored.
I think we’ve all been there. It sucks to bounce between Wow and Meh experiences… You may want an actual relationship…. If you have one, maybe focus on that a bit?
Same. Hobby fatigue started creeping up on me around fall of '20, and by Jan '21 (after an 8-year run) I thought I was done with it for good.
Then I met my ATF and had an amazing busy year with her, but eventually we parted ways this spring and I haven't regained the desire to see providers ever since.
Frankly, hobbying was/is a major distraction for me, and I realized that it was time to focus on my real life, not the fantasy one. No regrets.
Then I met my ATF and had an amazing busy year with her, but eventually we parted ways this spring and I haven't regained the desire to see providers ever since.
Frankly, hobbying was/is a major distraction for me, and I realized that it was time to focus on my real life, not the fantasy one. No regrets.
All genders have dry spells in every aspect of life. Covid didn't help many people and yet it did to the smart ones who took the advantage to work on themselves. I have seen it.
From my personal experience I learned that a person needs to take time out for Four months from constant activity or stimulation. I can give an Elite list of what to do but I learned not to bother.
SO here is a basic one.
1. Walk.
2. Eat healthy.
3. Partake on some other activity ( only one ) you never done before. [ Volunteer at food bank?]
4. Clean your house / declutter / detox. See #3.
From my personal experience I learned that a person needs to take time out for Four months from constant activity or stimulation. I can give an Elite list of what to do but I learned not to bother.
SO here is a basic one.
1. Walk.
2. Eat healthy.
3. Partake on some other activity ( only one ) you never done before. [ Volunteer at food bank?]
4. Clean your house / declutter / detox. See #3.
I've been going through a dry patch/ lack of motivation since Covid started.
Not afraid of getting Covid. Just seemed like when everything got shut down it was like the perfect way to cure an addiction(wasn't addicted). Really helped to calm theurge to see SP's or visit a strip club.
Now, I have seen 2 ladies since all the lockdowns ended this past spring, and been to the nudie bar. But not nearly as much as pre-covid.
Found things to keep me busy especially during the summer.
Not afraid of getting Covid. Just seemed like when everything got shut down it was like the perfect way to cure an addiction(wasn't addicted). Really helped to calm theurge to see SP's or visit a strip club.
Now, I have seen 2 ladies since all the lockdowns ended this past spring, and been to the nudie bar. But not nearly as much as pre-covid.
Found things to keep me busy especially during the summer.
