donation after discussion and agreement?

[nmjhfg3876]

I just read the description of a guys' visit to an SP.
The guy said: "I gave the donation and then we sat down and discussed about what we had agreed over the phone".
"But then the SP said that this was not what they had agreed over the phone and she was asking for extra donation".
My question is:
I thought one would discuss first about what will be included during the visit, and only after that proceeds with the donation, therefore keeping the option of leaving if one does not agree?
Thanks

 

[Cowboy Kenny]

The situation you describe sounds like the one I wrote about here http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?p=6979

Normally yes, the scenario you described would be the norm. As I also wrote she demanded the money right away, not a good sign sure, but also it served as a mechanism to calm her odd behavior down, at that point I new the money was gone and was fine with it. It's just paper don't risk getting yourself into a sticky situation or potentially dangerous or harmful one. If you can't afford to loose the money to a bad encounter then it's best not to play the game. If the provider is not as described and clearly bait and switch, leave, just turn around and go. If there's a disagreement about services, offer her some money for her time and leave, but never aruge over money, it's just not worth the trouble and in the end anyone who does pull this sort of stunt clearly needs the money to help them cope with whatever their situation might be. Yeah I should know better, I dunno I guess I was drawn to her Shannon Doherty looks, of which she did not look like when I met her.

 

[nmjhfg3876]

Thank you Kenny and Sweet Jessica for your valuable advice.
Sweet Jessica, you have a very nice web site.
Kenny too (very helpful).