Doing my best to be nice to the ladies

[digi_7e]

Hey all,

Relatively new to the club (less than a year) and feeling weird asking this but do you guys when you meet any of the ladies, do you do your best to make them orgasm too or do you just do your thing and not care about them?
With all respect to all the amazing ladies, I feel they are mostly faking it so I just do my own thing and enjoy but sometimes I feel guilty thinking they also wanna orgasm.
Any thoughts?

My other question is, I have seen some classy ladies from tryst and I am a 100% straight guy who loves beautiful girls but I kinda freaked out when after the latest two ladies who claim they are filipino or chinese but their face screams Thai and when we hear Thai it comes to me all the transgender women especially that both 2 ladies i mentioned have rock solid boob enhancements (i dont like) .
With all respect to transgenders, I like only female-born ladies and I hope they disclose if they are trans in their profiles.

Is there a chance that I have actually been with transgender ladies?

Please dont judge, its just my preference.

 

[simp2000]

The biggest turn-on is giving them cash. That's all there is to it.

 

[digi_7e]

The biggest turn-on is giving them cash. That's all there is to it.

fair enough. I just wanted to be nice(er)

 

[massman]

Hey all,

Relatively new to the club (less than a year) and feeling weird asking this but do you guys when you meet any of the ladies, do you do your best to make them orgasm too or do you just do your thing and not care about them?
With all respect to all the amazing ladies, I feel they are mostly faking it so I just do my own thing and enjoy but sometimes I feel guilty thinking they also wanna orgasm.
Any thoughts?

My other question is, I have seen some classy ladies from tryst and I am a 100% straight guy who loves beautiful girls but I kinda freaked out when after the latest two ladies who claim they are filipino or chinese but their face screams Thai and when we hear Thai it comes to me all the transgender women especially that both 2 ladies i mentioned have rock solid boob enhancements (i dont like) .
With all respect to transgenders, I like only female-born ladies and I hope they disclose if they are trans in their profiles.

Is there a chance that I have actually been with transgender ladies?

Please dont judge, its just my preference.

1. Last question first. There is a minuscule chance you’ve been with a post op trans woman. And your immediate worry that someone who looks Thai may likely be trans is pretty racist TBH.
2. First question, just go with the flow, if you are doing something and she likes it and gets off, great. Just act with them like they are a person and not a fuck receptacle. Some girls will cum with clients, some will fake and some will do neither. Just focus on having a good time. I think a couple fair statements about girls who are in this industry are:1. They are here to make money, not just get sexual satisfaction 2. Having said that, a lot of them enjoy sex, and like their work, and that makes them good at it. 3. Some girls will have an orgasm with a client, lots won’t, but very few of any will be disappointed if they don’t. But they do like guys who treat them with respect, are clean and who live up to the agreed upon business arrangement.

 

[Paprika]

I usually just pretend to be a creep taking advantage of vulnerable young women in need of money, typical john stuff, nothing gross.

 

[digi_7e]

1. Last question first. There is a minuscule chance you’ve been with a post op trans woman. And your immediate worry that someone who looks Thai may likely be trans is pretty racist TBH.
2. First question, just go with the flow, if you are doing something and she likes it and gets off, great. Just act with them like they are a person and not a fuck receptacle. Some girls will cum with clients, some will fake and some will do neither. Just focus on having a good time. I think a couple fair statements about girls who are in this industry are:1. They are here to make money, not just get sexual satisfaction 2. Having said that, a lot of them enjoy sex, and like their work, and that makes them good at it. 3. Some girls will have an orgasm with a client, lots won’t, but very few of any will be disappointed if they don’t. But they do like guys who treat them with respect, are clean and who live up to the agreed upon business arrangement.

1- I am so sorry if I sounded racist. Truth is I am a sucker for all south east Asians - I am even married to one lol. its just in my mind that all trans are from Thailand - sorry again.

2- Seems like logic. I truly treat them with super respect and being super nice that they text me saying they had great time after the meeting.

 

[glamphotographer]

fair enough. I just wanted to be nice(er)

Give them more cash. LOL!

 

[massman]

1- I am so sorry if I sounded racist. Truth is I am a sucker for all south east Asians - I am even married to one lol. its just in my mind that all trans are from Thailand - sorry again.

2- Seems like logic. I truly treat them with super respect and being super nice that they text me saying they had great time after the meeting.

no worries, but you have a certain ethnic stereotype in your mind, that actually makes no logical sense. All of us have certain ingrained biases / assumptions about race/ ethnicity etc….
Sure the Thai “ladyboys” are known about, fetishized and some people into that scene will even travel specifically to Thailand to experience that. But Thailand is like 70 million people, and statistically speaking, half of them were born with XX chromosomes, so the odds of meeting a girl who “looks Thai” who is actually trans is exceedingly small (even if she has hard breast implants).

Like I said, relax, go with the flow and don’t worry too much. Focus on having a good time with another human. The rest will fall into place.

 

[escortsxxx]

Hey all,

Relatively new to the club (less than a year) and feeling weird asking this but do you guys when you meet any of the ladies, do you do your best to make them orgasm too or do you just do your thing and not care about them?
With all respect to all the amazing ladies, I feel they are mostly faking it so I just do my own thing and enjoy but sometimes I feel guilty thinking they also wanna orgasm.
Any thoughts?

My other question is, I have seen some classy ladies from tryst and I am a 100% straight guy who loves beautiful girls but I kinda freaked out when after the latest two ladies who claim they are filipino or chinese but their face screams Thai and when we hear Thai it comes to me all the transgender women especially that both 2 ladies i mentioned have rock solid boob enhancements (i dont like) .
With all respect to transgenders, I like only female-born ladies and I hope they disclose if they are trans in their profiles.

Is there a chance that I have actually been with transgender ladies?

Please dont judge, its just my preference.

If you can be nice why not?

 

[Jenesis]

1- I am so sorry if I sounded racist. Truth is I am a sucker for all south east Asians - I am even married to one lol. its just in my mind that all trans are from Thailand - sorry again.

That is what makes you racist and transphobic. It doesn’t “sound” like it. It is. You are.

Plenty of non-Thai transgender and plenty of cis-gendered Thai. I think you need to rethink your illogical logic on the matter. And maybe don’t say this to others outside of an anonymous forum.

Worrying about ladies cumming is the least of your worries if this is your regular day thinking.

Sorry but this type of ignorance in 2023 is just beyond ridiculous at this point. And to play innocent about it as if that absolves you of being racist and transphobic is also ridiculous.

I’m not saying that avoiding sleeping with a transgender makes you transphobic BTW. That is your right. 10000% but your attitude that all Thai’s are trans and that they are trying to scam you into fucking them is what makes it transphobic. Just to be clear for the men I’m going to piss off with this post.

 

[kherg007]

That is what makes you racist and transphobic. It doesn’t “sound” like it. It is. You are.

Plenty of non-Thai transgender and plenty of cis-gendered Thai. I think you need to rethink your illogical logic on the matter. And maybe don’t say this to others outside of an anonymous forum.

Worrying about ladies cumming is the least of your worries if this is your regular day thinking.

Sorry but this type of ignorance in 2023 is just beyond ridiculous at this point. And to play innocent about it as if that absolves you of being racist and transphobic is also ridiculous.

I’m not saying that avoiding sleeping with a transgender makes you transphobic BTW. That is your right. 10000% but your attitude that all Thai’s are trans and that they are trying to scam you into fucking them is what makes it transphobic. Just to be clear for the men I’m going to piss off with this post.

I love the anticipation of blowback Jenesis lol. Well done.
I'm more intrigued by the issue of the lady's pleasure. IMHO it is part of the fun to get them off. Particularly when I'm punching well above my weight. Also, the more aroused she is, the better it is for you. Let me explain.

This is part of a the bigger issue. You're dealing with human beings, not machines. You demand things, people react. You yell at an employee, you get compliance, but you build resentment. You bring that same employed along and make them feel part of the process, you get compliance but also get someone willing to put out for the team.

If you're kind, polite, squeaky clean, respectful, think of her...makes her feel more comfortable around you. The more comfortable she feels, the better it is for YOU. Not rocket science. Remember, you may know you're a good bloke. She doesn't know that. The more you can show it, the better. You show it being punctual, dropping the envelope, have the shower, ask before poking anything anywhere, ask her how things feel, being upbeat and happy. After all, you're sharing companionship with no strings with a lady you likely could not get with in civvie life - woohoo!

 

[bazokajoe]

1- I am so sorry if I sounded racist. Truth is I am a sucker for all south east Asians - I am even married to one lol. its just in my mind that all trans are from Thailand - sorry again.

2- Seems like logic. I truly treat them with super respect and being super nice that they text me saying they had great time after the meeting.

Your comment wasn't racist so don't worry about it.

 

[Fun For All]

That is what makes you racist and transphobic. It doesn’t “sound” like it. It is. You are.

Plenty of non-Thai transgender and plenty of cis-gendered Thai. I think you need to rethink your illogical logic on the matter. And maybe don’t say this to others outside of an anonymous forum.

Worrying about ladies cumming is the least of your worries if this is your regular day thinking.

Sorry but this type of ignorance in 2023 is just beyond ridiculous at this point. And to play innocent about it as if that absolves you of being racist and transphobic is also ridiculous.

I’m not saying that avoiding sleeping with a transgender makes you transphobic BTW. That is your right. 10000% but your attitude that all Thai’s are trans and that they are trying to scam you into fucking them is what makes it transphobic. Just to be clear for the men I’m going to piss off with this post.

You sure have a lot to say to others in such a judgemental self-righteous way.

 

[y2kmark]

Even if she has hard breast implants

Are there easy breast implants???

 

[Jenesis]

You sure have a lot to say to others in such a judgemental self-righteous way.

Meh - your opinion. It’s irrelevant to me.

 

[bummy41]

Just be nice to everyone. It's better for your soul. Stay classy

 

[Fun For All]

Meh - your opinion. It’s irrelevant to me.

And yet...you think your opinion matters to everybody.

 

[Jenesis]

And yet...you think your opinion matters to everybody.

Nope. I have never said that. I have actually said the opposite many times. Nice try though cupcake. Remember - you don’t have to read my posts. You can put me on ignore if you hate my opinions so much. I wasn’t even the only one who said it was racist, I wasn’t even the first person to say it was racist yet your sexist ass only goes after me.

Look - why don’t you let this obsession with me go. You intrupt all these thread all the time to make personal attempts at insulting me. It doesn’t work and just derails the thread. I mean if you feel the need to keep going - do you boo but it is getting really lame at this point.

Again, if you need, you can have the last word. It will be hilarious if you quote me twice to get a double last word in again. That was a fucking hoot and half when you did that last week. I mean what kind of person needs to quote someone twice to get the last word twice????? Like once was just not enough. You needed to come back for more. Too fucking funny.

Maybe do a triple last word this time just for funzies.

Until the next lame attempt in another thread - Laters pumpkin.

 

[Joyrection]

Hey all,

Relatively new to the club (less than a year) and feeling weird asking this but do you guys when you meet any of the ladies, do you do your best to make them orgasm too or do you just do your thing and not care about them?
With all respect to all the amazing ladies, I feel they are mostly faking it so I just do my own thing and enjoy but sometimes I feel guilty thinking they also wanna orgasm.
Any thoughts?

My other question is, I have seen some classy ladies from tryst and I am a 100% straight guy who loves beautiful girls but I kinda freaked out when after the latest two ladies who claim they are filipino or chinese but their face screams Thai and when we hear Thai it comes to me all the transgender women especially that both 2 ladies i mentioned have rock solid boob enhancements (i dont like) .
With all respect to transgenders, I like only female-born ladies and I hope they disclose if they are trans in their profiles.

Is there a chance that I have actually been with transgender ladies?

Please dont judge, its just my preference.

If the woman who is giving you head has an Adam's apple then you are getting blown by a guy. If she goes by the name Madame Butterfly and would not let you see or touch her naughty bits then she is probably a guy. If you go to a gloryhole in a men's washroom and get blown well odds are pretty good it was by avguy on the other side...good news is so long as you don't know or can't tell whether it was a man or woman gobbling your precious you are still straight...unless you were drinking Budlight.

 

[Fun For All]

Nope. I have never said that. I have actually said the opposite many times. Nice try though cupcake. Remember - you don’t have to read my posts. You can put me on ignore if you hate my opinions so much. I wasn’t even the only one who said it was racist, I wasn’t even the first person to say it was racist yet your sexist ass only goes after me.

Look - why don’t you let this obsession with me go. You intrupt all these thread all the time to make personal attempts at insulting me. It doesn’t work and just derails the thread. I mean if you feel the need to keep going - do you boo but it is getting really lame at this point.

Again, if you need, you can have the last word. It will be hilarious if you quote me twice to get a double last word in again. That was a fucking hoot and half when you did that last week. I mean what kind of person needs to quote someone twice to get the last word twice????? Like once was just not enough. You needed to come back for more. Too fucking funny.

Maybe do a triple last word this time just for funzies.

Until the next lame attempt in another thread - Laters pumpkin.

Wow sugerpie, pretty long response for someone that doesn’t care.