Does size matter?
- Thread starter Belle De Jour
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Yep, for me anyways. It's not something I'd go out of my way to comment on or be mean about, but for the sake of polling since the question was asked, the larger ladies don't do anything for me. It's not a negative reaction nor does it have anything to do what I think the experience would be like, my brain just doesn't make the connection to anything sexual and it's never considered.
Not sure if we'll see anything new in this thread but clearly size does matter and in terms of what individual preferences are , well to each their own. Look at the way advertising is skewed towards the "ideal" look. From a guys point of view how many of us that buy Calvin Klein underwear actually look like the models on the packaging? Of course the same applies to women as well. Take a look at this lady on Twitter: @LexiVixi . I think she looks incredible but how many woman do you think have a body like her? The truth is it takes enormous effort to look a 'certain' way and most people in my experience simply don't commit to putting in the work. To me it's a super turn on when I see someone spending a lot of time in the gym. But that's my preference.
Well Captain take a look at Tall Violetta Michelle @TallRedV
She's 6ft tall and will be touring in the Chicago area starting December 4th.
She is stunning!
Whatever what your size is if you get emotional and discourage reading this thread, this business is not for you. You have to embrace what you have, who you are and know your worth. Gentlemen who likes your type will contact you and those who don't just wont. It is not personal at all. Ashley Graham goes to the gym and so does Bella Hadid. There is nothing wrong with the men who likes petite lady and they don't bother the ones who likes larger ones. Time to put our emotions aside and be confident!
Does size matter
I wouldn't set store by what other providers are telling you whether we men like smaller or larger women. A chacun son gout. I for one would choose you or Cassidy Blythe or Isobelle or Jessica Rain over an emaciated Twiggy look- alike. What you pose as your final question is what really matters. What do I really look for, if size is not an issue? And here it is. For me personally what you bring to your boudoir in warmth, in energy, in enthusiasm and in passion is what really matters to me. So to all you plus sized ladies, please stop agonizing about your plus size because for many men like me that is a PLUS and not a detractor.
Perhaps you should learn from Jessica who is a master (er...mistress?) of marketing, on how to promote yourself.
And Jessie if you could brush up your cv to offer a course at the UOIT on: "How to Market a Larger than Life Woman!" I bet there will be no shortage of registrants.
Wishing all of you ladies the best wishes of the season and hoping that the Oshawa GM closure is not as bad for the region as it augurs.
Sweetheart Belle de Jour.I'm posting this out of curiosity. I'm very well aware that I'm a bigger girl. I've been told by other providers that most men prefer women that are smaller. I was just wondering if that's the case. I'll do my best to not be offended. Just wondering for how many of you this is a deal breaker. Also if size isn't an issue for you what would do you look for?
Thanks,
Belle
I wouldn't set store by what other providers are telling you whether we men like smaller or larger women. A chacun son gout. I for one would choose you or Cassidy Blythe or Isobelle or Jessica Rain over an emaciated Twiggy look- alike. What you pose as your final question is what really matters. What do I really look for, if size is not an issue? And here it is. For me personally what you bring to your boudoir in warmth, in energy, in enthusiasm and in passion is what really matters to me. So to all you plus sized ladies, please stop agonizing about your plus size because for many men like me that is a PLUS and not a detractor.
Perhaps you should learn from Jessica who is a master (er...mistress?) of marketing, on how to promote yourself.
And Jessie if you could brush up your cv to offer a course at the UOIT on: "How to Market a Larger than Life Woman!" I bet there will be no shortage of registrants.
Wishing all of you ladies the best wishes of the season and hoping that the Oshawa GM closure is not as bad for the region as it augurs.
As stated by others, variety is a nice feature of this life. I would rather a lady 10 lbs over than 10 lbs underweight. I had an ex gf who was bigger than Jessica or Belle who turned me onto appreciating the larger ladies (and for the record i think both of you have lovely, and quite sexy, pics). Pre internet era...set up by a mutual friend...phone calls but no pics available....lovely conversations, decide to meet for a date....she's cute but body was not the type I'd be attracted to. Nonetheless, liked her personality, one thing leads to the next (and maybe she being a bit more forward than I) drop the daks and get on the job...and....I was surprised how lovely and luscious it was to embrace those curves! That experience totally changed my mind about the bigger ladies, and I have booked accordingly. I think as long as some semblance of an hour glass I'm in. Thus rotating amongst the spinner, the beach volleyball, and the va va va voom voluptuous makes for a happy me.
Hi Belle
I love women of all body type, from skinny with a tight little ass and cute boobs to a small BBW, who's proportioned. Big titties big ass and thighs and hips. with a waist line, not a big belly, a little tummy is good tho.
But for me the most important thing is her personality, oh man that sounds weird lol. But sex appeal is most important.
I love a girl with big titties and ass, but if she's not cool and I feel like she doesn't want to fuck me then I'd much much rather spent my time with a cute little skinny girl
who will love me real hard for 1.5hrs, no massage required just real good hard loving lol.
plus the skinny ones because their so small, their small size make's it so,that you can really give them a tremendous pounding lol, doggie style with a skinny girl can be lots of fun. But I prefer bigger girls, nice and thick. Not fat, we all should know the difference. fat is not sexy or healthy.
There is something about a big sexy girl, who knows she's sexy, and she's turning you on, that is super fuckin hot. I love it.
Aside from all that I'd rather spent most of my free time with big titties and asses and such, but sex appeal is king.
Good luck Belle, you big sexy little thing lol
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-Shooter75
I love women of all body type, from skinny with a tight little ass and cute boobs to a small BBW, who's proportioned. Big titties big ass and thighs and hips. with a waist line, not a big belly, a little tummy is good tho.
But for me the most important thing is her personality, oh man that sounds weird lol. But sex appeal is most important.
I love a girl with big titties and ass, but if she's not cool and I feel like she doesn't want to fuck me then I'd much much rather spent my time with a cute little skinny girl
who will love me real hard for 1.5hrs, no massage required just real good hard loving lol.
plus the skinny ones because their so small, their small size make's it so,that you can really give them a tremendous pounding lol, doggie style with a skinny girl can be lots of fun. But I prefer bigger girls, nice and thick. Not fat, we all should know the difference. fat is not sexy or healthy.
There is something about a big sexy girl, who knows she's sexy, and she's turning you on, that is super fuckin hot. I love it.
Aside from all that I'd rather spent most of my free time with big titties and asses and such, but sex appeal is king.
Good luck Belle, you big sexy little thing lol
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-Shooter75
Mostly it comes down to confidence and sex appeal. Anyone, male or female that feels good, feels sexy... then they are. Marilyn Monroe is an icon of sex appeal and she wasn’t a spinner.
Oddly enough I’m actually fit and slimmer, and my only concern would be that a bigger girl wouldn’t be interested because I’d be too slim for them. I get hit on or comments from spinners regularly enough, but never much interest shown by the bigger girls.
I like shorter women who carry whatever weight they have like they own it.
The line in this video is around 5:16
Oddly enough I’m actually fit and slimmer, and my only concern would be that a bigger girl wouldn’t be interested because I’d be too slim for them. I get hit on or comments from spinners regularly enough, but never much interest shown by the bigger girls.
I like shorter women who carry whatever weight they have like they own it.
The line in this video is around 5:16
How do the guys feel about your strap on lolAs long as you know how to swing your sword that’s all that matters! I’ve had smaller guys do things with their hips and reach angles a bigger guy can’t get to. Sometimes too big hurts. Then there is also the opposite effect where a bigger guy feels great and a smaller guy not so much. It all really depends on the individual and their thrust.
The ladies love my thrust when I use my strap on!
I like all heights but have a thing for body proportion, all other characteristics (personality, etc) being equal. So a woman can be slim and toned - but without the proportion between shoulder/bust/hip/waist that I find attractive, I'm not that interested. Conversely, if a woman is larger - I'm still attracted if the proportions work out. I know that some people say hip/waist ratio is a big thing - but it's more than just that.
Eg: In this photo, I think they all have similar hip/waist ratios but I find the first woman sized 10 and the woman sized 12 to have attractive proportions for me.
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Eg: In this photo, I think they all have similar hip/waist ratios but I find the first woman sized 10 and the woman sized 12 to have attractive proportions for me.
Your funny, that make's you more sexy
I'm not into pegging tho
Do you offer foot fetishworship stuff? that's always a deal breaker for me
-Shooter75
