Does hobbying get boring?

thumper18474

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There were times when the urge to play consumed me
2-3 ladies a week for 2-3 hours at a time
After I was diagnosed a second time with Cancer..the drive to play dwindled...it picked up again only to take a nose dive after my 3rd go round with CA.
The original drive never returned and my 2nd wind after round 2 has not returned.
I've found my sweet spot now with 4-5 ladies so if/when I get the urge to play ...I stick with them.
But I never get bored with those 4-5 that I do see
 

dtt

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I popped off a lot more this month for my birthday and did like on average 2 times a week and not gonna lie, I may have gotten to the point where the novelty has worn off. I'm sure when I reduce my frequency back to 1-2 times a month or expand my variety the excitement will be back though.
 

dchoye

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If bored, May want to save money and spend it in international trip to European FKK, Thailand , Tijuana or some other sex destination just experience something new and exciting
 
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dtt

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If bored, May want to save money and spend it in international trip to European FKK, Thailand , Tijuana or some other sex destination just experience something new and exciting
I got a trip to Japan next month, so may find myself exploring a soapland
 
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Tony2000

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A good role play helps to ease boredom.
Some of my favourites are the job interview, teacher/student, fitness instructor.
Bar pickup is a lot of fun too.
 
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dchoye

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A good role play helps to ease boredom.
Some of my favourites are the job interview, teacher/student, fitness instructor.
Bar pickup is a lot of fun too.
I did a teacher-student in detention room
Doctor -patient looking for breast implants
No set script just improv and be creative and make it fun
 
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Tinmachine

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Ive seen lots of girls over the years and have been seeing this beautiful woman in the Hammer for about and a year and a bit now. Hot, charming and makes u feel at home. Seen her 7-8 x which is the longest I've repeated with anyone. However I've noticed last few times I couldnt finish inside her and had to use the whole one hand special to get to the finish line. All fun but bothers me I can't cum inside her. Am i getting bored? Is it me? I'm over 50. Both? I'm going to see someone else next time to see how it goes. If I burst my load no problem it may be time to move on with the regular.
 
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Paprika

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Ive seen lots of girls over the years and have been seeing this beautiful woman in the Hammer for about and a year and a bit now. Hot, charming and makes u feel at home. Seen her 7-8 x which is the longest I've repeated with anyone. However I've noticed last few times I couldnt finish inside her and had to use the whole one hand special to get to the finish line. All fun but bothers me I can't cum inside her. Am i getting bored? Is it me? I'm over 50. Both? I'm going to see someone else next time to see how it goes. If I burst my load no problem it may be time to move on with the regular.
I think there is nothing wrong with you. Too much familiarity, like watching the same porn again and again.

Time to move on. This hobby is about conquest...I like my cock sandwiched between a different lady's tits once a while.
 

Carvher

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Yeah, got boring for me. Seeing a girl at work now. More fun for sure with some feelings.
Also strings, it's a balancing act. I think it would be difficult to go back to sp's.
Still go for massage occasionally
 

Tinmachine

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I think there is nothing wrong with you. Too much familiarity, like watching the same porn again and again.

Time to move on. This hobby is about conquest...I like my cock sandwiched between a different lady's tits once a while.
Also this woman is so personable. She crosses the line between a fuck session with a total stranger and talking to a therapist. Ive learned some personal stuff about her and ive confided in her on my personal life. Good and bad. But perhaps sex is sex and leave it at that. I saw a sp last year (as a back up bc my regular was sick) and I blew my load in like 5 min!
 

barnacler

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One idea I have found works for me, tell her you want both of you to stare into each other's eyes the entire time - it might seem uncomfortable at first, but persist - is is remarkably intimate, almost more so then the sex!
 

StephenHKing

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Ive seen lots of girls over the years and have been seeing this beautiful woman in the Hammer for about and a year and a bit now. Hot, charming and makes u feel at home. Seen her 7-8 x which is the longest I've repeated with anyone. However I've noticed last few times I couldnt finish inside her and had to use the whole one hand special to get to the finish line. All fun but bothers me I can't cum inside her. Am i getting bored? Is it me? I'm over 50. Both? I'm going to see someone else next time to see how it goes. If I burst my load no problem it may be time to move on with the regular.
Might be the girl but perhaps more likely you might need to save up a decent load.

Saw a lovely woman recently after a few solid days of self-flagellation and couldn’t finish. Had to see a second, much sluttier woman to prove to myself it was even possible.

Saves a lot of money and frustration if you just go in with at least a few days’ worth in the chamber. Wasn’t true in our 20s!
 

Lifes2short

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Ive seen lots of girls over the years and have been seeing this beautiful woman in the Hammer for about and a year and a bit now. Hot, charming and makes u feel at home. Seen her 7-8 x which is the longest I've repeated with anyone. However I've noticed last few times I couldnt finish inside her and had to use the whole one hand special to get to the finish line. All fun but bothers me I can't cum inside her. Am i getting bored? Is it me? I'm over 50. Both? I'm going to see someone else next time to see how it goes. If I burst my load no problem it may be time to move on with the regular.
Don't ever ask but care to share this lady? Perhaps a review
 

moredale7

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Personally, to make it interesting, I had to vary my choices (various styles, body shapes, ethnic backgrounds, personalities). As an example, I would book a hot looking DDG female with reserved demeanor one week, then 5 weeks later I would go for an average looking gal but who is wild/outgoing/extremely sexual. I am lucky to love all types of women (conservative Vs fresh looking, shy Vs outgoing, bbw Vs slim, tall Vs petite, black/brown/white, short hair Vs long hair, shaved Vs hairy, Blonde Vs Brunette Vs Red hair, etc), therefore I am never bored as I continuously alternate between totally different women. I also alternate between SPs, MPS and SCs (for eg, 1 MP or 2,3 SCs for every 5-7 SPs), between incalls and outcalls (sometimes I love receiving, sometimes I love being received, so that variation in host vs traveler mindset is one of the many ways I found to escape boredom). Sometimes I insert a dinner date (or any other social activity) before or after the main event. I also have outfit requests/specific themes I propose to the SPs (the beach babe theme, the Hawaiian dancer, the Judge, etc). Also: I book 1 lady every 5 weeks on average, and that helps a lot (even though I tend to vary my choices, seeing many varied ladies in a shorter period -- i.e. meeting a SW every 1 or 2 weeks -- may eventually turn boring).
Is there any dressing for this salad?
 
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