I don’t get the “take them all with me” mentality. I get if you want to kill yourself. It is the idea that they all have to go with you as well. I don’t get that at all. I never will.What is it that would make a supposedly successful man try to kill his kids 7 and 4 years, his wife and himself? Sadly, not rare at all. Humans are brutal. Most of the men who do this use guns to finish things.