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OnTheWayOut
If the sex is awesome, yes I tip. First my head starts slowly spinning and then I tip right over ............
Do you TIP after a session?
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i'm amazed how many people don't tip. the fee is not a tip, the fee is a payment for a service, and that payment though some may consider it high, is always low in my mind, the SPs are providing an amazing service to us that without them we would all just have swollen hands. every guy might think they are the god of sex but let's face it, no one is perfect and they aren't in it to just get sex. they deserve to know that they were appreciated and just like i would tip a waiter, a mail carrier, a doorman, a cabbie, etc, why would i not tip an SP who provided me with an amazing service and show her she was appreciated
The fee is the price is the payment is the cost of the service. Unlike food service or taxicabs, where tips are part payment, since wages are set low, in the SP biz the provider sets the fee (none of us TERBrighteous ever deal with exploiters) and it should be adequate and all that's expected. If it isn't, that's their lookout, think nothing of it.
If you feel you got something above and beyond the ordinary and want to offer a token gift in recognition, go ahead and tip. But please do not establish a regular habit of tipping everyone for everything; not everyone is special. They'll wind up expecting, then 'needing' it, and resenting the times it isn't offered and the distorted marketplace that results only degrades them and embarrasses those who 'didn't get the memo".
Of course at certain seasons, when we're too pressed to shop for gifts for the postie, the trashguys and others, we may give cash in lieu, but these are gifts, not tips, and just as appropriate—if you're so moved—for an SP, MPA or dancer as for anyone else.
If you feel you got something above and beyond the ordinary and want to offer a token gift in recognition, go ahead and tip. But please do not establish a regular habit of tipping everyone for everything; not everyone is special. They'll wind up expecting, then 'needing' it, and resenting the times it isn't offered and the distorted marketplace that results only degrades them and embarrasses those who 'didn't get the memo".
Of course at certain seasons, when we're too pressed to shop for gifts for the postie, the trashguys and others, we may give cash in lieu, but these are gifts, not tips, and just as appropriate—if you're so moved—for an SP, MPA or dancer as for anyone else.
I think it's the same with any service industry, if the sevice is excellent or above the normal then maybe a tip is warranted, but it should be voluntary not expected .
drrogers
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Only once did I tip after a session - I had paid the girl upfront for her service $200 - and after about 90 minutes of some of the most incredible sex that I have experienced in my lifetime I had to leave to get to a meeting - the girl was totally no rush, wanted to hang for a while and made me feel like she genuinely enjoyed my company. I gave her another $100 because she had under priced herself and over delivered. Having said that I was in the habit of gifting girls that I saw regularly and who treated me as more than a "trick". Gifts started small often as little as a favorite book, a good bottle of wine and progressed depending on the girl and the relationship to jewelry, clothing and designer purses but never more cash than she asked me for. There are ways to establish yourself without flashing money - just determine what strikes the chime for the girl and you will win more points with a gift than $50 or $100. And most of the time favorite girls often got something worth much more than that from me when I felt that I had gotten something much more from them.
