Do you think inflation has contributed to Passport Bros going overseas?

[angrymime666]

Western men have to stop being hopeful romantics. The Boomer world of pair bonding doesn't exist anymore. If a woman genuinely has feelings for you, it's a bonus, but don't expect it, especially if there is an age gap or financial gap.

Most people are married to partners that are not their first choice, and not even close to their ideal. It's the nature of the world. If they can make a go of it, so can everyone else.

Get the bag to gain freedom and status, fuck as many beauties as possible, drop a couple kids in the one whose company you enjoy most and that you think could make a decent mother, each partner play their position in the relationship (e.g. she cooks, cleans, and pretends to love you; while you call the shots, never show weakness - women do NOT want you to get in touch with your feelings, and financially support the family), and call it a wrap.

That's life in a nutshell.

I have to admit I did buy into western culture through the influence of TV. its a dream of mine to have a life like little house on the prairie, but who am I kidding. not many women want to live that life, the divorce rate(enough said, loss of my empire to said divorce, a low body count woman who has the the list of credentials I am looking for.

my parents are boomers and have had a successful marriage and life. most of my friends also are still married with no divorce. its possible but the reality and stats are not in mens favour.

its about vetting a woman properly, which takes time. I have a four year plan. if they can survive my shit test and their attitudes and personality is consistent throughout that time I may consider it, just not in a western country.

I agree mostly with being stoic but at the same time I am human and like the way my emotions present. if she doesnt like it or cuts attitude she can exit stage left.

shitty behavior, I am not willing to tolerate.

 

[DesRicardo]

Yes, but it was happening way before inflation.

We all know what the #1 reason is, but #2 is probably the cost of living.

 

[csmitting]

Short answer is yes. It’s cheaper to import than to buy domestic.

 

[coolmanfever]

There may be % of passport sister living proof on youtube

 

[dirtyharry555]

There may be % of passport sister

Tons of them. Personally know several.

To a far lesser degree in part because most of their needs are met here. Sex isn't a motivating factor as they can get that just as easily here.

When they seek companionship they have to consider all the things that men do and more.. education, healthcare, affirmative action, etc.. many things not offered or scoffed at in Third World nations.

A man can be independent anywhere. A woman can be strong and independent under enforced government assistance.

 

[richaceg]

Maybe it's one of the factors but also...I see that most passport bros look for a stay home wife...not a career woman...it may seem odd but where can you look for a chick that's willing to give up her career to become a stay home wife in the western world these days? they have a bunch of ladies who would do it from the 3rd world countries - including career women there. Asian women also love to cross breed.

 

[angrymime666]

There may be % of passport sister living proof on youtube

I know many female coworkers that met nice jamaican men, married them and brought the over to canada. 2/3 have kids and are divorced. guys moved on to another woman.

it happens to both sexes; so remember gentleman, dont bring them back to your country. probably better chance of a successful relationship in her home country.

 

[xix]

I know many female coworkers that met nice jamaican men, married them and brought the over to canada. 2/3 have kids and are divorced. guys moved on to another woman.

it happens to both sexes; so remember gentleman, dont bring them back to your country. probably better chance of a successful relationship in her home country.

So it is the people here not the imports that are the problem and have problems. Don't want to fix, repair, heal, assess themselves because of FEAR?
To many cowards every where.

 

[angrymime666]

So it is the people here not the imports that are the problem and have problems. Don't want to fix, repair, heal, assess themselves because of FEAR?
To many cowards every where.

Im not sure who is the problem. the people splitting after they become citizens or the people bringing them over.

when you come from a country with little opportunity, and then go somewhere you have so many choices its understandable why they decided to split.

perhaps when people have so many choices and can live a life they choose, they will choose the best for themselves regardless of the other person.

welcome to relationships in the west, where we dont need people since we can freeload from the government or from a person.

necessity keep relationship together, not love or feelings.

 

[xix]

There may be % of passport sister living proof on youtube

This video is not worth 14:39 maybe 3-4.
Doesn't even address the passport girls/sister as you think. Okay maybe some, if you can extract 30s seconds of it, but not like I was expecting it.

Next time watch the whole video before posting and point out how it relates to the thread.

 

[MadGeek]

I know many female coworkers that met nice jamaican men, married them and brought the over to canada. 2/3 have kids and are divorced. guys moved on to another woman.

it happens to both sexes; so remember gentleman, dont bring them back to your country. probably better chance of a successful relationship in her home country.

I know several dancers in the Niagara area that have been burned by this, including my old regular at the Penthouse in the falls. She put herself through college; found a decent corporate job etc... got shacked up with a guy from T&T and had a kid with him. Married him too. As soon as he got citizenship he split - later found out he had handful of kids already and two wives back home, neither of the wives knew about each other.

 

[Butler1000]

So I have seen this argument going around that because the cost of living is so high here it has created a trickle effect in dating.

Most households here in the west, require 2 person incomes. So the women works and has less time, energy and desire to be a traditional wife when she is taking on the “male” role of providing for the home financially in part. All while the men still want to woman to maintain the “female” role of keeping house. Since this is impossible and completely unfair - it is causing a bigger rift between the sexes and therefore, as a result, women are being single and men are going overseas.

Do you believe that inflation can have such an impact on life as to be causing men to become passport bros?

I think the larger issue is the family court system. The tide is turning on this now but the USA is far worse due to fed funding to states in relation to child custody. Its actually worth money to states to increae child support and deny access to fathers.

A % of men realize this, and either have transportable dkill sets or assets to move to jurisdictions where no fault divorce doesn't exist.

Inflation does probably factor in to research when determining locations. Smart men will do a deep dive to figure out monthly expenses. But I realky do think its an emotional decision. All my dingle muddle aged feiends say the dating market is horrific and pretty much have given up.

 

[csmitting]

There may be % of passport sister living proof on youtube

Kinda crazy that half the people in Toronto aren’t from Toronto.

 

[xix]

@Butler1000 your comments are correct. These are not my words just watching podcast from therapist and others and some of my own observation.

On Tiktok women are now complaining of men not approaching them or dating them and with the high cost of things, women want men to take them to a fancy restaurant on the first date.

Stock of dating apps are dropping and less men are joining dating apps. Psychologist have said in the past 6 months the dating apps create nuts jobs and another therapist mentioned that Dating apps is like an Amazon store with many options or choices and we can return the items. This is how people treating dating and love or relationships. Materialism Syndrome I call it.

I read comments on YT - "I am not afraid of love or marriage it's the divorce and Family court and DNA testing that scare me."
Both genders are not real about themselves, or who they are or their intentions - A number cannot be given or blame one gender. It's both sides and opposites attract each other.

Hypergamy is destroying relationship - women make more money now and want to marry up - ( there is not enough men that make a lot of Money ) - unlike men did before the 1990's men marry down and now women have to do the same if they want emotional, mental etc bond. The smart women who are older 57+ will marry down but this is a minority right now.

Women have created hook up culture ( so have rich men ) - or FWB mainly the Narcissist and nymphomaniacs and everyone else followed this dumb ass trend which used to be frowned upon. To many body counts does affect the mind or mentally and people have more resentments and anger issue for their bad choices which no one wants to take accountability. Friendzone, monkey branching, Multiple partners, New men, Patriarchy, Gender Identity, Benching, Retirement Fund. Not my words - therapists.

I believe that these type behaviors has happened before in humanity but like every 111 years apart, like a wave.
I have seen old women who have not pay into their CPP or very little - or any kind of pension fund, trying to get married just to access the mens' pension fund. WTF.

Lastly what scares men is DNA testing. This has been going on since the beginning of time. I think I dated half sisters and they don't know it and I live in a small city. Should I introduce them?
Nobody wants to AFC - Accountability Acceptance, Forgive, and Change / move on.

Is it worth Dating / Relationship?

Most people on this board will say.....
Hence everything I typed is making people go over to other countries but if they are smart they will see it is almost the same thing over there.
So grow up people.

 

[xix]

I know several dancers in the Niagara area that have been burned by this, including my old regular at the Penthouse in the falls. She put herself through college; found a decent corporate job etc... got shacked up with a guy from T&T and had a kid with him. Married him too. As soon as he got citizenship he split - later found out he had handful of kids already and two wives back home, neither of the wives knew about each other.

It is to bad that women who try to have a normal grounded relationship end up with the opposite clown. I am just surprised women didn't vet the guy properly.

 

[angrymime666]

It is to bad that women who try to have a normal grounded relationship end up with the opposite clown. I am just surprised women didn't vet the guy properly.

this is why I have a 4 year vetting period to avoid surprises. trying to contain behavior that is shitty or inconsistent over long term is next to impossible unless you are clinical sociopath. eventually the guard is let down and you see the true colours. especially when you get to the vetting time of living together.

problem is a lot of these overseas relationship dont vet over long term. they see each other every couple of months and its a whirlwind holiday romance. time is the key factor. you see what people are really like over time, trials, fights, family problems, financial problems, etc.

 

[MadGeek]

It is to bad that women who try to have a normal grounded relationship end up with the opposite clown. I am just surprised women didn't vet the guy properly.

Strippers are odd... some of them are so enamored with having a black guy they will take whatever black guy they can get. Almost like they haven't made it as a stripper unless they have a black guy. Pretty common for dancers that come up from Dartmouth or anywhere else in the maritimes. Perfect example: one of the bartenders/manager from NB who works at the Downer/SG has 4 kids by the same black deadbeat DJ/rapper. Guy has always been a deadbeat. Never once paid shit for his any of his kids. Yet she kept on squeezing kids out. "Maybe he will change with one more kid?".

 

[dirtyharry555]

Strippers are odd... some of them are so enamored with having a black guy they will take whatever black guy they can get. Almost like they haven't made it as a stripper unless they have a black guy. Pretty common for dancers that come up from Dartmouth or anywhere else in the maritimes. Perfect example: one of the bartenders/manager from NB who works at the Downer/SG has 4 kids by the same black deadbeat DJ/rapper. Guy has always been a deadbeat. Never once paid shit for his any of his kids. Yet she kept on squeezing kids out. "Maybe he will change with one more kid?".

This will explain it:

Strippers belongs to a specific demographic (personality/history) who prioritize and are drawn to masculinity/badboys/dominance to a higher degree than other women, although most women find it appealing. As a result they tend to be relegated to "situationships" and single-motherhood status for their entire lives.

 

[dirtyharry555]

He went overseas because the women are:
Traditional
Healthy/fit/petite
Charitable/generous
Not materialistic
Practical
Respectful of marriage/Commitment

Good for him. It's a shame these things have become uncommon here.

 

[jeff2]