Sometimes when going downtown you get sushi and not a very fresh one
Do you tell her? How to do it nicely?
Girls are you embarrassed by this?
Do you tell her? How to do it nicely?
Girls are you embarrassed by this?
Do you tell a girl she smells fishy?
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SP? if she smells bad - and you will know what bad is - quit activity, and leave - have some balls, don't be run by your balls.
CIVI? yea tell her her about it - esp if she smells after a shower, either she doesnt know how to wash or she has something funky going on down under.
CIVI? yea tell her her about it - esp if she smells after a shower, either she doesnt know how to wash or she has something funky going on down under.
I think with Civis, it depends on the type of relationship you have with them (GF/FB vs. one night stand/tindr). With the latter, I'm likely not to broach the subject directly & try and hint at getting her to wash (eg. "let's go take a shower together"). I'll be more direct with a GF etc.
What do you do if the guy has a bad case of the smegma?
Excellent comments.
So, if I were a guy, and let's say it was you. And I smelled something...not quite what I wanted.... what should I say?
Let's assume I like you a lot otherwise, and I do NOT want to be mean or have you take it the wrong way... what would be a good thing to say?
"Can we take a shower together?"
"Hi, I bought this new soap...Provacare...would you like to try it?"
(BTW, I have not met you (yet), but you seem very very good to me. (smile) )
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I will add a few more comments from my viewpoint.
One. I always try to say... "If you find anything un-hygienic, please tell me. No problem to take another shower or whatever."
Smell is a very personal thing.
As I man, I think I am lucky, that I do not have naturally a strong smell and do not become smelly when I sweat (well, much).
Sense of smell varies a lot in people.
Some girls that I really like occasionally have a problem.
One I think did not realize that sitting in a car seat for 20 minutes can leave .... a fragrance that is not quite what I want.
(I like DATY.)
I know some girls who are amazing .... except that if things get going, the internal juices are ... not quite what I want.
I assume for some of the reasons you mention.
It can be that the girl is used to and even kinda likes her own smell. So, to her it does not smell 'off'. At least not at the time. To me, it might.
I remember taking anti-biotics once. Man! It changes how things smell -- at least with some drugs. I can only imagine how I smelled to others!!
This is a complex issue.
I think some women (people) hang around a different set of bacteria than I. They become used to it, and kinda like it. I don't (to some degree). For me, I think it would take SUPER sex attraction to really overcome this (if doing DATY, for example). But it might.
Men are very lucky that women mostly smell great and mostly take good care of their bodies!
Mostly I like the way women smell and taste.
Thanks!
I have told a couple girls, mid session, they need to go clean up. Both said no problem.
One lady taught me that she would rather me be honest and speak up, than hear about it afterwards.
It is very embarrassing to bring up. Quite a turnoff. And sometimes I didn't speak up till later, when it was too late.
One lady taught me that she would rather me be honest and speak up, than hear about it afterwards.
It is very embarrassing to bring up. Quite a turnoff. And sometimes I didn't speak up till later, when it was too late.
Ask her if she has any wasabi, soy sauce and ginger as you need that when you are eating raw sushi. Or just continue and if you get sick from the smell, just tell her that you just had some bad sushi.
I've had a couple girls, mid session, I told to go clean up. No problem.
One of my favourites told me she'd rather I be honest and speak up, rather than hear about it later.
One time I didn't speak up, I was too embarrassed, didn't want to embarrass her, and told her later. That didn't go over well.
One of my favourites told me she'd rather I be honest and speak up, rather than hear about it later.
One time I didn't speak up, I was too embarrassed, didn't want to embarrass her, and told her later. That didn't go over well.
Then the girl should smama. I tried to tell a girl, in as gentle a way as possible, she had vaginosis - almost didn't survive the fallout.
ask him to shower lol If that doesn't work... CBJ it is.... If either party has an odour ask them to shower if they object it is either because they don't care or are dirty or maybe even both... Well reviewed ladies hold cleanliness to the highest of standards and for a good reason. I agree with CE though . Everything she said is accurate...
In principle- yes tell her. In reality - really hard to do. Smell is a funky thing. (LOL). Pregnancy can change it where previously ok scents make the lady sick. Japanese have been known to get nauseous over the smell of caucasian BO. Never had to bail on daty with a pro but had to bail on dato but just a small a handful of times. Never said anything either in those circumstances...
Yes tell her! Yes it's embarrassing but it's even worse for her to have the smell and not do something about it. As mentioned above it could be a bacterial infection she's unaware of or simply too much washing or even a little sweat trapped inside. Sometimes it could be because she just finished her time of month and her body is rebalancing the pH levels in her vag. There are different reasons she could have that smell but how can she treat it and take care of the smell if she doesn't know? the smell could be nothing to worry about but then what if it IS something to worry about? You must let her know.
There's the voice of experience.
I don't say anything. I disclose the stench on the review boards.
Has anybody seen Dianna from Hands from Heaven recently? She had a ridiculous smell emanating from her pussy that lingered on my body for a while. It may have been a one off but I was friggin nervous in waiting for my STD test results which came up fine.
