Do you stop seeing an SP when there is a change in service?

[superman12]

I mainly visit escorts for bbbj, deepthroat, cim and swallow. The first three are a must for me.

Anyways I was seeing an SP for an hour about 2-3 times a months for 9 months who provided all 4 of those services. Then during our last visit she made it clear that she was no longer open to doing cim. I acted like everything was fine so the last session wasn't derailed but I was not happy that she didn't tell me beforehand.

I haven't booked since that last session in March yet she keeps asking me when I am going to see her again. I just say I'm busy when she asks instead of being honest and telling her the change in service is the reason why.

Should you be honest about the reason why you stopped seeing an escort if she asks you why?

Would you stop seeing an escort you saw frequently if there was a change in a particular service that you enjoyed?

You have no obligation to tell her why you stopped seeing her. If you have a friendly personal relationship with her then by all means just be honest and tell her the reason why your not seeing her. If she likes you and really cares to see you again she might make an exception and offer you cim because she is comfortable with you but she wont know to offer that to you since she wont know its that important you if you dont tell her. Its also a good way to tell if she actually likes you as a client or she just wants your money.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I mainly visit escorts for bbbj, deepthroat, cim and swallow. The first three are a must for me.

Anyways I was seeing an SP for an hour about 2-3 times a months for 9 months who provided all 4 of those services. Then during our last visit she made it clear that she was no longer open to doing cim. I acted like everything was fine so the last session wasn't derailed but I was not happy that she didn't tell me beforehand.

I haven't booked since that last session in March yet she keeps asking me when I am going to see her again. I just say I'm busy when she asks instead of being honest and telling her the change in service is the reason why.

Should you be honest about the reason why you stopped seeing an escort if she asks you why?

Would you stop seeing an escort you saw frequently if there was a change in a particular service that you enjoyed?

Actually, I was relating my story without paying much attention to yours. I would find her phone calls really annoying.

being honest and telling her the change in service is the reason why. makes the most sense. Like she can't figure it out? She really needs to have it explained?

 

[NotADcotor]

Like she can't figure it out? She really needs to have it explained?

Yeah but that risks her having a reaction, and it isn't his job to help her improve even if she does accept the advice. Why not just take the easy way out and find someone else.
I mean unless you are only attracted to Albanian Anorexic amputee albino midget GILFs in which case you probably should try to work things out and try to fix the situation.

If you tell someone they are not doing a good job, it might end well, but there is a chance it will turn to drama and if you wanted drama, you can go get married.

 

[VIPhunter]

You have no obligation to say anything, but any service provider, be they a sex worker or an investment advisor SHOULD want to know why you took your business elsewhere. You're doing them a favour telling them what's up.

 

[Scorpio1971]

Just stop booking her or change your number

 

[kherg007]

You have no obligation to tell her why you stopped seeing her. If you have a friendly personal relationship with her then by all means just be honest and tell her the reason why your not seeing her. If she likes you and really cares to see you again she might make an exception and offer you cim because she is comfortable with you but she wont know to offer that to you since she wont know its that important you if you dont tell her. Its also a good way to tell if she actually likes you as a client or she just wants your money.

Be careful...once had a reg reach out asking why no bookings in a while. I was honest that she last minute canceled 3 of the previous 4 attempts, left me unable to book anyone else twice. But, said she just moved down the list not off the list and in fact would be happy to meet next time in. She got angry and wanted nothing to do with me So, wish her well and move on.

 

[Samranchoi]

If you are all about service, then move on. You can let her know the exact reasons why you have decided to move on especially when the services that were provided are no longer continuing. Maybe she has a significant other who doesn’t mind her being in the business but does not want her to provide a certain service (ie cim).

I had a regular who messaged me telling me she was no longer offering all her previous services for personal reasons. For me, not a problem and I let her know that. She appreciated my understanding and when we met it was normal as before. Maybe testing me? Regardless she was amazing to spend time with and that is why her service limitation warning was not as issue for me. Plus, if I wanted the service I could always go to someone else.

 

[jerbear15]

I mainly visit escorts for bbbj, deepthroat, cim and swallow. The first three are a must for me.

Anyways I was seeing an SP for an hour about 2-3 times a months for 9 months who provided all 4 of those services. Then during our last visit she made it clear that she was no longer open to doing cim. I acted like everything was fine so the last session wasn't derailed but I was not happy that she didn't tell me beforehand.

I haven't booked since that last session in March yet she keeps asking me when I am going to see her again. I just say I'm busy when she asks instead of being honest and telling her the change in service is the reason why.

Should you be honest about the reason why you stopped seeing an escort if she asks you why?

Would you stop seeing an escort you saw frequently if there was a change in a particular service that you enjoyed?

Yes if the service isn't what I enjoy I would look for someone else.

 

[VIPhunter]

Be careful...once had a reg reach out asking why no bookings in a while. I was honest that she last minute canceled 3 of the previous 4 attempts, left me unable to book anyone else twice. But, said she just moved down the list not off the list and in fact wound be happy to meet next time in. She got angry and wanted nothing to do with me So, wish her well and move on.

Be Careful? She was hardly professional. Why continue to grant her your business?

 

[lalalaland]

Be careful...once had a reg reach out asking why no bookings in a while. I was honest that she last minute canceled 3 of the previous 4 attempts, left me unable to book anyone else twice. But, said she just moved down the list not off the list and in fact wound be happy to meet next time in. She got angry and wanted nothing to do with me So, wish her well and move on.

See that what happens sometimes when your their regular. A better opportunity comes along so she cancels thinks ah he’ll be back.

 

[kherg007]

Be Careful? She was hardly professional. Why continue to grant her your business?

I didn't. Once there is any drama off ya go. Enough drama in work and personal relationships - zero tolerance for a professional relationship. Once she got upset just wished her well and have not booked nor spoken of or to her since.

 

[MuffDiver]

Easy short answer is yes. If I keep paying the same amount of money or more and I receive less or poorer service, why would anyone continue with that relationship. Of course there is more to it and it probably varies a little from situation to situation.

 

[Y_Diner]

OP, I think there are plenty of good solutions here on this thread for you.
Choose wisely young jedi.

 

[Jenesis]

She block her numbers so she doesn’t bother you anymore and move on.

It would be nice for her to know, but you don’t owe her anything. Just like we don’t owe you anything.

 

[unassuming]

Yes, saw an SP that did CIM (my fave way to finish) , saw her a few tines, then all of a sudden she said that she longer does it, so I stopped seeing her.

 

[Greytop19]

Yes, saw an SP that did CIM (my fave way to finish) , saw her a few tines, then all of a sudden she said that she longer does it, so I stopped seeing her.

Drink plenty of pineapple juice. She will love you again

 

[VIPhunter]

I would stop seeing her for sure.

In the past there was an SP i visited regularly who was a great kisser. During my last booking with her she said no kissing anymore. That was the last time I saw her.

Don't respond to her texts. Just ghost her. You should never negotiate services with an SP once she already has made her mind up after you have already seen her. Just stop seeing her.

Sure....but why not tell her the reason?

 

[Pleasure Hound]

Depends on the type and severity of the change, really.....

 

[MONTYY]

I would in a heart beat, if the change takes away from the visit. Plenty of others she can be replaced with

 

[Claudia Love]

not all guys taste good some guys I can swallow some I have to spit out depending if there a smoker or eat spicy food or poor diet plus alcohol makes it tastes not as good so just know that not all guys care if we swallow it down the hatch I swear to you many guys do not taste good at all did I just say that