do you request intimate cuddling like lover after SOG?

coolmanfever

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SPs always stay some distance or sit on the bed chatting away with me after SOG. I wonder if this the norm for SP after SOG is done? or is it just me not requesting cuddling like lover after SOG. What are your experience like after SOG typically?
 

xmontrealer

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I was always a "bad lover" cuz as soon as I would cum I had to distance for a minimum of a few minutes, though of course I would usually stay on the bed.

No immediate post-coital snuggling for me!
 

Samranchoi

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It is probably my favorite time of the session that I have with the woman I see the most right now. She actually enjoys it as well. The way she sinks into my arms and chest is simply amazing and is something that happened from our first time together. It was so natural, no words were needed. I think it helps to have a subtle cologne that she likes.

You can try it at the beginning as well. Holding each other softly and lightly caressing each other’s bodies combined with subtle kisses on the lips, neck , shoulder. I always spend an hour with her so there is enough time for this but one day I will go for at least 2 or more hours. The build-up is unbelievable and leads to a much more intense session.
 
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gibarian

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I've never requested it, but it usually happens naturally.

If that's what you're looking for I'd suggest a fruitful first step would be to eliminate cringey terminology like 'SOG' from your vocabulary and mindset. Conceptualizing someone as an inanimate boundary to be assailed in pursuit of points is not conducive to coaxing out tender, intimate experiences.

Of course, you can request it explicitly, and a lot of companions will be happy to oblige. But, like many things, it's often more enjoyable if you earn it.
 
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gibarian

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Do you mean earning it like paying for it, you know like an extra? How much extra should we pay, $20, $50, $100?
Are you a chick? You must be, seems like you have quite the insider knowledge of escorts.
I mean earning it through being a pleasant, respectful client.

I don't have any insider knowledge; I just listen to escorts when they speak or post. They're out there 24/7 telling us how we can get the most out of our appointments. Maybe listen to them?
 

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Yep, one of my favourite parts of the session. (It's a real pet peeve when the companion jumps up and starts cleaning up or whatever immediately after the climax.)
 

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I request it but they usually beat a hasty retreat to the bathroom. The sound of vomiting is kind of a mood killer.
 
It is probably my favorite time of the session that I have with the woman I see the most right now. She actually enjoys it as well. The way she sinks into my arms and chest is simply amazing and is something that happened from our first time together. It was so natural, no words were needed. I think it helps to have a subtle cologne that she likes.

You can try it at the beginning as well. Holding each other softly and lightly caressing each other’s bodies combined with subtle kisses on the lips, neck , shoulder. I always spend an hour with her so there is enough time for this but one day I will go for at least 2 or more hours. The build-up is unbelievable and leads to a much more intense session.
Yep that is my ideal session and have had some really good experience with many since most enjoy the type of intimacy I do vs just raw sex.
 
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J.A. Prufrock

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I've done this with several MPAs, suggesting to them at the start of the session to take a break and just lay down next to me as we proceed to caress, kiss and explore each other's bodies. Lots of fun. The ladies seemed to appreciate being able to get off their feet for a while and just lay down and relax. Our bodies intertwined, my thigh rubbing her thighs, her breasts pressed against my chest, my free hand roaming from her shoulders and down her arms to stroke her nice firm ass and stimulate her clit and (with a couple of them) her G-spot. Our lips locked (not DFK, unfortunately), breaking occasionally to suck on her nipples. We're in a tight embrace. Her hair cascades over my shoulders and chest. She smells wonderful. Damn, I love hot women.
 
Actually I start a session by doing my magic massage :) Have never had anyone not want and really sets the stage for an intimate session. The massage is non-sexual Esalen but very caring sensual/caring. I am often told I have nice soft hands - am lucky it works so well for me.
 

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At first I thought this was referencing my SO - which dating we snuggled but later I would roll over and pass out. An SP - I thought the SOG was her finish line and other than catching our breath - she was cleaning up and on her way. I recognized the SOG as the finish line so I was never offended. I purchased sex not intimacy and I recognize that she is on her way to the next client.
 

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SPs always stay some distance or sit on the bed chatting away with me after SOG. I wonder if this the norm for SP after SOG is done? or is it just me not requesting cuddling like lover after SOG. What are your experience like after SOG typically?
C'mon! I request a shower, as much for my partner..
 

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Always? Every single one? Out of how many sp's? Do you have a good sample size and spectrum or categories?

Yes, you can certainly ask for snuggling as part of your service; but my personal advice is that the girl is either generally into cuddling or not. Unless if there is an aversion to cuddle with someone (they are super awkward, they treated me with disrespect/aggression/have poor hygiene - sometimes it's too awkward for the sp to tell the client they have smelly nether regions even after a shower), I almost always end up cuddling. Oh also, if your time is up and THEN you commence cuddling, that is a huge problem - I don't know why but some guys think it's okay to start cuddling or talking and having a full out conversation after the time is up. I suppose they are of the mindset that only the 'sex' part is the serviced time?
Look for sps who offer more GFE style, or ask as a filtering question before booking - for example 'I really enjoy cuddling and just was wondering if that's something you offer or enjoy as well as part of our session'. Even more important, do some research and read some reviews of the sp you are interested in booking. If your mileage sucks overall perhaps you need to examine your sessions more closely.
 
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