@dawnlee
Did I strike a nerve? Do you see yourself as one of the low-quality women I mentioned or have met and is that why you lashed out calling me low quality? I wasn't directing my posting at anyone just curious what others thought.
Listen a while back when I lost my father and posted on here for some support healing from that loss I remember you gave me some great advice and I appreciated it. From your response it seems it triggered you and that's ok. Maybe you had a bad day or it's that time of the month so I'll give you a pass.
As I said, I am not against marriage but I do see a lot of low quality women here and I blame it on this new wave of feminism that has brainwashed them. For the record the first two waves of feminism I totally understand. But this recent one is fucked up. You may not agree and that's fine. It's my experience it's my opinion and this is a space for discussion hopefully without insult.
Of course you don't know me but in fact i have lots to offer, I have a good job, went to school got the degrees, speak more than two languages (a couple I've learnt for fun as an adult), have travelled , enjoy read, I have volunteered, no debt, take care of my family (I lost my father a while back and help take care of my mother). So I think I have many good qualities to offer but I'm not getting into a marriage if I'm not sure it's a good fit because divorce is too expensive, the personal and financial hit for a man is massive and for the kids even worse.
I don't disagree with you there are a few good women still out there that is true but they get over shadowed by the bad ones. I have more than one friend who are high quality men did everything right and the women ran away at the first sign of trouble and now they are dealing with difficult divorces.
Seeing this, I have not attempted to date for a few years now and especially after losing my father and adjusting to that new normal. Like I said so many bad quality women especially on-line that I am tired of it for now. Perhaps I'll meet someone good while not looking doing activities I enjoy but for now I'm good doing my own thing and scratching the itch through the hobby when I have to. Who knows maybe tomorrow I'll stumble into one of the few good ones left in this city and I'll write about that here.
Which brings up another good question. What would you consider a low quality woman ?
For me the biggest thing is someone with lack of family values, addictions, a lack of curiosity love of learning. I don't care if the person is not degreed. My grandmother didn't go to university and she's super smart and curious. Materialistic too. Things come and go I'm more about experiences and building memories.
Did I strike a nerve? Do you see yourself as one of the low-quality women I mentioned or have met and is that why you lashed out calling me low quality? I wasn't directing my posting at anyone just curious what others thought.
Listen a while back when I lost my father and posted on here for some support healing from that loss I remember you gave me some great advice and I appreciated it. From your response it seems it triggered you and that's ok. Maybe you had a bad day or it's that time of the month so I'll give you a pass.
As I said, I am not against marriage but I do see a lot of low quality women here and I blame it on this new wave of feminism that has brainwashed them. For the record the first two waves of feminism I totally understand. But this recent one is fucked up. You may not agree and that's fine. It's my experience it's my opinion and this is a space for discussion hopefully without insult.
Of course you don't know me but in fact i have lots to offer, I have a good job, went to school got the degrees, speak more than two languages (a couple I've learnt for fun as an adult), have travelled , enjoy read, I have volunteered, no debt, take care of my family (I lost my father a while back and help take care of my mother). So I think I have many good qualities to offer but I'm not getting into a marriage if I'm not sure it's a good fit because divorce is too expensive, the personal and financial hit for a man is massive and for the kids even worse.
I don't disagree with you there are a few good women still out there that is true but they get over shadowed by the bad ones. I have more than one friend who are high quality men did everything right and the women ran away at the first sign of trouble and now they are dealing with difficult divorces.
Seeing this, I have not attempted to date for a few years now and especially after losing my father and adjusting to that new normal. Like I said so many bad quality women especially on-line that I am tired of it for now. Perhaps I'll meet someone good while not looking doing activities I enjoy but for now I'm good doing my own thing and scratching the itch through the hobby when I have to. Who knows maybe tomorrow I'll stumble into one of the few good ones left in this city and I'll write about that here.
Which brings up another good question. What would you consider a low quality woman ?
For me the biggest thing is someone with lack of family values, addictions, a lack of curiosity love of learning. I don't care if the person is not degreed. My grandmother didn't go to university and she's super smart and curious. Materialistic too. Things come and go I'm more about experiences and building memories.
