Do you like it when SPs initiate a conversation with you during the session?

[Tashki]

Do you like it when SPs initiate a conversation with you during the session? Or you do want them to be quiet?

For example, you lay on the bed with her after having a shower, you try to suck on her tits but she withholds by keep on asking you questions about your life while you are just trying to get down to business.

Are you okay with conversations? Or do you just want to bust a nut?

 

[Samranchoi]

I think it depends on the length of the session. For guys who book predominantly 30 minutes time is limited so getting straight to the action is important to them, especially if some time is taken up by a shower. And then there are those guys want sex every second once they enter the room, to relive every fantasy that they have or to get off as many times possible.

Me, I loved the chit chat and frankly, found that future sessions were beyond great with women I could talk to

 

[jcpro]

The greatest sessions you will ever have will be when you hit it off with the escort on the social level. When she can make you laugh and you can make her laugh, when you learn something interesting about anything, when you develop the instant familiarity that will make your sexual experience 10x better. To "bust a nut" all you need is one hand.

 

[luvyeah]

To "bust a nut" all you need is one hand.

Or a mouth. Blowjobs is the two birds with one stone, no talking and pretty pleasurable.

Only kidding, I often book longer appointments especially with regulars which includes plenty of talking, and blowjobs.

 

[NotADcotor]

I prefer 2 hour appointments. As long as it doesn't stop cuddle time, I don't have a problem with it.
If you are however trying to do your business it isn't the right time for her to start on about how her Marxist Feminist dialetic brings all the boys to the yard, that's right because it's better than yours.

 

[Mr Deeds]

Only if its dirty

 

[harryass]

yip. silence could mean no or bad chemistry. She can always chat while I pleasure her bod.

 

[rhuarc29]

Absolute silence sounds awkward as fuck.

Not that I'm advocating that she should be asking you if you have any dogs while you're going down on her, but chit chat to break the ice early in the session, and then context-appropriate banter during the deed is not amiss.

 

[y2kmark]

Just so she doesn't recite a litany of how bad her life sucks....

 

[Jenesis]

@Male4Strapon

I’m curious sweetie, why did you choose no? Based on your posts, I wouldn’t have thought this to be your answer.

You don’t have to answer me, I’m just curious is all.

 

[Jenesis]

For me it depends on the appointment time.

If hh or even hour sometimes, I start with the action and then after if there is time, we chat. Or we chat in between shots.

For multi-hour, we convo first, have some fun, convo again, go a second or third round. You get the idea.

 

[kherg007]

I prefer 2 hour appointments. As long as it doesn't stop cuddle time, I don't have a problem with it.
If you are however trying to do your business it isn't the right time for her to start on about how her Marxist Feminist dialetic brings all the boys to the yard, that's right because it's better than yours.

That's for civilian life lol. I can remember back at uni and swallowing a bunch of political nonsense from a lady just to...shall we say...consummate the date later that evening...

But in the professional world...her looks get you in the door...her personality brings you back.

 

[Brill]

I’m shy so I like if she initiates conversation. I prefer if we keep it fairly light and fun, not too serious or probing about my life so I don’t have to come up with lies to hide behind.

 

[massman]

But in the professional world...her looks get you in the door...her personality brings you back.

Totally agree with this. The SPs I repeat with have always been people who I enjoyed being around, chatting with, in addition to the great sex.

 

[IM469]

I put 'No' assuming that any conversation will not centre around the activity but an unrelated conversation to prevent her from dozing off.

Things I don't want to hear:

That will cost extra
Don't worry, the sore isn't an open one.
I have to answer the doorbell
This condom has hardly been used
I shower at the end of the day, why do you ask ?
Sorry, it's those spicy burritos - do you want me to get a wet wipe ?

 

[Kracker]

In all fairness, it depends on how good she is at conversation. There are definitely girls who can enhance the session with fewer words.

 

[Uncharted]

We have to even ask this question?
I mean, God forbid we actually interact with them, and let them interact with us, like they were actual Human beings. Not just some kind of commodity.

 

[Mandalorian]

I love it when she and I can have a good conversation, as long as it doesn’t go overboard and prevents me from finishing (which has happened a few times).

 

[Male4Strapon]

@Male4Strapon

I’m curious sweetie, why did you choose no? Based on your posts, I wouldn’t have thought this to be your answer.

You don’t have to answer me, I’m just curious is all.

I'm happy to answer.
Generally speaking, I am a bit anxious at the start of my appointments. I worry my wife might, my office etc...... so I really prefer to forgo the small talk and get to it. Don't get me wrong I enjoy the SP's company and my vote is in no way anything against the girl, it's just my own anxiousness to get going.
I should say though that this is really only with new SPs, I don't mind it as much with girls I am repeating with.

For me, dirty talk is a big yes, but general chat is not what appeals to me.

 

[boomboom]

sexy dirty talk adds to the moment, as the mind is a larger sex organ than most people think
general chit chat is ok too