Do you hold hair during blowjob?

fastcar2

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Is it rude not to hold their hair during a bulljob? I tried to do it but I kept letting hairs fall and I think I made it worse.
 

From0300

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I'll let the SPs chime in but I figure if it bothered them they would've done something about it beforehand.
 

oakvilleguy

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I find it so sexy when they don’t put their hair up in a bun or tie it up and let it fall naturally. The hair toss is a real turn on for me. I do help them hold back the hair from time to time so I can watch them work their magic.
 

superman12

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I always hold the hair while a women is giving me a bj. If she doesn't like it she will let me know. Most girls will not mind. I also enjoy DT so it's a good opportunity to hold her head while she sees how deep she can go on me.
 
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Is it rude not to hold their hair during a bulljob? I tried to do it but I kept letting hairs fall and I think I made it worse.
If the SP is wearing a wig or has extensions she may not want you touching her hair. Otherwise gently, holding her hair out of her face is an absolute turn on.
 

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I always hold the hair while a women is giving me a bj. If she doesn't like it she will let me know. Most girls will not mind. I also enjoy DT so it's a good opportunity to hold her head while she sees how deep she can go on me.
There are so many women who HATE their head being held. You really have to watch exactly how you do this to not be crossing a line.
 

kherg007

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Often w the ebony angels it's not needed.
Agree with Jenesis - if hair management is required, do not do it in a way to interfere with her natural head movements.
 
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Valcazar

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There are so many women who HATE their head being held. You really have to watch exactly how you do this to not be crossing a line.
This 100%.
There are people who HATE it.
Some are into it.
You can't know in advance.
 
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There are so many women who HATE their head being held. You really have to watch exactly how you do this to not be crossing a line.
I had no idea, wasn't aware that so many hate it. I for one, do enjoy holding their hair, crazy turn on for me.
 
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Valcazar

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I had no idea, wasn't aware that so many hate it. I for one, do enjoy holding their hair, crazy turn on for me.
Note that Jenesis was actually talking about holding their head, not their hair.
(But one can bleed into the other.)
Which, again, goes back to there being no hard and fast rule.

Even "holding their hair" means different things.
Are you holding it out of the way for the visual?
Are you holding it to give an illusion of control?
Are you holding it and actually using it to control her movements?

Those are all slightly different.
 

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I had no idea, wasn't aware that so many hate it. I for one, do enjoy holding their hair, crazy turn on for me.
Holding hair is fine. Even holding the head is ok. I don’t mind that either. If your hands are there as I move up and down. It is the hold my head down part that is the issue. Don’t do that. It feels forced.
 

superman12

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There are so many women who HATE their head being held. You really have to watch exactly how you do this to not be crossing a line.
I agree. From my experience If the women I'm with doesn't like her head being touched while shes giving me a bj she should let me know beforehand or during the bj and I would take my hands off. Communication is key.
 

dchoye

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I usually give a scalp and neck massage
Did this a few times. No compliants
One said she like it.
 
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