Do you guys have friends in real life that you can talk to you about this stuff?

[HandsomeRogerEbert]

Good experience or bad experience I’ve had several memorable sexual experiences that I wouldn’t take back.

These were with beautiful women. 10’s. Girls I admit I probably wouldn’t be able to date otherwise, but regardless I fucked a bunch of them. Seems like a shame that I have to keep it all to myself and take it to my grave.

 

[shack]

I heard a rumor that there are review boards where you can share your experiences.

 

[gcostanza]

I heard a rumor that there are review boards where you can share your experiences.

Could you link to a few?

 

[HandsomeRogerEbert]

I heard a rumor that there are review boards where you can share your experiences.

I mean with your personal friends

 

[spraggamuffin]

They'd just say you were bragging.
Better to share it with us here who are not as handsome as you are.
Plus by sharing their links/reviews you give us a chance as well.

 

[G.D. Gentleman]

I have 2 long time best friends who know at a high level the fun I have...seen a few photos from ads, etc. Another dozen or so friends (typically met through work) who I connect with that we both hobby will discuss as well - but general experiences only, not specifics.


By chance I have made two pretty awesome friends here from TERB who I keep in touch with. One is mostly emails for now, wings and beers someday soon. The other I met recently and he's a riot in real life.

So yes, having someone you can chat to openly about specific ladies, agencies, experiences - is awesome. Until this year it would have been mostly 'had a great weekend, saw two working ladies and went to the Casino' - now I get texts 'I saw XXXX for agency YYYY, dude her DFK was out of this world and some of the best DT I have had in a while - you should try her!'

It's not for everyone, but if you're comfortable then yes, having a buddy to share stories with is awesome.

Cheers

 

[HandsomeRogerEbert]

They'd just say you were bragging.
Better to share it with us here who are not as handsome as you are.
Plus by sharing their links/reviews you give us a chance as well.

Lmao look up Roger Ebert. Someone posted a thread recently on how you chose your handle. Do they sell spragga muffins at Tim’s?

 

[HandsomeRogerEbert]

I have 2 long time best friends who know at a high level the fun I have...seen a few photos from ads, etc. Another dozen or so friends (typically met through work) who I connect with that we both hobby will discuss as well - but general experiences only, not specifics.


By chance I have made two pretty awesome friends here from TERB who I keep in touch with. One is mostly emails for now, wings and beers someday soon. The other I met recently and he's a riot in real life.

So yes, having someone you can chat to openly about specific ladies, agencies, experiences - is awesome. Until this year it would have been mostly 'had a great weekend, saw two working ladies and went to the Casino' - now I get texts 'I saw XXXX for agency YYYY, dude her DFK was out of this world and some of the best DT I have had in a while - you should try her!'

It's not for everyone, but if you're comfortable then yes, having a buddy to share stories with is awesome.

Cheers

A dozen? At work? I can’t imagine being able to talk to people about it, especially at work. It sounds awesome to be able to talk to your friends about it. How prevalent do you think hobbying is anyway? My assumption is that most would just keep it to themselves.

 

[Gibbons#1]

I heard a rumor that there are review boards where you can share your experiences.

Should be a discord server or something in this day and age

 

[luvyeah]

I don't think it's generally advisable to discuss this hobby with friends.
The internet serves as a good outlet without creating a messy situation.
Most people are too naive and closed minded to separate the reality from the stigma, even after an explanation.

I wouldn't bother, it seems like it will always be more trouble than it's worth, unless they share first or you can really feel them out on their opinion.

 

[waynward]

Nope, keep it to myself.

Funny I am an ex PUA gone MGTOW and I always see my buddies jumping through all the hoops (Which I once did). To win at the dating game. Only to realize in the end it's a stupid game even when you have won. (Was a weird bitter sweet moment) And better to save yourself the pain and hassle and go directly to what you want (sex) and just use that energy for more useful endeavours in the long term. Such as your career, investing or inventing something.

 

[HandsomeRogerEbert]

Nope, keep it to myself.

Funny I am an ex PUA gone MGTOW and I always see my buddies jumping through all the hoops (Which I once did). To win at the dating game. Only to realize in the end it's a stupid game even when you have won. (Was a weird bitter sweet moment) And better to save yourself the pain and hassle and go directly to what you want (sex) and just use that energy for more useful endeavours in the long term. Such as your career, investing or inventing something.

Ex pua? How old are you? I think I agree with what you’re saying. Sex is a need. When it’s time I don’t want to have to act disingenuously/depend on someone.

You go long enough without it and you start thinking weird thoughts. So I look at it as an almost mental health maintenance. Which in turn helps with career development and social interactions.

Although I only have my own anecdotes to go on,I think I’m onto something with that. Though to be perfectly honest, maybe I’m just rationalizing and I’m full of shit.

 

[Mr Bret]

I have become friends with a few guys I've met through the boards. A lunch from time to time, but not like our families hang out together.

I have never discussed this with people I work with nor close friends, but I am more than curious as to how many, if any also share the hobby.

Many years ago, I was part of a review board that had multiple levels of membership. To gain access to the highest levels, you had to attend a lunch with some of the other guys. This was a great system because the exposure was very limited, you got to actually meet some other enthusiastic hobbyists, and some of us became friends.
Let me tell you, the level of sharing that went on in that group was completely wide open, because you knew who you were sharing with.

 

[masspref]

You go long enough without it and you start thinking weird thoughts.

Any chance you can expand to entertain us? Otherwise, I'm cringing over here.

 

[doggystyle99]

Good experience or bad experience I’ve had several memorable sexual experiences that I wouldn’t take back.

These were with beautiful women. 10’s. Girls I admit I probably wouldn’t be able to date otherwise, but regardless I fucked a bunch of them. Seems like a shame that I have to keep it all to myself and take it to my grave.

Anyone can see SP's as all that is needed is money and time. Talking about it with people who don't indulge in it is pointless and unnecessary bragging, and frankly nothing to want to brag about.

Throughout the years I have found out more of my friends hobby now then they did pre internet advertising days, I do have a few friends that hobby and we make recommendations to one another, I've hobbied with a few of them and one who every year for our BD's we go out for dinner and exchange SP's as a gift. On my BD he pays for everything and on his I pay for everything.
He books for me and I book for him based on our own tastes and every year we've both been satisfied with the others pick.
But I trust these guys with my life and they trust me, they're not random people or coworkers, employees, that would be just crazy.

 

[kherg007]

Yair not a good idea yabbering to outsiders. We know good blokes and ladies in this biz but outsiders often not as tolerant, and future gfs possibly too and if it gets out could stain you forever. Not worth the risk. Hence this board....

 

[HandsomeRogerEbert]

Any chance you can expand to entertain us? Otherwise, I'm cringing over here.

Sorry I guess that sounds weird. I mean more related to confidence and self esteem. I can only speak for myself, but I feel better in that regard even if it’s from sp’s.

 

[HandsomeRogerEbert]

Yair not a good idea yabbering to outsiders. We know good blokes and ladies in this biz but outsiders often not as tolerant, and future gfs possibly too and if it gets out could stain you forever. Not worth the risk. Hence this board....

Hell no. I didn’t tell my old gf and unless I’ve got some disease, I’ve got no moral obligation to tell any in the future.

 

[HandsomeRogerEbert]

Anyone can see SP's as all that is needed is money and time. Talking about it with people who don't indulge in it is pointless and unnecessary bragging, and frankly nothing to want to brag about.

Throughout the years I have found out more of my friends hobby now then they did pre internet advertising days, I do have a few friends that hobby and we make recommendations to one another, I've hobbied with a few of them and one who every year for our BD's we go out for dinner and exchange SP's as a gift. On my BD he pays for everything and on his I pay for everything.
He books for me and I book for him based on our own tastes and every year we've both been satisfied with the others pick.
But I trust these guys with my life and they trust me, they're not random people or coworkers, employees, that would be just crazy.

Not to brag about, but just to have it as a conversational option. Certainly not in depth. There’s too much stigma for it to even be a “what’d you do this weekend?” kind of talk. Maybe some day.

That’s interesting, although it’s not on the level of casually talking about it, there seems to be progress on the topic. Internet ads have been out there forever if you looked for them, but have you seen the sex worker as on YouTube? I don’t know how to feel about it.

It would be somewhat hypocritical of me to be totally against it being that I’m here. On the other hand, I’ve got 15 year old girl cousins that use YouTube and will grow up with it being normalized to a degree.

Seek it out, that’s one thing, but to put that out there on more mainstream sites?

 

[escortsxxx]

I have become friends with a few guys I've met through the boards. A lunch from time to time, but not like our families hang out together.

I have never discussed this with people I work with nor close friends, but I am more than curious as to how many, if any also share the hobby.

Many years ago, I was part of a review board that had multiple levels of membership. To gain access to the highest levels, you had to attend a lunch with some of the other guys. This was a great system because the exposure was very limited, you got to actually meet some other enthusiastic hobbyists, and some of us became friends.
Let me tell you, the level of sharing that went on in that group was completely wide open, because you knew who you were sharing with.

ditto