Do you friends know you hobby?

[jalimon]

I only have a few close friend. But none of them and/or family knows anything. I will never tell.

Other people's view of this is exploitation. Because that's what they see in the media from time to time. They immediatly think of pimp with underage...

How could they see it otherwise... They do not know that once the girl was waiting for me in a room, handcuffed and blindfold. And the fact that it was her wanted scenario and that she was very wet craving for sex

My god if only they knew what's really happening in the high end indy and agency world

 

[luvdog]

Other people's view of this is exploitation. Because that's what they see in the media from time to time. They immediatly think of pimp with underage...

How could the see it otherwise... They do not know that once the girl was waiting for me in a room, handcuffed and blindfold. And the fact that it was her wanted scenario and that she was very wet craving for sex

My god if only they knew what's really happening in the high end indy and agency world

That is the problem. The reality of the hobby is much different.

I could say marriage is exploitation of Men, and in some situations that would be correct.
(Sure that statement will make a few cringe.)

But that would never fly in the public media perception.

LD

 

[GeeBee]

Nope. Too many opportunities for a couple of beers to make someone slip up and say something in the wrong company. As much as I'd love to tell a buddy about some of my experiences it's gonna stay private.

 

[massman]

No. And they never will.
All it takes is for buddy to let it slip to his wife/ gf who may then pass it along to others that will impact you. Even for the single dudes, say in the future you get a GF, some who know this information will think it’s their “duty” to inform your new gf. Too many meddlers in the world.

 

[luvdog]

Also, I think social media has made things worse in regards to sharing information.
A rumor alone that you hobby can have long term consequences to employment or even traveling outside the country.
It is more than just a social stigma, but financial and freedom stigmas as well.

I have heard about Sps who travel and are sometimes denied entry simply because they are a service provider.
LD