Do you ever really miss the company of a retired escort?

[bluebro69]

No...

Well, that's a little bit sad if you ask me. I remember the intimacy, friendship (as minor as it may be in some cases), a moment in time spent connecting to another human being, and I find myself missing past regulars quite often. I mean, I'm not necessarily losing any sleep, but I sometimes feel a little twinge of sorrow when I think about it.

 

[Mr Bret]

Believe it or not, there is one lady I met in 1999, in another city, prior to my life in the GTA.
We still keep in touch a few times a year.
Either a text or a quick phone call.

There are a few others who I'm no longer in touch with. They chose to cut all ties from the industry when they retired.
Still think of them periodically. Always with fond memories.

 

[HobbyHorse]

Alex.

 

[mclarkez1980]

I had a great run of 2 years having Sam bexley, Laura Alexandra and Jessie Sommers as regulars. Will not see days like those again soon.

 

[OnTheWayOut]

I've been fortunate to have seen and become friends with many great women who were SPs. Some I have kept in touch with, some who cut all ties when thy retired. I miss them all, in fact yesterday I had occasion to drive near where one of them used to live and was upset that we are no longer in contact. Quite sad, then a hot french chick accosted me at a gas station to sell me some car care stuff. Cheered me right up and my car will be looking awesome! Amazing what showing cleavage and wearing tights can do for sales.

 

[scdave2003]

I keep in touch with a retired SP, phone, email, haven't seen her in the flesh for a couple of years. I help her out from time to time, wish I could get together soon, we would go out eat, walk and then go back to her place and drink wine and get naked.

 

[corp]

I miss my first regular lady. I always had a great time with her. She left and came back a couple of times but been gone again for a over a year now. She used to suck my balls like no one else.

 

[bigshot]

Over the years there have been some ladies who were special to me and I often wondered what I would do if they ever retired. The thing is, they do move on and you wish them well. Truth be told, I can't even remember most of their names anymore! I don't hobby as often as I used to, but we have so many options here in YYZ and you can get over it pretty quickly. If one of our hobbyist brothers is missing the emotional connection with a lady, he needs to reassess his needs. This could be a reflection of something deeper.

Maybe we should ask the ladies if they ever miss a client who retires or finds greener pastures and compare the responses...

 

[Jasmina]

Developing a passive emotional attachment to someone whom you are repeatedly intimate is NOT a cause to have to assess for something deeper. It makes them/us human. And it is beautiful. By no means are these men above saying they are crying over it. They simply miss the person and think of them from time to time. It's perfectly normal, and very healthy.

And yes, us ladies who have retired do miss many of our regulars, we think of them and wonder how they are, and sometimes there are those we keep in touch with even if it is just the odd email here and there to know the other is doing well.

Over the years there have been some ladies who were special to me and I often wondered what I would do if they ever retired. The thing is, they do move on and you wish them well. Truth be told, I can't even remember most of their names anymore! I don't hobby as often as I used to, but we have so many options here in YYZ and you can get over it pretty quickly. If one of our hobbyist brothers is missing the emotional connection with a lady, he needs to reassess his needs. This could be a reflection of something deeper.

Maybe we should ask the ladies if they ever miss a client who retires or finds greener pastures and compare the responses...

 

[bigshot]

Developing a passive emotional attachment to someone whom you are repeatedly intimate is NOT a cause to have to assess for something deeper. It makes them/us human. And it is beautiful. By no means are these men above saying they are crying over it. They simply miss the person and think of them from time to time. It's perfectly normal, and very healthy.

And yes, us ladies who have retired do miss many of our regulars, we think of them and wonder how they are, and sometimes there are those we keep in touch with even if it is just the odd email here and there to know the other is doing well.

I fully agree, Jasmina, and it is normal to form some form of attachment with someone with whom you are having an intimate relationship, particularly if is a relationship the has gone on over a period of time. I didn't mean to suggest that the earlier poster was forming an unhealthy relationship. However, there have been posts in the past from guys who were feeling the pain from no longer being able to see their favourite SP. It can be unhealthy for some, but I fully admit to having had some very personal connections with ladies who I had seen on a regular basis.

Personally, I tend to repeat with someone who I connect with and prefer this to jumping around and continuing to search for new companions. I believe that you and I are on the same page here...

 

[massman]

Samara. Sweet person, amazing energetic fwb. When I’d visit she’d come to my hotel and our lips would be locked and she’d pin me against the wall with her tongue down my throat without saying a word. Good times. Hope she’s well.

 

[esoterica]

Developing a passive emotional attachment to someone whom you are repeatedly intimate is NOT a cause to have to assess for something deeper. It makes them/us human. And it is beautiful. By no means are these men above saying they are crying over it. They simply miss the person and think of them from time to time. It's perfectly normal, and very healthy.

And yes, us ladies who have retired do miss many of our regulars, we think of them and wonder how they are, and sometimes there are those we keep in touch with even if it is just the odd email here and there to know the other is doing well.

It’s good to see you post here. You are missed a lot!!!

 

[Jasmina]

Bless your heart <3 I've been meaning to shoot you off an email and touch base.

It’s good to see you post here. You are missed a lot!!!

 

[mclarkez1980]

I've had the great fortune of continuing to see an ex SP as a fwb. She used to visit Toronto regularly from the west coast. We had a few epic dates and we started seeing each other when she moved on to her new career.

 

[calculous]

Thank you everyone for your replies. Since starting this thread a while back I thought I'd check the responses.

There are really just 2 retired ladies I miss a lot. which is what prompted me to create this thread.

One I informed I'd probably not see her ever again as I was taking a break from escorts and she specifically requested that I keep in touch through her email ( I was totally ready to part ways ). I did email her periodically and she responded back. Then one day 2 years after her retirement, he email went dead.

I do believe we had a real friendship relationship but she would repeatedly not give me her real name, asserting that it is very unique. I also did not tell her my real name as I believe in fair reciprocal exchanges of information. On some weeks we spent over 10 hours together. One week we spent almost every single day together. It was actually me that no longer wanted to have physical intimate time after awhile as I did not in any way want to develop deep feelings for her.

Second case was an escort that like the other above I had a perfect personality match with. I cannot explain it, it's intangible but I love talking to her all night. I never do this with escorts except with the two that I miss. She told me her full real name without even asking for mine. I am not sure why. She would hop around when she was happy and email me spontaneously. A bunch of other stuff happened but suffice it to say I genuinely miss her company and do not think I'll ever meet someone like her again. Interestingly, the two ladies are friends which may explain why they both have terrific personalities.

With both ladies, I occasionally still dream about them which then leads me to think about why I dreamt about them. I try hard to forget because I will never see them again. It's a perplexing situation as in no way do I "love" them in a romantic way or do I obsess about them. Sporadically though they enter my dreams which is beyond my control. I was also very sick last year and blurted out one of the ladies names when I was delirious/disoriented from a high fever.

Just wanted to share my experience. How have others dealt or deal with this kind of thing?

 

[John Henry]

I wholly disagree - I guess it depends on the relationship with them, but my experience has been that ladies are more than happy to carry on with select favourites post-retirement.

I'll agree with that . Sometimes it's hard to give up that kind of income .

SP - no

MPA - yes . Her name was Pat.

 

[Grimnul]

There was a girl I saw in Amsterdam a couple years back. She was very popular and I’d been trying to book her for a few trips and was finally able to. Absolutely stunning young Dutch blonde. Quite tall, slim, model looks, and a very intelligent, sweet girl. Had the evening of my life. She promptly retired about a month after that trip and I never got to see her again.

On a more “personal” note, there was another Dutch girl I used to see who worked in the windows in De Wallen. Very chill girl, I’d get 2 hour sessions with her and we’d fuck, smoke a little weed, have long conversations about all manner of things. I’d see her usually 3 or 4 times a week whenever I was over there. She retired a couple years back, still kept a few select clients (myself among them) who she would do hotel visits with, but that tapered off and I haven’t seen or talked to her in quite a while. I do miss her, we had some really great conversations and of course, the sex was great too. I hope she’s doing well.

 

[harryass]

yip, maybe 2 or so.
HOWEVER, wonder if retired Sps really miss the company of some clients?

 

[calculous]

yip, maybe 2 or so.
HOWEVER, wonder if retired Sps really miss the company of some clients?

great question. my guess is very few if any. just to be clear, I came to this realization that I'm totally irrelevant and unimportant to them or they want a total clean break from the industry, which I can certainly understand.

My thing now is wondering why and how they seemed to have left such an imprint. Even as I see some new girls, I often find my self wishing I was going to meet one of the two I obviously miss.

 

[stevieray]

Yeah, for me there was one SP who I was seeing on a regular basis for a few years. She was based in Peterborough, but would visit me on a regular basis here in Kingston, as she had family here, (she said she always had to make up an excuse about having to leave to visit `a friend`). Also got to meet up with her on an in call once as I was passing by while traveling to Orillia to visit family. Sure made a long trip much more enjoyable! Then, about a year ago, out of the blue, she just suddenly quite! Miss her dearly, as we also became good friends.