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Do you discuss in advance?

Mr.J.

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So, do you ever discuss your fantasies with an SP in advance or do you wait until you meet her and hope for the best?

Personaly I would prefer everything up front and in advance but some Sps just don't want to discuss things and others are really for it.

What's your experience with this. I had things work out very well for me last time and would like for this to continue.

We all have fantasies.....right?:eek:
 

mav256

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I've been doing this on SP Chat, to see what SP provide the services I'm interested in. Unfortunately no Ottawa SPs go onto SP chat (or at least none will go on chat and discuss anything). I've got 3 or 4 good names for my next trip to Toronto though.
 

twizzler2

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maybe some sort of template would be a happy medium. The SP could list things are willing to try and the customer could check off and/or prioritise their interests.

that would avoid the phone sex situation and would still allow for interests to be expressed.

You could even provide a place for them to describe (in 40 words or less ) their fantasy. That way there would be no way an interactive situation would come up leaving you feeling like a smartie :p
 

The Lurker

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luv4lust said:
the plus of having chat and getting in to what your wants and needs are could get you an appointment like this
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=109449
instead of a soso time i always like to get a better feel for any guy i see it makes for a more relaxed fun filled time.
Hahahah :eek: Even before I clicked on the link, I knew. But you are so right. After chatting to Queen Luv for a while, we both knew what we wanted. Being able to click or not makes for a more relaxing and fun time. That and I knew I had to buy some Timmies...

It all comes back to what most SPs are saying. Communication is the key to happiness, well that and a healthy libido...
 

luv4lust

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The Lurker said:
Hahahah Even before I clicked on the link, I knew. But you are so right. After chatting to Queen Luv for a while, we both knew what we wanted. Being able to click or not makes for a more relaxing and fun time. That and I knew I had to buy some Timmies...

It all comes back to what most SPs are saying. Communication is the key to happiness, well that and a healthy libido...
and a massage that is out of this world mmmmmmmmm:eek: i will repeat lol
 

The Lurker

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luv4lust said:
and a massage that is out of this world mmmmmmmmm i will repeat lol
Woo Hoo. Practice Practice Practice... Lol. Made a dancer stop the other day... wow is that reverse mileage?? :rolleyes:
 

southstreet

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This is a good topic. I have an active interest in role-play, and I have always found it best to discuss it with the SP beforehand before getting to the app't. This way, I find out if the SP is truly open-minded and into my fantasy (or at least willing to give it a whirl). It also ususally gives me an insight to the SP's character and how easy-hoing she is. I guess it also depends on how disappointed you would be if she wasn't into it.

....and Alexa is indeed a good role-player...;)
 
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