Do SPs care about dicksize?

[tboy]

I have found condoms to be very large here, and have had problems with them falling off since my penis is very small. You can use a rubber band to secure them on.

You could also get yourself some condom garters where the garter belt would go around your nutsack......

 

[shortchanged]

Thanks for the replies! It really kinda sucks to be small in that dept. as everyday I look at it, it makes me feel kinda inadaquate. I'm almost desparate enough to try those Extenze pills that they always have commercials for on TV. http://www.4extenze.com/ what do you think? lol! Oh and I have tried a penis pump before, but other than feeling kinda nice, that didn't do shit!

Almost just as bad as having small equipment is being short. I'm in university so it should be pretty easy to hook up, but it seems like every girl now is as tall or taller than me and of course few girls like short dudes. I see my friends and they get girls just like that, but I feel like I have to work 10x as hard for maybe 25% of the results.

So here's a few more questions if anyone could answer:

- everyone suggests I should go see petite SPs, does this mean most SPs who are taller than me will be too loose for me?
- with girls in general, is there a limit that they have where if you're too small they'll likely dump you? Would 5" be enough for most women?
- is it really how you use it rather than size that's more important? Or is that utter bullshit so that smaller guys like me won't feel so bad, you know like saying bald is sexy when that's not really true so bald guys will feel better?

- what's the best way to overcome my height/size issues as I think personality can only go so far. I don't mind sticking to short girls, but shit even alot of short girls want tall guys these days.

So the only advantage of being small it seems is like someone said its good for anal and getting deepthroated. No one will ever choke on my dick I'm sure lol. =(

 

[a 1 player]

So here's a few more questions if anyone could answer:

- everyone suggests I should go see petite SPs, does this mean most SPs who are taller than me will be too loose for me?

No, try to choose a woman who is petite in stature, and quite slender. Is this a guarantee? No, but it will increase your chances.

- with girls in general, is there a limit that they have where if you're too small they'll likely dump you? Would 5" be enough for most women?

That really depends on the woman and what they are interested in. I have never had this problem (that I know of).

- is it really how you use it rather than size that's more important? Or is that utter bullshit so that smaller guys like me won't feel so bad, you know like saying bald is sexy when that's not really true so bald guys will feel better?[/QUOTE]

I can't speak for the women, but if all things are equal (meaning women are like men), then how you use it counts for a lot. Would you rather a woman who just lies there, or a woman who tries their best to please with what they have? Regarding bald, I have been told that my bald head is sexy (when I have it), but then again, I choose to shave it.

- what's the best way to overcome my height/size issues as I think personality can only go so far. I don't mind sticking to short girls, but shit even alot of short girls want tall guys these days.

We all have our shortcomings (pardon the pun). This is where one needs an ego. Is being short any different than being fat, having acne, not having a decent income, having a hairy back etc. It is what it is. Look for people who judge you for you and don't worry so much about adding another notch to your bed post.

So the only advantage of being small it seems is like someone said its good for anal and getting deepthroated. No one will ever choke on my dick I'm sure lol. =(

I would much rather at least have the option for anal than being denied EVERY time.

 

[applet]

Being retired now I am no longer chicken to tell the truth. This is so true especially after you have been tired out by a man that you seen previously and this is not because you have over worked but just because you may have seen one inconsiderate man prior and have no time to really cancel and/or you are aware of calling rules of not calling a man unless he calls you. But, frankly it is not because we prefer smaller dicks it is a relief at times.

Ya but isn't it kinda gross from a SPs perspective to be with a man so small that he has to grind rub his body up against hers to get pleasure. What SP wants to make that much contact with a client unless he's clean and attractive.

 

[iluvbtca]

shortchanged ... I would stop worrying about the size of your member and instead worry about the size of your ego. You are being far too hard on yourself. I swear that size does matter but to guys more than women.

A slim, petite gal, i.e. spinner, will likely provide a tighter fit but you could always consider lube and trying positions that allow you deeper penetration like her ankles behind your head. Having endurance and other skills always helps too.

Don't sweat what you can't change. You can't please everyone but you should try and please the most important person ... You.

Cheezy I know but true. Plus my 500th post is about dicks ... I feel kind of gay.

 

[Mia.Colpa]

I think shortchanged is dicking us around, he's just playing with us about his dick size and havig a laugh on us with our serious answers to his so "small dick"called problem. lmao

 

[Jade4u]

Ya but isn't it kinda gross from a SPs perspective to be with a man so small that he has to grind rub his body up against hers to get pleasure. What SP wants to make that much contact with a client unless he's clean and attractive.

I was never one to work outside of my comfort zone. I do agree with that to an extent that is why I never allowed kissing and did not like to be a ymmv type of woman. For the rest of it you get to the point that looks do not matter and like I said it is the personality that does matter. There for the most part all the men on this board and others I have met have been total gentlemen and respect a womans wishes. When you start to see the people for who they are inside to that degree looks then do not matter. The ones you refuse to see after that are ones that over step thier boundaries in one way or another. There is many men I have made friends with over the years and that is through sitting and chatting with them and it is at that point you do not view them as being there only for sex either and then you just accept that is part of the package deal. When you can see people as people no matter what then it is amazing.

Honestly then you will start putting people in three catergories not by looks either but by 1. Inhumane 2. acceptable and 3. Yes, you got it your preffered client that you feel is not a preffered for sex but more of a trustworthy and safe friend. But yes it helps if they are fun to be with in bed too.

But hey if they are I am not telling them that or they may take it the wrong way and I did value the friendships and knowing that they will come again rather than meeting someone new I would accept them first.

But if you respect an sp's comfort zone then I see no sp having a problem in caring beyond that about looks or otherwise as long as you are clean.

 

[Jade4u]

I think shortchanged is dicking us around, he's just playing with us about his dick size and havig a laugh on us with our serious answers to his so "small dick"called problem. lmao

Maybe but it can be educational for some to know how to be respectful and for some men with fears of meeting sp's to get over it.

Not that I really care at the moment I still love this place and am going to tell it like it is from my point of view.

Sure every woman is different too. But hey it could bring some awareness.

If he is not serious well I am.

 

[shortchanged]

I think shortchanged is dicking us around, he's just playing with us about his dick size and havig a laugh on us with our serious answers to his so "small dick"called problem. lmao

Dude, what makes you think I'm messing around??? I would LOVE to be joking around and say 'haha suckers! I was only messing with ya and I really have a 9" superdick that girls find too big for them alot of the time, what should I do?' But unfortunately the jokes on me and I'm stuck with what I have.

We all have our shortcomings (pardon the pun). This is where one needs an ego. Is being short any different than being fat, having acne, not having a decent income, having a hairy back etc. It is what it is. Look for people who judge you for you and don't worry so much about adding another notch to your bed post.

Its not so much seeing how many girls I can sleep with as its trying to get girls I'm interested in to look my way and give me a chance. With all the guys out there that girls can pick from, its hard to get noticed and get chosen when you're not their 'ideal' guy. I'm trying to work with what I got, but its tough.

shortchanged ... I would stop worrying about the size of your member and instead worry about the size of your ego. You are being far too hard on yourself. I swear that size does matter but to guys more than women.

At least a couple of girls I've been with when they've seen my equipment they've had what I felt like was somewhat of a disappointed look. Like 'oh, that's it?'. I remember watching Sex in the City a while ago (Don't watch the show much, but I was just flipping through channels and saw it, I swear), and one of the main characters was talking about how she met this perfect guy except that he had a small dick. Then another girl jumps in and says she slept with a small dicked guy and she didn't know if he was trying to fuck her or erase her. And I'm thinking shit is this what girls talk about with their lady friends??

 

[superman]

man, just stick with skinny girls that have intellect and personality