Do men even notice the little things anymore?

[sexyyasmin]

Lately I’ve been wondering — do men still notice the soft details?

Like freshly steamed sheets, a perfect playlist in the background, warm towels after a shower… that little glance before I sit beside you.

Sometimes I go all-out to set the mood — low lighting, candles, silk robe, perfume you’ll never forget — and then he walks in, says “hey,” and flops down like we’re already married.

Don’t get me wrong — I love making someone feel special. But it hits different when they notice I’ve curated the entire experience.

Curious… does that kind of detail even register anymore? Or am I spoiling people too much?

 

[Shaquille Oatmeal]

I personally do.
Hygiene, clean environments, and enthusiasm/attitude is something I pay attention to.

 

[Bucktee]

They do but considering that they're on the clock, they opt not to waste valuable time chatting you up the way they would a civilian.

The small space in time is A LOT of money for the average person.

 

[Y_Diner]

Shaq covered it.
Actions speak louder.
One overnighter I had, the morning after
I went to get my car bc I was going to drop her off, and return to go swim in the hotel pool. As I was waiting she called to say sorry if you’re waiting but Iforgot to pack up my personals, so I’m packing it up for you. I reminded her I’m not checking out yet and coming back after I drop her to swim and sleep a little more. When she came I told her how thoughtful and sweet that was and gave her a big hug and kiss on the cheek, to her reply, “anytime”!

 

[squeezer]

When she came I told her how thoughtful and sweet that was and gave her a big hug and kiss on the cheek, to her reply, “anytime”!

Aw how sweet, but admit it! You were hoping for a car BJ, on her ride home!!!!

 

[Y_Diner]

Aw how sweet, but admit it! You were hoping for a car BJ, on her ride home!!!!

The morning sex was great!

 

[Sonic Temple]

I like many of you do as well notice the small things and truly appreciate it (especially when we get gifts from our favorites as well) - I have fond memories when I first saw @EricaBowes - at the time she was still with @HotPinkList - when I entered her incall - she had this wonderful pumpkin spice candle lit, with soft lightning and just made me feel so welcomed. Great memories - not sure why that came to mind but - we def. notice the small things.

 

[seanzo]

In my eyes, those little things are the difference between having a good session and a fantastic one. The one thing I always appreciate is a good mattress and sheets. I loved Roommates back in the day when they were still in business near Young and College but my god their beds were dreadful. I've slept on rocks and tree roots in Algonquin Park that were more comfortable then their beds

 

[Cardioguy]

Those little things speak volumes about the kind of person a client is dealing with and what you value.
To some they will be irrelevant and to others, they will be non-starters.

Directionally, those things may also foreshadow where your business is or is headed.
Clients who value an environment like the one you are curating will be far more likely to return.
Likewise, if such a client were to walk into a space that was a disaster in a multitude of ways, they would not return more than likely leaving the provider with only the clients who do not mind being in such a place.This is somewhat of an oversimplification, of course as all other things (ad & picture quality, for instance) would need to be aligned for that to occur with a higher degree of certainty.

Ultimately I believe that if you care about these things, then don't get discouraged by some clients you happen to have right now that do not.

 

[superman12]

Lately I’ve been wondering — do men still notice the soft details?

Like freshly steamed sheets, a perfect playlist in the background, warm towels after a shower… that little glance before I sit beside you.

Sometimes I go all-out to set the mood — low lighting, candles, silk robe, perfume you’ll never forget — and then he walks in, says “hey,” and flops down like we’re already married.

Don’t get me wrong — I love making someone feel special. But it hits different when they notice I’ve curated the entire experience.

Curious… does that kind of detail even register anymore? Or am I spoiling people too much?

I think it depends on the guy and what things they value. If a guy cares for steamed towels or some nice music in the background those little details will certainly be noticed and will go a long way in having a repeat client. For me personally the welcome when I enter the room is everything. It will tell me if I am going to have a good or bad time with the sp. I enjoy really warm bubbly welcomes with a nice hug and some kissing right when I enter. I dislike cold welcomes where the sp just tells me to take off my shoes and go take a shower. It makes everything just so much more transactional and unwelcoming.

 

[The Options Menu]

Personally I don't need a SP to turn it up to 11 experience wise, but I do very much like it when a SP shows that she cares about her environment and is thoughtful about the client experience. Those are probably the two strongest indicators of how a session will go. That goes for independents and incalls.

 

[angrymime666]

Two different scenarios.....

For sex I just want to fuck. I really don't care for any other bells and whistles. Be hygienic, put together, and reasonably personable.

If I have an interest outside of just sex then the little things may go far if I like the little things she does. Just because she thinks it cute, sexy, thoughtful doesn't necessarily mean I will feel the same way.

 

[xix]

I notice, but the majority of people don't know what a COMPLIMENT is. Or they are expecting in a certain way to be said or be told a compliment. Like a pre-script in their head and if I say it differently they go off all confused.

 

[LP191]

Different strokes..

I personally like slowly taking off the lingerie and everything, and playing around

Some dudes like to get right at it

 

[ohmygod89]

I often have an outfit request, to start the session - so that's my small little moment that will generally start my session off right. But music on in the background is always appreciated. And if it's someone new - it can also be an easy conversation starter. Also - a second or "new" towel for the shower home is always a nice bonus, cause after 60-90 mins the original towel isn't always dried out.

 

[massman]

Lately I’ve been wondering — do men still notice the soft details?

Like freshly steamed sheets, a perfect playlist in the background, warm towels after a shower… that little glance before I sit beside you.

Sometimes I go all-out to set the mood — low lighting, candles, silk robe, perfume you’ll never forget — and then he walks in, says “hey,” and flops down like we’re already married.

Don’t get me wrong — I love making someone feel special. But it hits different when they notice I’ve curated the entire experience.

Curious… does that kind of detail even register anymore? Or am I spoiling people too much?

Yup

 

[Sunday90]

Yes

 

[Prince12991]

keep up the good work. Some of us notice and appreciate such efforts very much.
Such attention to the experience will increase the chance I'll book again.

 

[sexyyasmin]

keep up the good work. Some of us notice and appreciate such efforts very much.
Such attention to the experience will increase the chance I'll book again.

With pleasure!

 

[Robert Mugabe]