Re: Description?
******I was talking to another lady on this board a few days ago about starting a email/database about TIPS and INFORMATION we can share with one another about protecting ourselves. I have been in this biz for about 6 years and at first took stupid risks, but I was just lucky but I know I have some possibly valuable info to share and I know so do many of you. We have to start working and sticking together LADIES!!!!! I know we can do it, a lot more than we are now. If we dont do it no one else will! I believe it is our RESPONSIBLITY as sex workers to help protect one another. Especially since demimonde is now defunct. I will be collecting verifyable work email and/or work phone numbers because ......I would obviously need to know you are a working sex work female or shemale, and I would not want these tips getting into the hands of those who get pleasure out of hurting us.
Because... unfortunately most attacks against sex workers are not thoroughly investigated (i.e. 50+ murdered prostitutes in B.C.)
Ladies we ALL have to start VERIFYING ALL of our clients. Rapists, and murders dont tell you what they are going to do to you before they do it. How many times have we heard victims say he seemed so nice and didnt look like a bad guy. Of course at first they act nice because they are predators, 'wolves in sheeps clothing' who know it is 'easier to catch bees with honey than with vinegar' and pour out the honey to trap and manipulate us and gain our trust so they can catch us with our guard down!!!!! If we all do it it will become common place like it is in the USA, I work there to and the men give the info much more freely than T.O. guys, and I have seen very rich, successfull and prominent men, who have a lot to loose DO.
As Morgan said a few months ago about guys who are worried about, and refuse give us any personal info out of fear......until we start hearing about clients that are robbed, beaten, raped, stabbed, shot and strangled in thier own homes by ESCORTS I may make an exception but until than......
Their right to privacy SHOULD never SUPERSEED our NEED to protect ourselves and be safe, NEVER. And all reasonable, intelligent, grown men UNDERSTAND THIS!. As one man on this board said any woman who takes such risks is OUT OF HER GORD. As we see in this case it is not worth any amount of money in the world to take such unnecessary and additional risks with our life.
***THINK ABOUT THIS FOR A SECOND.....
Unfortuantely too many 'upscale' independant ladies/escorts think that these types of crimes only happen on the street to $20 drug addicted prostitutes. That type of inncorrect thinking, is sooo untrue. And to those wo think that guys who see street ladies are all totally different than guys who only see internet upscale escorts.......as less ladies work the streets and work indoors where do you think all their clients go they move to indoor escorts TOO, obviously.!!!!!!!
I mentioned to a friend that if a 5'4, 115 pd girl has totally ANONYMOUS unverifyed clients/ much larger and stroner men at that, into her house and closes the door behind them, especially if she works alone........
*******IMO that is EVEN MORE RISKY......... than walking the streest and picking up clients and jumping into their cars. Because at least you see his licence plate, someone will probably see you jumping into his car and may be able to at least give a description, being outdoors gives a lady a better chance to run and escape and quite possibly the attcker csan be caught in the act by a passerby or LE.
Sure we will loose some clients but that could be the very client who had bad intentions and had planned to hurt us or kill us.
I have heard of so many stories of ladies getting hurt in incalls lately but most women are afraid to report the incident because of fear and past misconduct of some LE who didnt really help them.
But ladies report it, seeking out a sex worker friendly cop. I am sure Maggies and Swat, can help.
The more info the cops can collect about this guy/others will give them more amunition to catch them. And trust me they are not looking to arrest a few prostitutes, you dont think they already know how to find us if they REALLY wanted to arrest all of us ? Very easy.
On detective mentioned to me that like all viloent sex attackers men who rape and murder prostitutes ESCALATE in thier behavior/crimes, because the THRILL wears off over time. So they may start off with prostitutes because to these cowards we are easier targets, but as they become more confidant that they are too smart to be caught....... they often move to " our daughters and sisiters and mothers and wives!" Like Paul Bernardo who started off having very rough sex with his girlfriends to the Scarborough rapist to , physically abusing his wife, to drugging and rapping his sister in law and then to kidnapping and rapping and mutulating and murdering teenage girls and videotaping it.
