Disturbing MP experience

[FunJay]

I have thought long and hard about whether it would be wise to post this experience or not. My goal is not to "out" the MPA or the MP for that matter. I guess I am posting just to get some feedback as to what you might do and /or have done in this situation. This is a first for me in all my years....

A few weeks ago I went to an MP that I have been to before several times. It is a place that has been around for a long time, with generally favorable reviews. I went to see someone I had seen before. It had been a while and I noticed she seemed a bit off. We went to the room (very dark) and everything seemed okay, but I do remember a smell -- thought that she had probably had a cigarette or something while waiting. No big deal.

Service was okay, not as good as previously, but no big deal. Post massage, she rushed out of the room. I decided to help myself to a towel in the rack beside the table. I sat up, pulled a small towel out and watched as a glass tube rolled out and fell to the floor. Yikes. I looked down and saw broken glass -- some of it black -- obviously burnt. Yes a crack pipe. I started freaking out. I grabbed my shoes from the other side of the table and managed to use another towel to push the glass under the towel rack. I was panicking, scared, angry and embarrassed all at once.

I got out of there as quick as i could, pretending as if nothing had happened. I vowed to myself never to return.

What would you have done? Confronter her? Told management? Called in a complaint? Written a review outing them? Do you think this is common? Any thoughtful comments appreciated.

Please don't ask who or where this was as i Have decided to keep that to myself for now. Thanks. FJ

 

[LikeRedHeads]

Yes you can keep that to yourself but I am sure the manager of that place would like to know, as well as some hobbyists. Think about it...
Is it possible to pm people who ask the name of the girl/place or is it out of the question?

 

[cwk]

i think i would just contact the manager or whoever runs the place and explain to them what happened.

I don't think you really know who's crack pipe it is, as it was on the towel rack...could be the girl's or someone else's.

 

[Jabba]

Yikes.
I've seen an MA humped-up on coke. Not a pleasant experience. If memory serves, I wasn't as considerate & I outed her & the MP here on Terb.
I thought the experience was bent enough so I should warn others away. I went back to the MP, but not the MA. She didn't last long. Apparently she burned her bridges at other MPs by doing the same crap.

I would expect the same fate for this MA.

 

[Cowboy Kenny]

Tell the management. There is NO massage parlor in town who would accept behaviour like that. The managers can't always be there, and aren't always aware of things like that - but if no one tells them, they can't fix it.

Cleo, you took the words right outta my mouth, i was thinking the exact same as I scrolled down this thread. Let management know about what you found and how. You don't know 100% that it belonged to the MA you saw, although her behavior as you described it would suggest that it's possible but that's for the owners to determine give them a place to start from to look into this themselves.

 

[too2shy]

Addiction has many faces. Drugs, sex (yea that means seeing spa, mas, etc), gambling. This girl isn't anymore broken than most. Just a different vice.

People could blabber on about that totally being different. But I'd dare you to pose the question to a loved one who doesn't know about your hobbying for a real world relative answer. Putting your dick in the hands, mouths, and other places of random strangers probably ranks as poorly to them.

She needs help. Not persecution.

 

[Jabba]

Addiction has many faces. Drugs, sex (yea that means seeing spa, mas, etc), gambling. This girl isn't anymore broken than most. Just a different vice.

People could blabber on about that totally being different. But I'd dare you to pose the question to a loved one who doesn't know about your hobbying for a real world relative answer. Putting your dick in the hands, mouths, and other places of random strangers probably ranks as poorly to them.

She needs help. Not persecution.

The cold light of reason! Well put, but perhaps a little off topic.
I don't think there's any persecution being discussed, but rather a struggle of conscience. So, how can the OP actually help this MA? What will the MP do to help the MA?

 

[SpringChicken]

Addiction has many faces. Drugs, sex (yea that means seeing spa, mas, etc), gambling. This girl isn't anymore broken than most. Just a different vice.

People could blabber on about that totally being different. But I'd dare you to pose the question to a loved one who doesn't know about your hobbying for a real world relative answer. Putting your dick in the hands, mouths, and other places of random strangers probably ranks as poorly to them.

She needs help. Not persecution.

Well said...

 

[Cobra Enorme]

tell management. we're all in danger of going down if that place gets busted for drugs.

 

[Cowboy Kenny]

CH, you might need to read the posting again and understand that the towels left in a room in an MP are for the use of the clients, there was no invaision of privacy on the clients part, that's what the towels are there for.

Again it's important to remember as different MPs use different rooms that we don't know 100% that the alleged pipe belonged to the MA in question. It is the client's responsibility to bring the finding to the attention of management the same way he should had he spotted a mouse or a leaking pipe. If they don't know they can't fix it, until it's too late. Let managment decide how to deal with the matter. By turning a blind eye to the issue we are collectively enabling the matter to get worse.

It's important to understand the pipe could have belonged to anyone of the MAs , by making management aware they would likely know who might be inclined or the likely offender. Heck it's even possible that the MA was set up by another MA the possibilities are somewhat endless but without disclosing to the managment what was found and when, then the situation is only likely to get worse and yes could possibly end up in further trouble involving LE depending on the situation.

This isn't about outing or snitching, it's about the first steps in providing a solution. Consider the human consequences if the user of that pipe doesn't get the help they clearly need.

 

[John Gilbunni]

Say something. 1: this shit always leads to more shit down the road. It's inevitable . 2: You'll be doing her a favour in the long run.

 

[Cowboy Kenny]

Cowboy I could be wrong here as I have never been to an MP

Which is why I've sent you a PM explaining the basic operations of an mp, and how the posting was never about the OPs safety but more about the responsibility and accountability to report the incident to management. It was never about his safety.

 

[herelookin (pt2)]

why she would hide a crack pipe in towels intended to be used by clients!!!???.

I'm thinking it has to do with Harper's Secret Agenda... Global Warming... UN Black Ops Helos... Bush, either of them... or even the Global Warming Deniers!

 

[Jabba]

Well, let's not get carried away here. We don't know for sure that anyone was smoking crack here. More likely it was just a hash-pipe, basically marijuana. Not great for the image of the spa, but certainly not nearly as serious.

Also there's been rumours that some MA's have showed up at the spa high on coke. This activity probably doesn't happen at the spa, it happens before they come into work, if they come into work at all; they may be too high to bother coming in. But coke and crack are both cocaine, and the effect on people's health will be the same.

Re: Doing dope at work - yup, it happens.
I've had it on good authority (ie/ girls who work @ the MP) that other chicks are doing dope on site. The MA I spoke with refused to work at the same location.

 

[mpdvg]

Crack, coke, hash, marijuana,.... I have no idea what they are... At first I thought crack is like smoking cigarette.

How do you not know the difference between crack and a cigarette?

 

[OnTheWayOut]

I say live and let live. You can't know for sure the pipe belonged to your MA, it could have belonged to anyone there or even a customer who hid it in the towels. Her behavior could have been caused by untold reasons. Yeah, if you detected a funny smell it was most likely her but you never know. If it bugged you that much either don't go back to that MP or see a different girl there.

 

[Paradise Spa & Angel's Touch]

IMHO report what you seen to Management and they can investigate the situation and follow-up with you.....our motto is to create a clean,safe environment for girls and clients!!!!

 

[FunJay]

Hello everyone. I checked this thread yesterday but didn't get a chance to respond. Thanks to all for their comments -- much appreciated! I notice a few of the comments have been edited - but let me reiterate my goal was not / is not to out anyone. I am a caring / concerned / nervous hobbiest and just wanted some advice or guidance. I'm pretty open minded but nervous around certain things -- drug use being one of them.

First of all - i agree 100 percent there is no way to know for sure the pipe was hers - agreed! Though there was a smell, it was a Saturday (only one working at the time), erratic behaviour, etc. All circumstantial indeed. Would not hold up in a court of law,.

As someone who has on occasion enjoyed some pot/hash (never inhaled i swear and a long long time ago) I do know the differnece with a crack pipe. Regardless -- I have decided to not return to this MPA -- however it will be hard not to return at some point to the MP.

I will not report this to management at this point.

As for the taking of a towel from the rack -- do you really think this is an issue?? Come on. I have done this frequently when left all lubed up and have never felt guilty about it. I pay the fee plus tip --- and use the shower and maybe a bit of extra soap or shampoo. Never felt it was a problem!!

Part of me feels bad for starting this thread. I have PMed some of you info requested! All the best with your hobbying in 2013! I will contineu to post since the comeback but will stick with less contentious issues!

FJ

 

[FunJay]

Also have tried to respond to a few of your pm's but boxes are full -- RedHead / Cowboy.....

 

[herelookin (pt2)]

Part of me feels bad for starting this thread.

And yet you start the same discussion on the other Board... LOL