Hi. I am attending a post-secondary institution in Toronto and like many other students, my semester finals are scheduled for next week. I may not be able to write my tests as there is a possibility (I hate to think there is such a possibility, but I have to be realistic) that my dad’s bypass surgery does not go well (scheduled for Thursday). I informed the coordinator of one of the courses I am taking about the possibility that I may not be able to attend the test on the scheduled date. This particular course is of great interest to me and I want to do well in this course. I am told, and I do understand and agree with the established procedure, requiring a note from the doctor, showing/proving that indeed my dad is sick or (worse)... dead, to use this person’s words (sigh). After meeting with this person today to discuss this matter (and review a previous test), I sent to her the following message as a follow-up to our conversation and a previous correspondence about this particular matter, message she had not replied to at that point.
“RE: Test on (date): I do not believe I can obtain the documentation you are requesting. My parents reside (…) far from the hospital where my father has been admitted… and should he not be making it through this procedure, I may very well see him at the funeral (not the hospital) … Therefore, I do not believe I will be meeting with one of the doctors (incl. specialists) he has been seeing for his care. I understand you need documentation… I may have to take the course again then, which is fine by me. I will not miss my father’s funeral for a test… Anyone would agree that it would be a legitimate thing to do: to pay my last respects to an extraordinary person, so important in my life.
Then again everything might turn fine and he might go back home post-operatively, making sure he is recuperating from the surgery and reaching a level of comfort and homeostasis.
I will pray for that.”
I would like some advice from you guys on this.. Am I overreacting??...
My apologies if my English is not the greatest, by the way
ersa
“RE: Test on (date): I do not believe I can obtain the documentation you are requesting. My parents reside (…) far from the hospital where my father has been admitted… and should he not be making it through this procedure, I may very well see him at the funeral (not the hospital) … Therefore, I do not believe I will be meeting with one of the doctors (incl. specialists) he has been seeing for his care. I understand you need documentation… I may have to take the course again then, which is fine by me. I will not miss my father’s funeral for a test… Anyone would agree that it would be a legitimate thing to do: to pay my last respects to an extraordinary person, so important in my life.
Then again everything might turn fine and he might go back home post-operatively, making sure he is recuperating from the surgery and reaching a level of comfort and homeostasis.
I will pray for that.”
I would like some advice from you guys on this.. Am I overreacting??...
My apologies if my English is not the greatest, by the way
ersa