Differences Between SPs and Lovers

ExoticSpirit

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Here's an interesting question (I hope). If you were going to have sex with a real lover (wife or girlfriend), would you approach your time with her (technique, etc.) differently than with a SP, even a GFE SP?

For myself, I think I would be a bit more generous in terms of giving a lover pleasure whether it's eating her, more foreplay or whatever. With a SP, I think I would be more into porno style sex since I am paying as a customer.

How about you guys?
 
ExoticSpirit said:
Here's an interesting question (I hope). If you were going to have sex with a real lover (wife or girlfriend), would you approach your time with her (technique, etc.) differently than with a SP, even a GFE SP?

For myself, I think I would be a bit more generous in terms of giving a lover pleasure whether it's eating her, more foreplay or whatever. With a SP, I think I would be more into porno style sex since I am paying as a customer.

How about you guys?


IMO, it's best to treat both kinds of sex partners equally. Someone correct me if I am wrong, but I think the SPs that are into it, like being spoiled and receiving pleasure -- women are women after all! And the non-SP GF should be into porno style too. The main thing is to be yourself. Women are wonderful creatures and they should be treated well.
 
Damondean said:
IMO, it's best to treat both kinds of sex partners equally. Someone correct me if I am wrong, but I think the SPs that are into it, like being spoiled and receiving pleasure -- women are women after all! And the non-SP GF should be into porno style too. The main thing is to be yourself. Women are wonderful creatures and they should be treated well.

Hopefully you treat all people well without contrivance. The point of the hobby is that you pay money to be treated well by the SP. It's not about your treatment of her. That should cum naturally.
 
The main difference for me is

I can find an SP