DFK VS. LFK and comfort level with this...

[Davenash2]

1. What’s the difference? French Kiss is with tongue right? Or do we use the Acronym LFK to mean lips to face or lips to lips with No tongue? And DFK..Well needs no explanation.> lots of tongue and wet mouths. Sloppy wet. Right?

2. What percent of SP and maybe MPA’s consider FK too intimate and should only be with our spouse or significant other?

I really like kissing, but don’t want to push it with any provider. Some are good with it and some are not. I know.. YMMV with most providers and as appointments continue the provider might be ok with it. I just don’t want to upset anyone.

I know kissing is a lower risk activity, as saliva usually kills most things. I guess I could be wrong..

If this topic has been covered before, can someone provide a link? I tried searching with DFK or Kissing. Nothing really came up that compared the two.

 

[Regina]

Yes, LFK is without the tongue, DFK is with the tongue.

"Too intimate" is one reason why a SP might not provide it. Herpes and mono are other reasons (it's next to impossible to get other STDs from kissing). Providing BBBJ and DFK can be particularly risky as it is very possible to pass oral herpes on through BBBJ, making it now genital herpes. I got mono once from providing DFK so now I'm more selective about who I will DFK with. Not fun to have it.

 

[Davenash2]

Thanks. Always thought French Kissing was French Kissing. I guess this industry needed an acronym to mean no tongue.
I guess some SP and clients are all playing Russian rulette with the BBBJ thing. It seams to be advertised by SP's so heavily. I know (I hope) most SP don't offer it to every client, but I know there is pressure to provide it. You can't see every STD. Even after getting comfortable with a client after many visits, you never know who has been with who and now might have it.
I guess thats the "gods" punishment for being in the industry or being a client.