Dfk how to initiate with SP...maybe someone has the magic answer
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For some SP's - and some civilians - DFK is more intimate than FS. Sounds strange but it in a way makes sense; FS involves protection so there's not a lot of actual contact, whereas DFK involves the exchange of fluids, which some women don't want to do with a bunch of strangers. When it's happened with me, it was a chemistry thing in the heat of the moment. I can't really see myself asking for DFK though. It's the one thing that if she's just doing it for me, I'm not into it.
I only DFK at the door if it's a regular. Most SPs aren't going to DFK you right out the gate. They want you to have payed and cleaned up first. So don't take that as DFK being off the table. But if you're seeing SPs who are well known/reviewed for DFKing and you're not receiving it, perhaps you need to look at your oral hygiene. If you're all clean/healthy there, then just ask before a session if DFK is on the menu. Really, you should always ask seeing as it's important to you. Ask again in person If she's into DFK. If you're getting a yes to DFK beforehand and not receiving it in session, then there may be something up with your oral hygiene that you're not noticing. It's the only thing I can think of that would be such a deal breaker for multiple SPs. Unless you're really rough and suck her lips/tongue hard and bite etc.
In a romantic way I'd start from the tip of her toes and work my way up to the tip of her head, but then she'd blame the cumulative tastes of her body parts on me.
So maybe best to start with the head and work your way down instead, respecting the old turn away off course.
So maybe best to start with the head and work your way down instead, respecting the old turn away off course.
Lots of great advice and I’m in the camp if needing DFk, so seek other providers that love it and are known for it.
Yasmina from Minx is a queen!
Otherwise even with great hygiene and everything else, ymmv may rear it’s head with that chemistry thing.
Yasmina from Minx is a queen!
Otherwise even with great hygiene and everything else, ymmv may rear it’s head with that chemistry thing.
I'm envious. YMMV is definitely your friend, my friend. My experience has seen the percentage reversed...90% no cigar.
Good advice. Thanks, will add this to my pre visit prep routine.
This, I understand. Me too, the times I have had that kind of session. The whole open conversation thing is so sensible, so the right thing to do and so far past my doing because of similar feelings to what you mention above.
I would prefer it be an upsell delt with the donation, then an awkward convo.
Honestly, all I had in mind was a lk at the door. It sets a tone.
Ouch!
I hear you, and agree with the advice. I have learned, and will use what I've learned. Thanks all.
The secret...I sloooooowwwly take a sensually shaped toothbrush and gennnntly go up, then down, then up, over and over again. Back and forth too, at least one hour or so before the meeting. I carefully, calmly, not eat or drink anything beyond water until I'm ready to get the room information. Then I place my right hand on the small bottle of mouthwash I carry before a visit, and use a gentle twisting motion till 'pop'...the cap comes off...I tilt back slowly the bottle and let it drip down into my mouth, gently swirling it all over every square centimetre of my mouth...and hold....and swirl....and hold....then I spurt it out into the dirt of the planter in the lobby (lol). I move elegantly and gracefully to the lift, caress the floor number button...then push. Upon arrival, I knock so she can barely hear it...then enter...smile as I absorb the beauty radiating off the goddess before me. I take my left hand and pull back my jacket, and take the right slowly to my back pocket, were I gently fondle an envelope that i guide horizontal, and deposit it flat upon a nearby table. I sensually look in her eyes, and say "I care not to defile your extraordinary beauty with my UP Express hands; I dare ask thee if I can partake in a ritual cleansing of my personage prior to the honour of your company." Pretty reliable smooch rate for an old generic-looking bugger that has all his teeth. You're welcome Canada.
Lol
Lol
3 possible answers
1) WTF are you waiting for?
2) I smile coyly back, close my eyes, and say "...No"
3) Look lady, you can do whatever you want. I'm just glad you opened the door!
Wow - if payment, showering, and swishing of mouthwash are getting you hot...
I totally didn't mean to be insulting!! Sorry if I was...unless the ouch was referring to the rough kissing comment...then yes, OUCH indeed!!!
No, Parker, you were not insulting. I appreciate your and Charlotte's honest and helpful replys. I agree, oral hygiene is key. One of the few times I did receive dfk (from a very attractive SP btw) her breath was so foul tasting (not cigs, no odour), that I declined that perk on my own.
Kherg's routine sounds familiar, except for the the caressing the elevator button part. Altough I tend to speed things up a bit, after all, we only have an hour. Maybe I need to slow it down some.
I guess with some of the ladies you have to slow it down. I like to jump into DFK right out the shower if the client is into it, but I like to get right into it. DFK just ignites so much passion and fun, plus it really gets me turned on!!
Clearly someone who hasn't taken the time to clean themselves (orally) are either not going to get DFK or will but the SP isn't going to enjoy it which is never a good thing. I'm hoping the OP isn't ignorant and goes in with bad oral hygiene than wonders why DFK isn't happening. So what would prevent a hot DFK session if the person HAS taken the time to brush and use mouthwash?
Little advice guys - do all this stuff PRIOR to arrival. As far as I'm concerned, the mouthwash available is there for show or for the fools who haven't planned ahead. I keep mouthwash in my car and gargle when I park. If a lady wants to greet with a kiss on the lips or cheek or even a hug, she's getting a minty fresh whiff right from the start. There's even the bonus move of popping a mint/gum as well.
FearlessFreep
Dfk how to initiate with SP...maybe someone has the magic answer
Just ask.
Lean in slow and see how she responds. You can usually tell as if they aren't into it they will turn their head away or maybe go after your neck or ears. But as others pointed out if it's a deal breaker ask in advance.
