That's a long time to use a deposit. I would have asked for the deposit back if it was during the Covid lockdown but if the provider won't return it I would think that a mutual agreement can be met. I dunno I see it both ways. Another reason I don't do deposits for bookings. Once they have your money it's hard to get it back.I happened upon an interesting discussion on Twitter. One of our local favorites (hint...loves cats and claims she's funnier than you) was slamming guys who sent deposits back in 2020 and are only now reaching out to complete the transaction. I feel that if one doesn't explicitly set an end date then a client can reach out anytime. Each case is different. For instance a client giving a deposit back before the pandemic might now feel safe enough to engage with others. Wondering the collective take on this.
I would never see that girl. Her behavior on Twitter is a turn off and plus a few years ago I was in contact with her and she was rude to me. Plus I believe she likes to posts clients numbers on twitter she has issues with.I didn't even quote his post, how was I responding to him?
Stop. You misunderstood. I was talking about Stefania, which is who the OP was referring to in his original post. I didn't even read your post ffs.
I probably have a bunch of expired cards then! That's pretty outrageous though. As it's effectively selling....nothing.Actually plenty of cards do that. Except they have the date showing now but only because of the uproar caused before. So it is not just escorts that have an issue with people coming 3 years after the fact.
See that is what I was wondering.I probably have a bunch of expired cards then! That's pretty outrageous though. As it's effectively selling....nothing.
The problem with OP's post is that I'm not sure if this is actually a deposit issue. A deposit is used in the industry to reserve a timeslot with a provider. If the client cancelled within a certain window, he is trading his deposit for the providers potential loss of income or other expenses incurred. But given the timeline, I suspect this is related to COVID and likely it was the provider who cancelled, and instead of returning the deposit she offered to apply it to a future appointment. At that point it has less to do with being a deposit and more to do with the new agreement of applying it to a future visit. He's agreeing to give up the returned deposit from her cancelling in return for being able to apply it later, and then it sounds like she's reneging on that claiming the agreement has expired.
Even if the client cancelled, if the provider offered to apply the deposit to a future appointment, I personally think she should honor that commitment.
Yes, I assume any agreement surrounding an illegal transaction would be hard to enforce. For example, could I sue my cocaine supplier for shorting a shipment ?Except you don't have a written agreement between you and an SP stating the amount, the service being performed, etc. Even if you had such a document, I don't think it would be legally enforceable anyway.
Hey Jenesis I did some digging into this. It's as I suspected. Their was no cancellation. The deposit was given at the beginning of COVID for a future date. I'm guessing that he felt the deposit would help her in some small financial way. I mean at the time who really knew how bad the pandemic would be or how long restrictions would last? Once the 'client felt it was safe to resume pre pandemic activities he reached out and assumed that he whatever paid would be less the deposit.See that is what I was wondering.
Is it a deposit not used because he canceled? Was it one of those pre-paid sessions guys were doing at the beginning of COVID?
Either way; deposits just seem too messy to be bothered to deal with. For me anyways
Was he in contact with her at all over the 3 years? Or did he just contact and say “hey remember back in 2020 when I gave you that deposit, I would like my appointment now”Hey Jenesis I did some digging into this. It's as I suspected. Their was no cancellation. The deposit was given at the beginning of COVID for a future date. I'm guessing that he felt the deposit would help her in some small financial way. I mean at the time who really knew how bad the pandemic would be or how long restrictions would last? Once the 'client felt it was safe to resume pre pandemic activities he reached out and assumed that he whatever paid would be less the deposit.
And I completely agree with you in that deposits just seem too messy.
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As for contact I don't know for sure but suspect "hey remember back in 2020...." I agree having some quick touchpoints along the way as you suggested would have been a wise approach.Was he in contact with her at all over the 3 years? Or did he just contact and say “hey remember back in 2020 when I gave you that deposit, I would like my appointment now”
If there was no contact, I would assume the deposit forfeit. This is why a timeline And communication is needed.
If he kept in touch and continued to say, I am not ready but I will still have that appointment, in the future - that is a different story.
I think your case is different in that you already established a connection and knew them both quite well. I suspect your generosity was much appreciated during those times and kudos to both as your story has a happy ending.right or wrong
I did prepay with 2 SP's during covid to help them out
I had seen both a few times or many times in the case of the 1
so about 18-20 months later when things opened up & I had felt comfortable seeing SP's again, I reached out to both
Both remembered the prepaid or deposit to help them out & the 2 meetings were a nice way to get back on the saddle.
But I did it knowing that I may loose the $$$$,however I had a steady income through pensions & becuase they held a special space in my memories of the hobby I did it
But yes, deposits can & do get messy with some, as we see on this board
Oh & btw, both advt on terb & not just on LL
normally I dont do deposits