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Theredmilf

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I was thinking of civvies too not just SPs.
One of my first MFF threesomes after my separation was with a younger couple, the lady was especially submissive and had zero gag reflex so could use her throat for FF very easily. I remember being impressed and trying out different methods to improve my head game 😉

I think the excitement is in the vibe of pleasing your partner and for a submissive there's another level you can go to called sub space. Just be careful initiating these activities as they normally require knowing your partner well to respect boundaries and time investments you might not be prepared to make as a client.

I no longer offer more than light submissive sessions after bad experiences including having the underside of my tongue ripped open when someone tried FF without proper communication and technique.
 
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Theredmilf

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Thanks RM. I have been with women that say they are into FF but I was never sure how genuine they were about it. I had an experience many years ago when a civvie asked me to slap her while we were in congress. I obliged with some light taps but felt uncomfortable. Then she asked for harder and harder. I could not oblige. Same with FF. I like aggressive sex but maybe this is a bridge too far.
This comment is so relatable! I hadn’t done many dominant activities before sex work and was super uncomfortable at first. You want me to step on what with my stilettos 😲 I get it now, power dynamics create friction, friction creates heat and we all know what happens next 😜💥💥

Listening is key though and there’s a big difference between play pretend and abuse / boundary-crossing. I don’t agree with kink-shaming but someone who gets off on hurting and abusing women from a place of resentment needs to check themselves. I feel like BDSM is a convenient cloak sometimes for people who are just abusers and don’t want to deal with their shit.
 

NadiaLovechanko

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To piggy back on what Ruby said, there is a LOT that goes into a rough session/BDSM play

A huge part is communication, which includes safe words or actions to immediately stop the acts

Also the males size plays in a huge factor to this… it’s obviously easier to deepthroat 3” than 9” 😉

Sadly many men have ruined it for others with being way too aggressive without a proper conversation, from slapping/spanking/choking/FF etc with a provider with no prior context.

I will give you HUGE props for coming on here and asking for recommendations vs assuming every girl does it

But always make sure to have the proper BDSM conversations prior to starting the fun stuff :)
 

Theredmilf

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To piggy back on what Ruby said, there is a LOT that goes into a rough session/BDSM play

A huge part is communication, which includes safe words or actions to immediately stop the acts

Also the males size plays in a huge factor to this… it’s obviously easier to deepthroat 3” than 9” 😉

Sadly many men have ruined it for others with being way too aggressive without a proper conversation, from slapping/spanking/choking/FF etc with a provider with no prior context.

I will give you HUGE props for coming on here and asking for recommendations vs assuming every girl does it

But always make sure to have the proper BDSM conversations prior to starting the fun stuff :)
I’m so glad you wrote this Nadia. And I agree, this is a great question to ask rather than assuming you can just go ahead and ram rod someone!

This is probably why so many providers don’t want to advertise or agree to this ahead of a booking. There’s just a lack of education and consideration to make this activity safe for us to put out there so most who do it probably save sharing for private encounters when we feel ok with the gentleman.

Porn gives the impression women can just DT any size if they try hard enough. Not so! Forcing DT too hard can bruise and even rupture someone’s throat so never force. Girth is a huge factor as is length, angle, firmness and the size of your head. If your partner is into it, they will guide and encourage you. Otherwise use your words guys to ask.

If this is your fetish and you want to try, you should get some experience first with a provider who has advertised DT as a specialty. They will likely have more experience and capacity to teach you. Theres a good reason why this list is short and bless those SWs who have these special skills to offer DT as a service. Let’s be grateful they are here to do this for you with a smile 🙏❤
 
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William St

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That’s not a rabbit hole you want to go down.

You think the girls are getting off on fucking and sucking the vast majority of their clients 😂?

The money is the primary (dare I say only) motivation.
Not necessarily true. The money's a motivator of course, but I've also met ladies who have good jobs and do this as a sideline for fun.
 

OntarioHappyJohn

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I love, love, LOVE getting deepthroated. It is pretty far and away my favourite sexual experience.

Fortunate as I am to have a fairly substantial piece (length wise but also girth wise), I’m fully aware that it means girls who can deepthroat will be few and far between.

Even alot of girls who do advertise deepthroat, they can’t really take the whole thing. Often they’re not deepthroating so much as just kinda cramming as much cock into their mouth that they can fit.

I’m well aware of the challenge I can present, so have never gone into an encounter 100% expecting full deepthroat, no mater what the adverts say. Which is how this should always work anyway.

Deepthroating is an incredible talent, and it’s genuinely pretty rare. Anybody lucky enough to find a provider (or better yet a real partner!) with the talent and desire to swallow your cock whole should treat them like fucking royalty!
 

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Fortunate as I am to have a fairly substantial piece (length wise but also girth wise), I’m fully aware that it means girls who can deepthroat will be few and far between.

Even alot of girls who do advertise deepthroat, they can’t really take the whole thing. Often they’re not deepthroating so much as just kinda cramming as much cock into their mouth that they can fit.
This 👆
I don’t advertise as a DT expert. But I do include it as an option in my PSE services. But the “one size fits all” label doesn’t really apply to this activity. Soooo YMMV.

Girth is the biggest challenge. It might sound like I have a big mouth (especially on this board). But my jaw can only open so wide. 😆
 

Tango Urilla

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I’ve never understood the allure of deepthroat. Does nothing for me. I much prefer a girl who doesn’t use her teeth, knows how to use her mouth well and doesn’t take a break when you’re about to blow!
 
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Peter485

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I think a lot of guys in normal life get stuck in a pattern of getting half-hearted blowjobs. The reason why she sucked you off better as a gf than as a wife is because she was your gf for a year, and your wife for 20 years. I think for a lot of guys, the allure of deepthroat is simply the enthusiasm it implies. OMG, she wants to my d*ck in her mouth so much, she's taking it all in .... she's keeping it deep as I cum .... OMG

I'd guess that most guys who say they are looking for DT, are really just looking for a BJ with 'extreme enthusiasm'. I would venture to say that as some of the ladies got better at really making the guy believe that they really wanted to give him a BJ, that requests for DT probably disappeared. That's my guess at least.
 

OntarioHappyJohn

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Like most sexual activities (IMO) it’s more about the intimacy and experience of the event more so than strictly the way it feels.

That’s said, and this is gonna sound arrogant, if you have a big dick, a genuine deepthroat feels incredible. There is a real difference between an actual, Belladonna/Heather Brooke/Morgpie style deepthroat, where the whole thing legitimately slides down her throat, and a “facefuck” style deepthroat where it’s never really going down her throat, it’s mostly just getting squished inside her mouth; and that does not feel good at all, even with the mental/visual aspect of it all.

For the people complaining about not getting a list of names, as has been said, deepthroating is extremely YMMV. In my experience, girls who advertise DT are actually capable of doing it maybe 25% of the time. The rest of the time it’s just facefuck, dick squishing.
 

Riverrunner28

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I’ve never understood the allure of deepthroat. Does nothing for me. I much prefer a girl who doesn’t use her teeth, knows how to use her mouth well and doesn’t take a break when you’re about to blow!
I think the context of the thread is about deepthroat, not about not understanding the allure of it. Imagine if every thread that started, was met with "I don't understand the allure of this thread". Personally, I also don't search for deepthroat for sympathetic reasons for the recipient, but love the extemporaneous chats that develop.
 

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