Declining a shower... Not good?

OP.

Thanks for the feedback, I will not equivocate about a shower in future.

The reason I would prefer to avoid one, is, being hairy, towels will not get me dry (that would need a blow dryer); so a shower means feeling clammy during a session.
 
what's the other 2
Not honouring her limits (too rough, sticking fingers where they are not welcome, stealthing, etc)
Negotiating, particularly after arrival
of course any criminal act against her should not have to be listed as they are offences already
 
Personally, shower is a MUST⚠. *If you do not want to take a shower, if I'm being really honest; it's a turn off right away. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Here's a tip for my girls: Offer him to take it with him 💦🫧 . (If he still refuses, well..."Do your best 🥲😷 " or let him go and take notes for next time.. 📝⛔)

Some people have a lot of "dirty" little secrets(FET) also... Smelly, sitcky ones.

You take a shower. That's it.

You were in the shower with me the first time I've met you. I clearly remember :giggle:
 
I would always shower and brush my teeth and mouthwash before I went and saw any girl. Never got asked to shower and if they offered I would have said no and if that changed any opinion about me I really would not care as I am paying for a service and if I wanted to pay for a judgement I would still be married or dating!
 
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