Declining a shower... Not good?

[rexscott]

This is for the massage parlours with the built-in showers in each room. It's part of the experience, a SF2.

But I often don't feel like getting wet. And I suppose this is a question more for the working girls, are you turned off when a guy doesn't use the shower? I can imagine the girls prefer knowing the guy will be taking the opportunity to wash and clean himself right before a session.

 

[kherg007]

Ladies have told me that a client refusing a shower is a top 3 offence...

 

[Tipsyalt]

I've seen a few providers say gushing thank-yous after I ask to take a shower completely unsolicited. While I am projecting a bit here, it's pretty safe to say that showers are something they value a lot.

(or maybe I just smell like shit and they were enthusiastic to get me in the shower lol)

 

[WhimsyFai]

I've seen a few providers say gushing thank-yous after I ask to take a shower completely unsolicited. While I am projecting a bit here, it's pretty safe to say that showers are something they value a lot.

(or maybe I just smell like shit and they were enthusiastic to get me in the shower lol)

Showering without prompting is always appreciated. I offer the shower, bathroom and cloth and towel to all clients, however this is their choice. But if they choose not to shower and have poor hygiene they have to either clean up or choose a different option. If the client is clean, I still offer the bathroom and shower, up to them. I get that not everyone can go home smelling fresh out the shower.

 

[CanuckSoldier]

I've never had an issue as I always shower before I go to an appointment, now if shower sex is offered as part of the session that I'm certainly good with

 

[ButtMonkey]

Never decline a shower… if I have to explain it, just change hobby to something less showery, like model airplanes or macramé.

 

[OliviaEden]

I’ve asked people to leave entirely if they refuse to take a shower after I’ve asked. It sets an off mood tone and ruins the overall atmosphere considering I’m now annoyed… Plus, why would you deny a shower with me?

haha

 

[squeezer]

I expect the lady to be showered and I will do the same for her. If she is ok without me being showered, that is a red flag for me.

 

[davidEatsAss]

not sure whats wrong with getting a little wet, but showering before and after is part of the whole experience. If you don't like their shower gels i'm sure you can bring your own travel sized gels wherever you go.

 

[joedrake]

Never decline a shower, never decline a breath mint (or mouthwash)!

 

[ButtMonkey]

Lol u think they shower between gents the only ones that do r the high end low volume sps I always go shaved and freshly showered but always ask before u hand over the donation it's like the sheets on the bed u think they changed them before u we get to lie where all the action goes on ,look if u like to shower in a tub where everyone has been go right ahead,I'm not comfortable with that myself just my own personal decision I'm just saying

I think you should stick to strip clubs... user name checks out.

 

[Scarlettechar]

Lol u think they shower between gents the only ones that do r the high end low volume sps I always go shaved and freshly showered but always ask before u hand over the donation it's like the sheets on the bed u think they changed them before u we get to lie where all the action goes on ,look if u like to shower in a tub where everyone has been go right ahead,I'm not comfortable with that myself just my own personal decision I'm just saying

You think we DON’T shower in between clients? Lol what kind of whack ass providers are you seeing?

 

[superstar_88]

Ladies have told me that a client refusing a shower is a top 3 offence...

what's the other 2

 

[Mandalorian]

I always shower. You just get better service.

 

[Repot]

I always shower before I go and then when I arrive. I want to be as clean as possible. I have however had the opposite reaction when I’ve asked if I can take a quick shower upon arrival the lady in question looks at me like I’ve got two heads. Not often but it does happen.

 

[Desiree_]

This is for the massage parlours with the built-in showers in each room. It's part of the experience, a SF2.

But I often don't feel like getting wet. And I suppose this is a question more for the working girls, are you turned off when a guy doesn't use the shower? I can imagine the girls prefer knowing the guy will be taking the opportunity to wash and clean himself right before a session.

Personally, shower is a MUST. *If you do not want to take a shower, if I'm being really honest; it's a turn off right away.

Here's a tip for my girls: Offer him to take it with him 🫧 . (If he still refuses, well..."Do your best 🥲 " or let him go and take notes for next time.. )

Some people have a lot of "dirty" little secrets(FET) also... Smelly, sitcky ones.

You take a shower. That's it.

 

[source]

I always have my gym bag in the car and I have a fitness membership with Ottawa facilities.

This being said, when I have an appointment either at a spa or an incall place, I go to the nearest City facility. I shower and put on fresh clothes, depending on what's in my gym bag. Once at the spa, will I take a shower in the room? Absolutely. MAs like it when they're confident of the client's cleanliness.

Things are a bit different when I have an appt with a SP at her incall place. If she's a regular SP of mine, we move on to business because she knows it's OK when I say I took a shower less that 15 minutes ago. If it's a first encounter with a SP, I'll tell her I just showered but I don't mind doing it again if it makes her feel more comfortable. Reactions vary.

It all boils down to this: The YMMV factor might sway more favorably in my way if the lady doesn't have any doubts about my hygiene.

 

[Ximena]

I work out of a spa and shower is usually a MUST for me as well. I think rarely I’ve seen 1 or 2 clients with no shower but it wasn’t with FS. Sometimes I can smell a man’s been freshly showered and put on cologne for me, which I really appreciate! But ideally shower first. I shower and make sure everything is in top tier shape before a client I just want the same in return lol. I also shower with my all my clients at the end and help them get the oil off themselves.

 

[Daddy2021]

Never decline a shower, never decline a breath mint (or mouthwash)!

If you are demanding bbbj then you better shower. This could be why some ladies move to cbj after a shower has been declined. Whether or not you just had one before heading over they do not know that and why should they trust you?

 

[Sinfulmarv]

Declining a shower is bad form.

Even if they phrase it like a question: Would you like to take a shower? Best to hop in the shower and scrub yourself, including junk and ass crack. They can tell if you only rinse with water.

If you don't shower properly, they may be less willing to perform certain services. Worse, they may ask you to leave.