Decision paralysis

[MyBigToe?]

Does anyone else experience this?

I have very limited time and somewhat limited resources. I use this group to gain insight on ladies that I feel best provide the service I am looking for and meet my particular taste. Just when I think I have made a decision on who to see, next time, I am free, I read a review on someone else. Then I start the sink, perhaps I would rather see them.

Of course, I would like to have the opportunity to see every provider that piques my interest but that is not going to happen anytime soon. What usually happens, is that when I have a window of opportunity, I put off making a decision until it is too late.

How do you guys decide? I guess, I just really need to make a decision and act on it. Thoughts?

 

[Franz27]

Yep, pretty normal process for most I think. Especially when you only partake once in a while so you want it to be right…

 

[William St]

Does anyone else experience this?

I have very limited time and somewhat limited resources. I use this group to gain insight on ladies that I feel best provide the service I am looking for and meet my particular taste. Just when I think I have made a decision on who to see, next time, I am free, I read a review on someone else. Then I start the sink, perhaps I would rather see them.

Of course, I would like to have the opportunity to see every provider that piques my interest but that is not going to happen anytime soon. What usually happens, is that when I have a window of opportunity, I put off making a decision until it is too late.

How do you guys decide? I guess, I just really need to make a decision and act on it. Thoughts?

Add in the complicating fact that some older gents need our Cialis. If we take the pill there'd better be some action coming soon...otherwise it's wasted, back to square 1.

 

[MikeO]

Does anyone else experience this?

I have very limited time and somewhat limited resources. I use this group to gain insight on ladies that I feel best provide the service I am looking for and meet my particular taste. Just when I think I have made a decision on who to see, next time, I am free, I read a review on someone else. Then I start the sink, perhaps I would rather see them.

Of course, I would like to have the opportunity to see every provider that piques my interest but that is not going to happen anytime soon. What usually happens, is that when I have a window of opportunity, I put off making a decision until it is too late.

How do you guys decide? I guess, I just really need to make a decision and act on it. Thoughts?

I don;t know... indecision may (or may not) be your worst problem.

 

[MikeO]

Add in the complicating fact that some older gents need our Cialis. If we take the pill there'd better be some action coming soon...otherwise it's wasted, back to square 1.

This can make things easier... all you need to do is to see Alice.

 

[mno3]

I feel you --i think you have to accept that its a risk that even with the best planning things can go awry and so lower expectations . this is a sketch world unless you are into a 400 dollar one --there is going to be risk

there are some that are more reliable -- they have been around for a while, with many reviews. Id pick my best one of those whose pics you like the most and just commit.

you might have some doubts about actually wanting to do this

 

[Beldivok]

Does anyone else experience this?

I have very limited time and somewhat limited resources. I use this group to gain insight on ladies that I feel best provide the service I am looking for and meet my particular taste. Just when I think I have made a decision on who to see, next time, I am free, I read a review on someone else. Then I start the sink, perhaps I would rather see them.

Of course, I would like to have the opportunity to see every provider that piques my interest but that is not going to happen anytime soon. What usually happens, is that when I have a window of opportunity, I put off making a decision until it is too late.

How do you guys decide? I guess, I just really need to make a decision and act on it. Thoughts?

That is exactly how I got to be someone's regular... Everytime such indecision occurs I go to the courtesan who was close and did a decent job... It happens enough and poof I'm her regular.

 

[Pinkpanther80]

Add in the complicating fact that some older gents need our Cialis. If we take the pill there'd better be some action coming soon...otherwise it's wasted, back to square 1.

At least cialis is effective up to 36 hours a viagra is the real waste in that situation not to mention the headache after.

 

[daemonhead]

That is exactly how I got to be someone's regular... Everytime such indecision occurs I go to the courtesan who was close and did a decent job... It happens enough and poof I'm her regular.

... Until your regular starts to become popular, and suddenly you struggle to get an appointment, which takes you back to the indecision cycle

 

[William St]

That is exactly how I got to be someone's regular... Everytime such indecision occurs I go to the courtesan who was close and did a decent job... It happens enough and poof I'm her regular.

Agree! Which is why I'm back to Zoe time after time.

 

[jeff2]

Inversion

Rather than focusing on having a brilliant day, why not consider what a crap day would look like and avoid that? It will likely be easier and will achieve similar results. Or, as Charles Munger pointed out: "It is remarkable how much long-term advantage people like us have gotten by trying to be...

modelthinkers.com

 

[rexscott]

Best bet: Base a decision on 50% looks (she's a type you like) and 50% services/reviews (she does/might do what you're hoping for. Meaning, don't base it 100% on looks or 100% on services.

 

[BusterHighmann]

The normal process is message 5 providers and see if one actually responds and go see that one.

 

[TexasJake]

Does anyone else experience this?

I have very limited time and somewhat limited resources. I use this group to gain insight on ladies that I feel best provide the service I am looking for and meet my particular taste. Just when I think I have made a decision on who to see, next time, I am free, I read a review on someone else. Then I start the sink, perhaps I would rather see them.

Of course, I would like to have the opportunity to see every provider that piques my interest but that is not going to happen anytime soon. What usually happens, is that when I have a window of opportunity, I put off making a decision until it is too late.

How do you guys decide? I guess, I just really need to make a decision and act on it. Thoughts?

I experience what you are describing constantly! I have to ask, have you ever been evaluated for ADHD? Note the name is a misnomer it not an "attention deficit" it's a chemical imbalance that causes thing like what you are describing, a kind analysis paralysis, where there is more dopamine in researching the various options than there is in making the decision and moving forward.

 

[primetime1980]

Assign a decision to each side of a coin and while its in the air, go with the side you are rooting for

 

[mikemnguyen]

Does anyone else experience this?

I have very limited time and somewhat limited resources. I use this group to gain insight on ladies that I feel best provide the service I am looking for and meet my particular taste. Just when I think I have made a decision on who to see, next time, I am free, I read a review on someone else. Then I start the sink, perhaps I would rather see them.

Of course, I would like to have the opportunity to see every provider that piques my interest but that is not going to happen anytime soon. What usually happens, is that when I have a window of opportunity, I put off making a decision until it is too late.

How do you guys decide? I guess, I just really need to make a decision and act on it. Thoughts?

Tbh, we're all human, one person can't connect with every she sees. A lady might connect well with one, but might not with another. It's all about finding the connection. If you don't try, how can you find out?

 

[MyBigToe?]

I experience what you are describing constantly! I have to ask, have you ever been evaluated for ADHD? Note the name is a misnomer it not an "attention deficit" it's a chemical imbalance that causes thing like what you are describing, a kind analysis paralysis, where there is more dopamine in researching the various options than there is in making the decision and moving forward.

Yes- major dopamine surges.

 

[CuddleBuddy2]

At least you're not making a bad decision by seeing LL scammers
After you've done your research, check who's available when you like. Sometimes who you'd like to see is not available so move on to the next best option.

 

[honeybear69]

Agree! Which is why I'm back to Zoe time after time.

Zoe??!?! I would like a link if possible.....for a friend!! LOL.....Naw just kidding it is for me!!
HB69.....was here??!?!

 

[massman]

Does anyone else experience this?

I have very limited time and somewhat limited resources. I use this group to gain insight on ladies that I feel best provide the service I am looking for and meet my particular taste. Just when I think I have made a decision on who to see, next time, I am free, I read a review on someone else. Then I start the sink, perhaps I would rather see them.

Of course, I would like to have the opportunity to see every provider that piques my interest but that is not going to happen anytime soon. What usually happens, is that when I have a window of opportunity, I put off making a decision until it is too late.

How do you guys decide? I guess, I just really need to make a decision and act on it. Thoughts?

Used to have a similar issue. There is so much choice, so much information and if you only do this every now and then, you don’t want to fuck it up. One of the reasons I have tended to stick to a “regular” girl is to avoid this issue, and guarantee myself I’ll end up happy and with no regrets at the end of it.