I agree they are all different but I have been told by a few I would get rich if I would teach this stuff so for my young friend, grasshopper listen carefully, you crafty ringwise vets can ignore. 1) don't go straight to DATY, most sps are like civilians and need a little other warming up 2) pull a little on their inner thighs close to the pussy, tends to kind of pop the pussy open. 3) start with very light licks in an up direction only, I assume you know where the clit is but there is a little hood. Many take a looong time so be patient with them. 4) every 4-5 licks lick the whole of the pussy 5) slowly move in and seal your lips around the clit and suck it lightly while you lick it. This takes practise, for some it is too strong, others love it. 6) stay with it and try to tune into her when she says yes yes, keep doing what you are doing 7) use your free hands to caress the rest of her body, of course nipples but don't pinch or squeeze them. The nipple role lightly or just caress the tip and the arolla as well. If she looks down at you wink, that is all you can do anyway. Interlock your fingers with hers in a handholding way.
OMG I gave myself a woody thinking about doing this with my favs.
Please no offers of financial compensation if this works for you, I am only thinking of everyone's happiness.