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Is this about technique or hygiene?
I used to be in the same boat as you due to the latter....and then I started seeing SP's. At least by my experience, there seems to be a world of difference hygenically between SPs and civilians. No more ass-rot and yellow-bush for me.
I used to be in the same boat as you due to the latter....and then I started seeing SP's. At least by my experience, there seems to be a world of difference hygenically between SPs and civilians. No more ass-rot and yellow-bush for me.
You're missing one of the most wonderful things in life...
You never have or you stopped? If you stopped... we need more information as to why.
You never have or you stopped? If you stopped... we need more information as to why.
damn, you said it better then I didDanolo said:
best sexual experience I've ever had and probably ever will I made my partner come even though we weren't having "sex" the way it is usually defined. Getting that reaction when neither of us saw it coming (bad pun sorry) was the best Ithink it will ever be. So if your with someone you care about, care about them getting off enough to do something you don't particularly enjoy.
Option a: take a shower with her beforehand and clean it out real good so any odour (if that's the issue) disappears or is reduced.
Option b: go to one of the "Arent' We Naughty" stores and buy some "Oh My" lubricant. They are safe for the ladies (sugar free and water-based) and will make her pussy taste like pina coloda or blueberry cheesecake or melon or any of a number of flavours.
As well, concentrating on the top of the "pussy" might save you some grief. Don't spend time "in the hole"; instead, focus on the clit, up top. Its less messy and less flavourful, and (depending on the woman) should bring her more pleasure.
Eventually, if these options help you get over your issue, you might grow to enjoy her natural flavour. Good luck. DATY is fun and is pleasureful for the ladies, so I hope you can learn to enjoy it.
Option b: go to one of the "Arent' We Naughty" stores and buy some "Oh My" lubricant. They are safe for the ladies (sugar free and water-based) and will make her pussy taste like pina coloda or blueberry cheesecake or melon or any of a number of flavours.
As well, concentrating on the top of the "pussy" might save you some grief. Don't spend time "in the hole"; instead, focus on the clit, up top. Its less messy and less flavourful, and (depending on the woman) should bring her more pleasure.
Eventually, if these options help you get over your issue, you might grow to enjoy her natural flavour. Good luck. DATY is fun and is pleasureful for the ladies, so I hope you can learn to enjoy it.
The best thing to do for a woman
I think the suggestions that captitalGuy are very good.
In all my years, I have never met a woman who did not like a man or woman like to kiss and lick a beautiful clean pussy.
maybe it would be better for you to try a woman who has a shaved pussy. Yor are less likely to smell anything that may " offend" you.
If it still does not suit you, then giving her a finger or two in the pussy, especially at her G-spot, may satisfy her, and lead to her giving you great pleasure in return.
Of course, some women will "fake" an orgasm to make it seem that you got them, but experience will tell you who is just going through the emotiuons, and who has just just gotten some " spasm" occur through their body.
just remember to " softly" touch it st first.
I think the suggestions that captitalGuy are very good.
In all my years, I have never met a woman who did not like a man or woman like to kiss and lick a beautiful clean pussy.
maybe it would be better for you to try a woman who has a shaved pussy. Yor are less likely to smell anything that may " offend" you.
If it still does not suit you, then giving her a finger or two in the pussy, especially at her G-spot, may satisfy her, and lead to her giving you great pleasure in return.
Of course, some women will "fake" an orgasm to make it seem that you got them, but experience will tell you who is just going through the emotiuons, and who has just just gotten some " spasm" occur through their body.
just remember to " softly" touch it st first.
Thanks for the replies guys.
BTW.... to answer one of the above questions i am a male.
It seems to me like its a mental thing for me... I cant get over the fact that no matter how clean it may be and (how beautiful it looks)at the time, I cant help but think of that part being dirty. I can fuck it but i cant bring my mouth to it. And this is all just DATY. I cant even imagine myself rimming... Just the thought of it makes me shudder.
BTW.... to answer one of the above questions i am a male.
It seems to me like its a mental thing for me... I cant get over the fact that no matter how clean it may be and (how beautiful it looks)at the time, I cant help but think of that part being dirty. I can fuck it but i cant bring my mouth to it. And this is all just DATY. I cant even imagine myself rimming... Just the thought of it makes me shudder.
I myself would not put my penis anywhere I wouldn't put my mouth. There is nothing dirty about it, just another part of the body. But who am I to talk, I really don't like feet.chateau said:
The best thing about feet, is that they are the farthest thing away from the head.luv4lust said:ROTF
NO DATY? Wow, are you missing out! YES it IS the most awesome thing in the world! For several reasons:
1- once you learn how, you will have your girl right where you want her... How do you get good at it? RESEARCH & PRACTICE! (Dude, just google "cunnilingus" for god sake- You owe it to yourself and your female lovers! LOL)
2- The feeling of accomplishment of a job well done is the greatest feeling in the world.
3- Have you ever heard it is better to give than rec'v. Well the reason for that is the "good deed" will be returned to you over and over! (You've heard of YMMV- well this is a great way to increase your mileage! LOL)
Now if your problem is psychological, well then my friend you are going to have your work cut out for you... and I wish you all the luck in the world... until then, step aside and let the cunning linguists pleasure the female population! LOL
1- once you learn how, you will have your girl right where you want her... How do you get good at it? RESEARCH & PRACTICE! (Dude, just google "cunnilingus" for god sake- You owe it to yourself and your female lovers! LOL)
2- The feeling of accomplishment of a job well done is the greatest feeling in the world.
3- Have you ever heard it is better to give than rec'v. Well the reason for that is the "good deed" will be returned to you over and over! (You've heard of YMMV- well this is a great way to increase your mileage! LOL)
Now if your problem is psychological, well then my friend you are going to have your work cut out for you... and I wish you all the luck in the world... until then, step aside and let the cunning linguists pleasure the female population! LOL
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You have a serious phobia ...
Try hypnotherapy - you are missing out on one of the better things in life!!chateau said:
DATY is the only thing guaranteed to get me so horny I'll pop relatively quickly once the sex starts.
I can take BJs, handjobs, teasing - they'll all get me going, but there's nothing like getting a woman off with your mouth.
I can take BJs, handjobs, teasing - they'll all get me going, but there's nothing like getting a woman off with your mouth.
