DATY with the lady, why?

[Riley Grace]

As an sp, I can tell you that I enjoy DATY. Some men are better at it than others, however, everyone can be taught how to please. And everyone gets off differently. I know what gets me off and I just verbalize what it is that feels good and instruct what to do to get me off. I love getting off on DATY. That is the best orgasm I can have and I love being able to pleasure the man I'm with by being very verbal and vocal when I do let it go. I do not fake it ever. I don't beleive in faking it. Anyway, you can tell when it's fake and I wouldn't want someone to fake it for me. Especially when your paying good money to see someone, you want to see someone who is genuinely enjoying themselves, not rushing to get it done with. And yes, pleasuring me definately makes me want to pleasure you more!!!!! It's way more fun when we are both enjoying ourselves!!!!!

 

[burt-oh-my!]

It's part of the intimacy. DFK is the same kind of thing.

 

[Back Burner]

As an sp, I can tell you that I enjoy DATY. Some men are better at it than others, however, everyone can be taught how to please. And everyone gets off differently. I know what gets me off and I just verbalize what it is that feels good and instruct what to do to get me off. I love getting off on DATY. That is the best orgasm I can have and I love being able to pleasure the man I'm with by being very verbal and vocal when I do let it go. I do not fake it ever. I don't beleive in faking it. Anyway, you can tell when it's fake and I wouldn't want someone to fake it for me. Especially when your paying good money to see someone, you want to see someone who is genuinely enjoying themselves, not rushing to get it done with. And yes, pleasuring me definately makes me want to pleasure you more!!!!! It's way more fun when we are both enjoying ourselves!!!!!

No offense, I'm not calling you a liar but you are here to advertise. So to say that you never fake, well... What if the guy is that bad and not getting you off but he is enjoying himself down there. You give instructions but he doesn't listen because he's having fun. I'm willing to bet as long as SP's isn't feeling pain, they would lie back moan and let the guy enjoy himself. He is the one paying after all.

 

[oldjones]

Brill's answer's the best. It make's me wonder how one can care so little about an intimate partner—paid or not—that one doesn't want to give her the pleasures of a BJ, but cares enough about guys to ask a bunch of TERBots why they do.

Just do it. When her pleasure's your pleasure, you have twice the fun.

 

[james t kirk]

As you get older you lose your taste for it. Or at least, you don't always have to have it. When I was late teens / early 20's I LIVED FOR IT. I dove into a lot of nasty pussies.

Now mid 40's, meh. She has to be CLEAN and I have to be in the mood for it.

Sad to admit, but I'd rather just fuck. (BTW, I'm talking civilian women here, not pros.)

 

[LickingGravity]

I actually think that I became better at it as a result of seeing sp's as they are more likely to be like Riley Grace or Kyra Graves and verbalize or otherwise be very clear in guiding you to what they want. Learning to correctly interpret female feedback in whatever form its given is a great when dealing with the usually slightly more inhibited amateurs ( or at least the ladies I meet). I don't approach it anywhere near like I used to 5 years ago.

Professional pussy is also the best tasting as hygene is usually impecable because the lady was expecting you to do exactly what you are doing.

This is almost entirely selfish on my part as nothing galvanizes the steel in the pipe more than an obvious sign of extreme arousal or orgasm. Downside is having to then sleep on the wet spot I guess.

 

[tywillis6969]

I dont do it at all... The thing I dont understand is that guys wouldnt put their dick in there without a condom yet put their tongues in without hesitation... I never do daty with an escort.

That is such a GOOD FCUK'ING point!!!!!!!

 

[DocOdd]

I dont do it at all... The thing I dont understand is that guys wouldnt put their dick in there without a condom yet put their tongues in without hesitation... I never do daty with an escort.

That is such a GOOD FCUK'ING point!!!!!!!

And you wonder why Lora decided she needed more money if she was going to sleep with losers like you. Apparently you don't know anything about sex, don't do DATY, and signs point to your having some literacy issues as well, given that how stupid this point is was already addressed in the thread.

 

[HetroGuy]

I dont do it at all... The thing I dont understand is that guys wouldnt put their dick in there without a condom yet put their tongues in without hesitation... I never do daty with an escort.

Really - do you kiss her ? Do you go near or tongue that mouth that cradled another man's dick ?

I like DATY - if you like a GF experience - why not ? If you are just looking for a warm pussy with no interaction - maybe a trip to the farm would be more economical. There is an expectation of some cleanliness on the part of the SP. If they don't take care of themselves - it becomes pretty clear even to the mild observer. The DATY is proceeded by a quick inspection. If there is an odour or visual indication that I'm not looking at a clean pussy - then I don't DATY.

why arent the guys think like you??
i personally dont understand why ppl do it!!i dont anybody do it to me...

Good to know - I'll take you off my TD list.

 

[shynet]

Really - do you kiss her ? Do you go near or tongue that mouth that cradled another man's dick ?

I like DATY - if you like a GF experience - why not ? If you are just looking for a warm pussy with no interaction - maybe a trip to the farm would be more economical. There is an expectation of some cleanliness on the part of the SP. If they don't take care of themselves - it becomes pretty clear even to the mild observer. The DATY is proceeded by a quick inspection. If there is an odour or visual indication that I'm not looking at a clean pussy - then I don't DATY.

Good to know - I'll take you off my TD list.

good i dont want someone like you on my list...did i forget to tell you i dont advertise on this site??H-E-L-L-O

 

[kira.]

i look at it as if you think daty isnt safe then you should get a bbbj...

 

[Mister K]

For me it is part of the total experience. The ego boost when I am able to pleasure a woman to the point where she comes is worth the money. As for those that fake an orgasm, I've come across it a few times, but not as often as you might think.

For those who would say "How do you know???" I can only say that there are a variety of ways that you can tell. Over the past couple of years, since "squirting" has become more prevalent and acceptable, and my partners are aware that I find it incredibly erotic, I often find my partners squirting (those who can) as they come. One partner even advised me that before squirting became acceptable, she would have to hold herself back because she was afraid of offending her partners.

 

[kira.]

For me it is part of the total experience. The ego boost when I am able to pleasure a woman to the point where she comes is worth the money. As for those that fake an orgasm, I've come across it a few times, but not as often as you might think.

For those who would say "How do you know???" I can only say that there are a variety of ways that you can tell. Over the past couple of years, since "squirting" has become more prevalent and acceptable, and my partners are aware that I find it incredibly erotic, I often find my partners squirting (those who can) as they come. One partner even advised me that before squirting became acceptable, she would have to hold herself back because she was afraid of offending her partners.

i still somewhat hold back if im not in my bed...

 

[fuji]

If sex is only ever about your own physical sensation why involve a lady at all? Why not just do it yourself?

The only reason why you want a lady involved is that really sex is all in your head and has to do with fantasies and ideas and images, and once you understand that, you'll understand that for some guys DATY is an important part of that fantasy/image/experience.

 

[keepitup]

Only with the right girl. For me that's probably 20% of the time. But when I want to DATY with a girl I NEED to DATY with a girl. It's a primal, animal instinct.

Never with a pro, never.

 

[Blue-Spheroid]

DATY with the lady, why?

If you have to ask...

 

[BottomsUp]

i still somewhat hold back if im not in my bed...

A couple of strategically placed towels should 'lick' the problem.

 

[dood]

i still somewhat hold back if im not in my bed...

Female "squirt" is perhaps the most rancid of all liquids that come from a body (sans piss which I've not tried). Yet...who can't resist it running down your neck as the woman squirts riding your face?

There are a large number of guys that like giving women DATY. That doesn't surprise me. It's primal instinct to take care of a woman. Just as offering security and stability...giving a woman good sex is also "taking care of her". DATY is just that. Men like it not for the sensation on their tongue but for the thought they're giving this woman true pleasure. I'd argue porn is men taking care of women just they're doing it wrong.

 

[Nickelodeon]

For me it's just a primal urge I want to satisfy. Especially tasty if she's in her early 20's and I'm over 50. What a treat!

 

[frankpost]

As you get older you lose your taste for it. Or at least, you don't always have to have it. When I was late teens / early 20's I LIVED FOR IT. I dove into a lot of nasty pussies.

Now mid 40's, meh. She has to be CLEAN and I have to be in the mood for it.

I am the opposite, when I was younger, it was more of a chore. As I aged, I grew to enjoy (desire) it more.

Only with the right girl.

I agree that it does have to be with the right lady (with a certain amount of chemistry).

Also never will I DATY when I am recipriacted with a CBJ.