There's no doubt that many male clients enjoy DATY with some clients boasting they've spent up to an hour or more "giving the lady pleasure." When men can be pleasured by the lady, why do so many spend a great deal of time trying to pleasure her (via DATY)? Do SP's really enjoy DATY or care if the man spends a great deal of time in the snack room? I'd be interested in people's opinions on this issue, male and female perspectives of course.
DATY with the lady, why?
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I guess some use the opportunity to "test" their oral technique on SPs. For others, they do because it's part of the fantasy that this is not a monetary transaction but two individuals pleasuring each other. Others want to boast their egos by believing that they can give a SP an orgasm (real or fake I guess it doesn't matter to these men). Me, I like the nectar that comes out after a SP has a big O. Man, I can still taste the sweetest from Sebelle. I have to see that lady very soon.
I inadvertently left DATY off my "SP Dealbreaker" poll and some TERBIES reminded me of that omission.
I have trouble understanding the question. If I wanted the quickest, most intense orgasm possible, I'd jack off. I see an SP when I want a total sexual experience. What makes DATY any stranger than anything else as a component of that?
For me it is sharing the pleasure. Hobby with SP is a two way street, and hopefully some SPs do reciprocate if they felt that their cleint was not selfish and was interested in mutual enjoyment. Cheers.
Yes, I know first hand of an SP that enjoys DATY from clients and she can, on occassion, cum from it. As to why you would want to do it, I'd say it's because it enhances the sexual experience and raises it up a level. In my own case I find just regular fucking to be absolutely boring.
As for risk, the risk during DATY is rather low & if you're concerned, buy a dental dam. That said I'd probably refrain from doing it on a SW...
why arent the guys think like you??
i personally dont understand why ppl do it!!i dont anybody do it to me...
Actually it's a one way street but I don't get it but I don't judge either. If guys enjoy it then all the power to them.
The most erotic thing for me by far is the scent, taste, feel, sounds and look of a woman who is aroused. The least erotic thing for me is a woman that is going through the motions and faking arousal. daty is a must
So you can tell if a SP is faking or not? Cause a lot of guys on TERB claim to be DATY experts and know when women are faking.
Most of the time when a woman fakes it is obvious and terrible acting. When a woman is aroused there is usually a combination of physical evidence and it is obvious they are not faking (scent, lubrication, swelling, colour change etc.). Sometimes it is not obvious and in those cases I always assume they are faking but can't say for sure.
One thing is for sure... more often than not it takes 40 minutes and more of slow, gentle, patient daty to get a woman really aroused and many times I will spend an hour or more just daty. I don't have a goal of 'making' them orgasm. I just enjoy it.
i am an expert with a few girls.
Really, I don't have a very good grasp on why I'm turned on by the things I'm turned on by, and most of my theories about it are probably wrong. But still, on this one, a couple of points:
1) I really like pussies. For some reason, I've come to associate them with sex. Getting up close and personal with one is sexy; it's a big turn on for me.
2) The biggest turn on for me is being with someone I find immensely attractive who can convince me she's totally into me. Skilled SPs will, of course, do a very good job of making me feel like they really enjoy being with me. However, they do a better job if they really are having a better time, and I have an easier time suspending my disbelief and buying into the fantasy if I've been doing things to help them enjoy themselves. DATY contributes to the fantasy in both ways.
And I wish people who obviously have never bothered to educate themselves on the topic wouldn't spout off on safety all the time, but since the topic came up, as everyone should know, STDs are far less likely to be transmitted by oral sex than by genital to genital contact (HIV in particular seems unable to survive in adult saliva). So asking why someone who always wears a condom when they put their dick there would stick their tongue there is like asking why somebody who wouldn't cross a busy highway on foot is willing to calmly cross a quiet residential street on foot. The risks aren't remotely comparable.
1) I really like pussies. For some reason, I've come to associate them with sex. Getting up close and personal with one is sexy; it's a big turn on for me.
2) The biggest turn on for me is being with someone I find immensely attractive who can convince me she's totally into me. Skilled SPs will, of course, do a very good job of making me feel like they really enjoy being with me. However, they do a better job if they really are having a better time, and I have an easier time suspending my disbelief and buying into the fantasy if I've been doing things to help them enjoy themselves. DATY contributes to the fantasy in both ways.
And I wish people who obviously have never bothered to educate themselves on the topic wouldn't spout off on safety all the time, but since the topic came up, as everyone should know, STDs are far less likely to be transmitted by oral sex than by genital to genital contact (HIV in particular seems unable to survive in adult saliva). So asking why someone who always wears a condom when they put their dick there would stick their tongue there is like asking why somebody who wouldn't cross a busy highway on foot is willing to calmly cross a quiet residential street on foot. The risks aren't remotely comparable.
Dining at the Y is a must for me, It's a real treat to slide the panties off to find a nice kitty ready to be devoured 
It's a feast of sensual delights....
It's a feast of sensual delights....
