Impressive thread here !!!
This has to be among the top 1% of TERB threads which could be used as testimony that most of us who participate in this hobby are upstanding, well-meant individuals.
Society portrays johns as being something akin to sexual predators and I'm sorry, but I just cannot see a predatory morsel in having a sincere desire to give pleasure to a sex partner.
Maybe prostitution uses money to correct the imbalance in sexual desire vs. availability much like the case with oil in Alberta and the middle east.
I applaud everyone who answered this thread!
As to the general safety of fluid exchange during DATY I can only observe that Nevada brothel workers have long permitted membrane-to-membrane DATY after minimal observation, even with new clients. The risks, while there, aren't likely so great.