Dating Strategy

[Weekly]

Here's the scenario:

I met a girl online, she's educated in her mid 30s never been married. On the first date we had coffee went to a movie where I held her hand, at the end of the night I gave her a light kiss goodbye; I believe she's interested in pursuing a relationship but I only want sex. We're going out again tonight, where can I take her that will increase my odds of getting her into bed? I won't be able to take her back to my place, her place may be available. Besides saying, "do you want to go to a hotel," what's the best way to segway to the bedroom...

 

[Diode]

...reminds me of High School....
Don't hurt her for a quick fuck....That's what the lovlies on this site are for

 

[tboy]

Sheesh this guy is asking our help in seducing a woman....Diode is right, just use the services of one of the ladies from this board. It will cost you about the same in the long run and no one will get hurt.

If you don't want to go that route be honest with her: Just tell her that you aren't interested in anything serious right now but are interested in a physical relationship.

WHo knows? Maybe that's all she's after as well. If not, it is better to be honest and HONORABLE than a dick.....

 

[baci2004]

Ditto what Diode said.

First off stop pursuing women in the relationship section of the site and move to the suck & fuck section. (I can't remember what it's called)


To answer your question....
She knew you wanted to fuck her the minute you said hi to her. The fact that she has agreed to a second date means your golden. Suggest a nightcap at the end of the night where you can continue the interesting conversation....simple.

 

[Weekly]

Don't hurt her for a quick fuck....That's what the lovlies on this site are for

I try not to hurt their feelings by not prolonging the lie as much as some do, but I don't see another alternative way and SPs cost too much for the amount of time I want.

 

[Judas H]

Here's the scenario:

I met a girl online, she's educated in her mid 30s never been married. On the first date we had coffee went to a movie where I held her hand, at the end of the night I gave her a light kiss goodbye; I believe she's interested in pursuing a relationship but I only want sex. We're going out again tonight, where can I take her that will increase my odds of getting her into bed? I won't be able to take her back to my place, her place may be available. Besides saying, "do you want to go to a hotel," what's the best way to segway to the bedroom...

Women are way too complicated to suggest what to do next to get her in bed. If she thinks that you are serious, she may not sleep with you because she won't want you to think she's a slut, even if she really is.

Try the honest approach...Tell he that you want a sex between friends relationship. If she says she isn't like that, then you know not to waste anymore time.

 

[Weekly]

If you don't want to go that route be honest with her: Just tell her that you aren't interested in anything serious right now but are interested in a physical relationship.

WHo knows? Maybe that's all she's after as well. If not, it is better to be honest and HONORABLE than a dick.....

Ya that'll work

First off stop pursuing women in the relationship section of the site and move to the suck & fuck section. (I can't remember what it's called)

It's tougher to get laid in the "casual" section.

To answer your question....
She knew you wanted to fuck her the minute you said hi to her. The fact that she has agreed to a second date means your golden. Suggest a nightcap at the end of the night where you can continue the interesting conversation....simple.

You gave me an idea, a hotel bar? in the past I had thought about the Drake, I just don't want to spend more than 200 for a room.

 

[baci2004]

It's tougher to get laid in the "casual" section.

You gave me an idea, a hotel bar? in the past I had thought about the Drake, I just don't want to spend more than 200 for a room.

See! Hobbying is cheaper. lol

I think The Drake is closed for renos at the moment.

I'm not sure why you can't go back to your place but when I was living with my folks and couldn't afford a hotel I would make the first move while I was out (kiss) instead of trying to lure her back somewhere. I found this worked out beautifully; once the sexual tension was raised the location was no longer an issue. Slipping past the parents room, dodging roomates, park benches, and back seats all seemed like excellent options to both parties.

 

[souljax33]

Here's the scenario:

I met a girl online, she's educated in her mid 30s never been married. On the first date we had coffee went to a movie where I held her hand, at the end of the night I gave her a light kiss goodbye; I believe she's interested in pursuing a relationship but I only want sex. We're going out again tonight, where can I take her that will increase my odds of getting her into bed? I won't be able to take her back to my place, her place may be available. Besides saying, "do you want to go to a hotel," what's the best way to segway to the bedroom...

Take her to a nice romantic restaurant, , order some wine and tell her how nice and beautiful she looks, look directly at her eyes! don't lose eye contact, touch her hair very softly if she move her head towards your hand she's yours!! Tell her that you would like to spend more time with her in a more private environment, if she agree then good luck!! keep us updated..!

 

[Weekly]

Weekly said, "It's tougher to get laid in the "casual"" section.

If a girl just wants sex she usually goes for an above average looking man, or a very smooth talker. I'm ok looking but don't pick up off my looks generally. For the average guy most girls are put off by casual, many say in their profiles if you're looking for an intimate encounter go elsewhere.

See! Hobbying is cheaper.lol

I'm careful to cut my losses with a non-SP when it's not worth the hassle. An investment of a few hundred dollars on dates pays off when a girl spends entire nights.

Tell her that you would like to spend more time with her in a more private environment, if she agree then good luck!! keep us updated..!

I'll probably just do that. Thx.

 

[great bear]

Yep, take her back to your house on the premise you want to show her your comic book collection.

 

[shack]

Go for a drink and slip her a little bit of "G". Then you can get a cheap motel room. (Asbestos, please.)

 

[frankcastle]

Great advice GB,

Nothing gets a woman hot and bothered than my Sandman #1 autographed by Neil Gaimen. But for me I like to pull out the entire mini series Secret Wars 1 AND 2. By the time Spiderman dons the new costume (and we all know where that leads) I'm already rounding second base.

Sorry any chance to geek out with a bit of comic talk gets me all giggly like a school girl.

 

[seymore]

Weekly, I'm not sure that I like you. You may want to rethink the whole "dating" environment " you have found yourself in. I agree with the others here. If all you want is sex, there are a number of professional women listed here who would probably help you out. But you ought to rethink the "fuck the girl" idea you expressed in your first post. Just to be fair to her.

 

[Misanthrope]

Weekly, I'm not sure that I like you. You may want to rethink the whole "dating" environment " you have found yourself in. I agree with the others here. If all you want is sex, there are a number of professional women listed here who would probably help you out. But you ought to rethink the "fuck the girl" idea you expressed in your first post. Just to be fair to her.

Newsflash: Chicks like getting fucked too. Why do you assume otherwise?

 

[a 1 player]

Newsflash: Chicks like getting fucked too. Why do you assume otherwise?

Not under false pretenses. Just as we do not like to have a girl lead us on all night, spend tons of dough on her, then have her fark somebody else. Same game, different ending.

 

[Misanthrope]

Not under false pretenses. Just as we do not like to have a girl lead us on all night, spend tons of dough on her, then have her fark somebody else. Same game, different ending.

a 1 player, (what a misnomer)

What false pretenses? Taking her out to dinner is not a promise of anything other than a meal. If they want to fuck afterwards, that is their choice.

What a strange bunch some of you Terbies are, suggesting that paying for it is somehow preferable to scoring the old fashioned way.

 

[PHNINE]

This reminds me of my high school days as well. LOL If i were you, I would take her out for that nice dinner. Not too fancy of a restaraunt, but good enough to show her you have some class. Never assume that you will be spending the night with her, but subconciously hint it by gentle flirting and sweet sensual inuendoes. After dinner take her to the docks. Bring a blanket or comforter and stash it in your trunk. Go to the docks and get a good view of the city. Talk to her, ask about her life, ask about her dreams, get into her head. Have a bottle of wine, smoke a joint, whatever pleases you the most. Just chill in the parking lot of the Docks over looking the city. Once it gets to cold either make an attempt to go inside the car, or ask her if she wants to get a room. No pressure, but just to get out of the cold. From there, I am sure you know what to do...LOL

I have tried this before on many dates, and it worked liked a charm. Regardless if your just trying to get in their pants or you really have feelings for them. You gotta be a smooth talker though to pull this off. Nothing beats a warm snuggle overlooking the city while with that special someone. Call me a romantic, but I sure know how to wine and dine the birds. Good luck....hope this helps...

 

[rama putri]

Highschool? The reminds me of the 40 Year Old Virgin.

 

[Meister]

I won't be able to take her back to my place, her place may be available.

Are you married or have an SO or live at your parent's place?