What you have continuously failed to comprehend is that not everyone is attracted to the same thing.
Dating Sites - Any success?
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...But men and women do want different things. Most women on those sites want a relationship, security, and yes a meal-ticket, in some cases. The men on those sites usually just want to fuck and many will fuck just about anybody, and their willingness to do so gives the women online an inflated image of themselves. They don't realize that there is a big difference between a homely female who's an easy lay and a socially desirable female a man wants to be seen in public with. That male attitude ("I'll fuck this girl because I can, but I don't want anyone to know about it, because it would make me look desperate or pathetic"), isn't shared by most women, and they tend to view it in moral terms (Men are scumbags). Which isn't true, we just have different agendas.
If you go to dating site with the baggage of past failures, you will only leave with a new baggage of failure.
now examine your life and what sent wrong. Must of the time it was you not listening to your gut interest.
The key to succeed is o be a total bad ass with a sensitive side. The sensitive side is to listen to her and confort her. She wants a man and not a girl friend.
Go with what feels right and learn fron the failures. When I started approaching lonly women at hotel bars or restaurants by he airport. My batting rate was about 1 to 20.
19 sent me packing one opened a door.
by the end it was down to 1 to 3.
Be polite, be kind, be funny, be a gentleman and the ultimate bad asx.
Make sure you go badass and not asshole.
everyone loves a badasS AND EVERYONE HATES AN ASXHOLE?????
Yup, I agree with that. But I still think most women are competing for the same A list guys, and the guys, while they do lower their standards some for casual relationships, are mostly competing for the same A list girls.
But you are right that men and women define the A list differently.
This was covered in a previous thread. What do women want vs. what do they have to offer? Plenty of posters, male and female, recalled single women who have a list that no one man could ever qualify for. The women say 'I want or deserve a man who will give me a,b,c,d,....x,y,z, and I won't settle.' One of the women here says that whenever one of her girlfriends expresses this attitude, she always counters with 'and what will you give him? What will you bring to the table?' She says her question is always followed by an awkward silence, often an unwelcome glare in her direction, and then always an abrupt change of subject.
Stupid reality.
Stupid reality.
plentyoffish guys,
i have a quick question.
i got kicked off of plentyoffish.com like a year ago. i think because i was spamming messages to every girl on the site. anyways. i got booted off and my profile got deleted. so i wrote it off as forget about it and dont worry about it. a year later. i decided to try my luck again on the plentyoffish site because the plentyoffish site has better features than okcupid.com. whereas you can actually see who's currently online on plentyoffish. every girl on the site that messaged you shows on you screen if they're online or not. as okcupid doesn't have the feature of every girl on the site showing up as being online on your page.
so i deleted all my cookies. used multiple programs to wipe out every cookie and tried to set up another profile in the morning. the same day in the evening. i went back on the site and saw that my profile got deleted again. and i didnt even message one person as i didn't have time to set up my pictures, details, etc on my profile.
the thing i noticed is, when i deleted my cookies off my computer, i noticed the username box had my old username already typed in. - after i deleted all my cookies.
so maybe i missed a crucial cookie that allows the plentyoffish site to track my computer?
anyone can help me with this one?
i wiped out all my cookies but maybe im missing some key cookies that is hidden by the plentyoffish.com site - on my coputer harddrive.
i have a quick question.
i got kicked off of plentyoffish.com like a year ago. i think because i was spamming messages to every girl on the site. anyways. i got booted off and my profile got deleted. so i wrote it off as forget about it and dont worry about it. a year later. i decided to try my luck again on the plentyoffish site because the plentyoffish site has better features than okcupid.com. whereas you can actually see who's currently online on plentyoffish. every girl on the site that messaged you shows on you screen if they're online or not. as okcupid doesn't have the feature of every girl on the site showing up as being online on your page.
so i deleted all my cookies. used multiple programs to wipe out every cookie and tried to set up another profile in the morning. the same day in the evening. i went back on the site and saw that my profile got deleted again. and i didnt even message one person as i didn't have time to set up my pictures, details, etc on my profile.
the thing i noticed is, when i deleted my cookies off my computer, i noticed the username box had my old username already typed in. - after i deleted all my cookies.
so maybe i missed a crucial cookie that allows the plentyoffish site to track my computer?
anyone can help me with this one?
i wiped out all my cookies but maybe im missing some key cookies that is hidden by the plentyoffish.com site - on my coputer harddrive.
Are you still using the same IP address as you did when you were first booted out?
how do you change your ip address?
regardless of what email address i use, i always get booted in the same day.
An IP address is assigned to you by your ISP. You might try requesting a new one, which might cost you some $, since you're asking your ISP to fix something that ain't broke. Or, you can switch to a new ISP. You decide if it's worth the trouble.
Or you can take it old school and set yourself up to get a new IP each and every time you use the 'net. ... We all used to do this- I'm talking 'bout going back to dial up access. With dial up, your ISP creates a new and temporary IP each time you connect, and tosses it when you disconnect. Great for anonymous surfing, but only if you have all the time in the world.
Or you can take it old school and set yourself up to get a new IP each and every time you use the 'net. ... We all used to do this- I'm talking 'bout going back to dial up access. With dial up, your ISP creates a new and temporary IP each time you connect, and tosses it when you disconnect. Great for anonymous surfing, but only if you have all the time in the world.
The only way you can change your IP address is calling your IP provider and asking them to change it. Which might raise some red flags on their part...lol.
how do you do the whole dial up thing? is it complicated?
how much would it cost? i could simply tell them some hacker is harassing me on the net or in a chatroom or something something by finding my ip address wherever i go. in any case, having my ip address changed shouldn't really be a big deal. who really cares or checks in on that, anyways. noone.
I said the dial up thing as a joke. This is 1990's technology. Data gets sent over the telephone lines using sound, not high speed digital cable. You don't want this. It's the difference between receiving a document via email compared to receiving it by fax. And this is why people don't fax anymore. It takes forever. Watching a 5 minute video might take 15 minutes. Same with audio files. If you insist, buy yourself a fax/modem for under $20 and ask your ISP for their dial in phone number. Then ask for one of their support agents over 50 (no one else would be old enough to remember) to help you. You can also try google for setting up a dial in connection. As I said, you can go this route, but it would mark you as a desperate man.
And by the way people, your ISP already knows where on the net you're going and everywhere you've been. Ever wonder why LE always asks for ISPs for info when they're investigating someone? Because to quote Bill Joy, past prez of Sun Microsystems, "You have no privacy. Get over it." Whether someone's internet history can be released is a political and legal matter, not a technological one. Bottom line is, don't give anyone a reason to take a closer look at what you're doing and you'll be fine.
And by the way people, your ISP already knows where on the net you're going and everywhere you've been. Ever wonder why LE always asks for ISPs for info when they're investigating someone? Because to quote Bill Joy, past prez of Sun Microsystems, "You have no privacy. Get over it." Whether someone's internet history can be released is a political and legal matter, not a technological one. Bottom line is, don't give anyone a reason to take a closer look at what you're doing and you'll be fine.
Have any of you considered attending some of these meetups all over Toronto? There are various activity groups from euchre to cycling, canoeing, hiking etc. There are social groups such as pubs, nightclubs, and even swingers in all areas. Maybe, someone should start a Meetup group for Stripclub crawlers or Massage Parlor group events. LOL. But seriously, I have attended a few and now regularly go for dinner dates with a few of the girls that have attended some of these events. Even went on a cruise for singles and it was an eye-opener. Importantly, these Meetups are generally free to attend and you only pay for your food, or for the activity.
OK, since I started this thread, I thought I better weigh in again and get it back on track.
Where to start......well I am a cheap bastard......well maybe not so cheap as I have a difficult time hiding large withdrawals from my S.O. So with that said....the purpose of this thread was to actually find out some sites that actually work in getting something on the side. Very funny how some of these sites say no married people, but once you are in, there are many married people.
Anyway....maybe it is the way that I am going about things, but I am finding it hard to find a REAL person that wants the same thing I want (of the opposite sex)
I want to get laid without breaking the bank with SP's and MP's. I make my donations with them enough I figure I have probably spent over $25000 in 15 years(maybe more).....not a lot by some peoples standards, but still significant.
I want to get some for free now.......I thought that I would get that when I got married....boy was I wrong....LOL
Are there other NON-mainstream sites I can look into? I want to get some soon!!!!!
Where to start......well I am a cheap bastard......well maybe not so cheap as I have a difficult time hiding large withdrawals from my S.O. So with that said....the purpose of this thread was to actually find out some sites that actually work in getting something on the side. Very funny how some of these sites say no married people, but once you are in, there are many married people.
Anyway....maybe it is the way that I am going about things, but I am finding it hard to find a REAL person that wants the same thing I want (of the opposite sex)
I want to get laid without breaking the bank with SP's and MP's. I make my donations with them enough I figure I have probably spent over $25000 in 15 years(maybe more).....not a lot by some peoples standards, but still significant.
I want to get some for free now.......I thought that I would get that when I got married....boy was I wrong....LOL
Are there other NON-mainstream sites I can look into? I want to get some soon!!!!!
