Dating and texting games

[Titalian]

interesting. im slightly the opposite, i love fucking chicks who have boyfriends or married, such a turn on

Especially when you pay for it. There is one exceptional lady I talk with all the time, she has a so.
And she told me so. So I don't see her on an intimate basis any more. Just me. But we are in constant contact.
She's a wonderful woman, and a friend.

 

[andydude]

we always pay for it, one way or the other

 

[Titalian]

we always pay for it, one way or the other

Yes we do, weather it be a provider or a so. As long as your comfortable.

 

[andydude]

Yes we do, weather it be a provider or a so. As long as your comfortable.

ive had an interesting lifestyle change whereby its now shockingly easy for me to meet women normally for casual sex, but that comes with a higher cost vis a vis, hangover. its an interesting life im living

 

[destillat]

A similar thing once happened to me. I was confused but found out why when his girlfriend called me one night threatening to punch me out.


My point is are you sure that she is not involved with someone else?

She admitted that she is not a fan of monogamy... and I told her that neither am I.
If she is seeing someone else, I don`t care and she knows that. Still rude behaviour IMO.

 

[Hank Reardon]

You're clueless... ignoring a text for 2 days in this day and age is immature and rude... whether it is a gf, sister, side chick, acquaintance or pot dealer.

Oh, and PS: She was the one that started pursuing me, knowing full well that a 'side chick' was her only option to get a piece of me... Talk about shooting yourself in the food by being inconsistent.

She aint clueless , you are clueless .

Side chick is rotating dudes and you aint in the rotation

 

[destillat]

She aint clueless , you are clueless .

Side chick is rotating dudes and you aint in the rotation

Please explain how I am clueless?
Because I don't tolerate immature, rude behaviour from someone who made it clear she wants to get in my pants? Is that why I am clueless?

 

[Hank Reardon]

I just did , you can read - yeah ?

 

[destillat]

I just did , you can read - yeah ?

It's verified... you are an idiot.
I clearly stated that we both disagree with monogamy, so I couldn't give half a shit if 'side chick' has other dudes.
Would you like to take another stab at it champ?

 

[Titalian]

This is about txting right? Etiquette in any form of communication is extremely important. Especially when
you type up words. I believe destilat's problems came about when he told her, she was second-tier. For
any human being you do not want to be classified as such. And so the lack of response by txt. Maybe you
did truly believed this but you should keep these things to yourself. You never know what can transpire with
positive, encouraging and complimenting txt. Jmo !

 

[destillat]

This is about txting right? Etiquette in any form of communication is extremely important. Especially when
you type up words. I believe destilat's problems came about when he told her, she was second-tier. For
any human being you do not want to be classified as such. And so the lack of response by txt. Maybe you
did truly believed this but you should keep these things to yourself. You never know what can transpire with
positive, encouraging and complimenting txt. Jmo !

Point taken, I see where you are coming from.
She was very candid to me... "I know you have a girlfriend, I'm not a fan of monogamy, this is probably inappropriate, but..."
I was just being candid with her... in fact, I don't actually think I explicitly told her she was 'second tier'... I basically said yes, I do have a GF, but I'm not fan of monogamy either, and life is too short to worry about being appropriate... she clearly took that as the green light and things progressed for a while, until she started going MIA for days at a time.

 

[basketcase]

You're clueless... ignoring a text for 2 days in this day and age is immature and rude... whether it is a gf, sister, side chick, acquaintance or pot dealer.....

I agree. Either she isn't that into you or she's trying to play games by the old 'phone call rules'.

 

[Titalian]

Point taken, I see where you are coming from.
She was very candid to me... "I know you have a girlfriend, I'm not a fan of monogamy, this is probably inappropriate, but..."
I was just being candid with her... in fact, I don't actually think I explicitly told her she was 'second tier'... I basically said yes, I do have a GF, but I'm not fan of monogamy either, and life is too short to worry about being appropriate... she clearly took that as the green light and things progressed for a while, until she started going MIA for days at a time.

What ever you do, never get involved in their drama, try to keep it positive. Especially if you want to bed her. Most good women are very
emotional creatures, especially the ones that I have loved. Aim for recognition in a positive way, they will always love you for it. Jmt

 

[Hank Reardon]

It's verified... you are an idiot.
I clearly stated that we both disagree with monogamy, so I couldn't give half a shit if 'side chick' has other dudes.
Would you like to take another stab at it champ?

Yeah , I can see your attitude in your responses throughout this thread . If someone does not agree with you , they are an idiot . You are the Donald Trump of this thread . You expect her to text when you want . You are a control freak and some folks don't wanna play by your rules .

Let go , bitch don't want you.

You claim to not want drama yet you are up in arms about it . I think you do want the drama

 

[destillat]

Yeah , I can see your attitude in your responses throughout this thread . If someone does not agree with you , they are an idiot . You are the Donald Trump of this thread . You expect her to text when you want . You are a control freak and some folks don't wanna play by your rules .

Let go , bitch don't want you.

You claim to not want drama yet you are up in arms about it . I think you do want the drama

LOL... I am a control freak because I call immature and disrespectful behaviour out instead of tolerating it?
Get a clue.

 

[james t kirk]

Texting is for kids.

Pick up the damn phone.