dating a sp ...like bobbi

[PsychicSpy]

Back to the topic......

Whomever I dated I know clearly that they may be up to xsomthing so I never "fell" for them and I always made sure I was getting what I needed from the relationship.... emotionally/ physically or whatever....

I would NEVER consider a long term relationship with any provider ... In my opinion they have too many issues and if they dont know they will in the future..,..

I would agree with Fluid...

I've met about 300 SPs or MPs on a paying basis...
And dated about 3 or 4.

There was a common 70s term... "hustler"...
Often a synonym for "prostitute"...
Meaning the person refuses to work...
And, instead, exploits other people for a living.

100% of SP/MPs are hustlers or wanna be hustlers.
Some of them are better at it then others (exploitation).

The girls that dated me...
Really did like me...
But exploitation was always the point.
"Be my sugar daddy"...
"Solve my immigration problems"...
"Pay for my university tuition".

<Yawn>

When I read posts from well meaning johns...
Talking about "helping" a "hustler"...
(Like those "poor" EE girls)...
Who is dying to take you to the cleaners...

Well...
Nothing amazes me more.

 

[fundyclown]

Do they always ask stuff like when are you coming back to town?

If they say they'd like to have dinner and talk, are they serious at all?

 

[otto1]

To sparky

Hi Sparky,
I am still alive....and active.
Your lingual assumption is the first exactly right one. I did not reply anymore because it would have been arrogant to reply to all the guessing. Now you stopped me being polite on the translation subject.
My intention to ask was right . I assumed RheinNeckar being a German who is just posting without knowing TO.
He is not, for that I apologize.....but without using your vocabular..I am able to express myself different without being a native speaker.

Have fun guys

OTTO

 

[rheinneckar23]

i would never date an sp, unless theres no other options, but thats not the case so i would nt know...theres seems to be too much baggage to be carried and i guess you have to be a particular type of person to handle that...but im sure there are some out there...

 

[Snook.fr]

Re: Re: Rheinneckar getting strange

similar to the French expression "j'ai la raison", literally translated "I have the reason", which amounts to the same thing.
DG.

Sorry but it is "J'ai Raison".....
I am the defender of my language...French is not to be mistaken with Quebecois.....NON MAIS !!

 

[rheinneckar23]

however, i can definiely spend some time with sorel or selina...

 

[BigBlack]

Re: Re: I have dated a sex worker

Whoever said money does not buy happiness does not have any!!!!

Money may not buy happiness but it sure helps take away a lot of problems.

BBLACK

 

[NiceShoes]

I am not that old. But I came to conclusion with this. That is, to be happy, you have to learn how to be satisified. If you master that technique, whatever situation that you are in .. you will be happy. Its the greed and ambition that motivate us to go forward, but at the same time, those two things kill us.

 

[1st down]

you dont date an sp....unless you are their security/driver

 

[The Baroness]

Amazing there are so many "sure thing comments" from those who have never been in a real relationship with a SP.


For those who got taken for a ride, sorry but thats life.....non-SP's do this too.( By the way, men also do it to women)
At least a SP is earning (usually) a better than average income on her own.

As has been said a million times before on this board, SP's are human and can fall in love.
I did with someone I met as a client and gave up SP'ing for the good of the relationship.

So there really are no absolutes....everyone and every relationship is different.

 

[VincenzoTurismo]

Now if you dated an SP, wouldn't you be alittle worried she might actually "cheat" on you?

Ciao,

VT

 

[rheinneckar23]

so true miranda, sp s are human too and sometimes sadly we as men forget that...

 

[1st down]

Now if you dated an SP, wouldn't you be alittle worried she might actually "cheat" on you?

Ciao,

VT

would'nt that be the LEAST of your worries?

 

[The Baroness]

You know some of you men on this board carry on about how " this and that" (negatively) Sp's are yet cough up 300 bucks to spend an hour with them.

What a joke.

 

[The Baroness]

Sp's do this work cause they can't make that good an hourly wage with a "real" job.

Not many people (men or women) do!

 

[BigBlack]

You know some of you men on this board carry on about how " this and that" (negatively) Sp's are yet cough up 300 bucks to spend an hour with them.

What a joke.

Sp's aren't all one model. Everyone is different. It is possible to dislike one and adore another. Even a crazy sp is fine for an hour in the sack ( if she is good in bed) , but to date? There is a big difference between an hour of sex and a relationship.

BBLACK

 

[rheinneckar23]

isnt that the truth...nite and day when it comes to sex and love...what a difference and for those who are lucky enuff to experience both or at least love then you ve reached the plateau of what sex really should feel like...and believe me there is a tonne of difference...and love is priceless and not 300 bucks

 

[The Baroness]

What I am referring to is the "gentlemen" on this board that make insinuations that all SP's are
A) crazy
B)disease ridden
C)unintelligent
D)etc,etc


If they are that F***-up why would anyone evn want to spend an hour with them,never mind pay for it?

Noone can be that horny.

 

[rheinneckar23]

never underestimate the power of the head...not the one between your shoulders either miranda, theyre out there...

 

[The Baroness]

lol