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Pickpa said:
I don't write often but check the board quite often. I had a harsh separation with the ex-wife a few months ago due to other reasons than her knowing my hobby. So I took my single life to advantage thankfully no kids were involved or I'd probably kill myself now, with nothing to hide and went to see an mp. My hobby is infrequent but I understand the I pay these girls and they fill me with pleasure and no baggage. I went to a well known Toronto MP this was almost 2 months ago. I feel very lucky that I didn't have kids to take care of and my ex wife is busy who some new guy, that this girl makes me feel alive again. I went to see this MPA whom I booked based from pictures, when I saw her walk in my whole day changed, she was so funny, lovable and sexually. We lost track of time (Double over time I booked) but didn't charge me for it and gave me the tip back.

I'm in my 40s and I usually prefer to date women 10 years younger as I'm not ready to have children but maybe in 5 years. I found out this girl is 25 and doing her bachelors and has a condo. We went out to dinner the next day and she was strict on not going home with me and I was shocked by my age when I told her, but she ended up in my bedroom after that. She's very flirty yet seems honest with me. I took her out several times when we ended up in my house. She said to me if we have sex with no condom then we can't sleep with other people, I agreed, nothing strange of stds came up during the 2 months she had 8 sex partners. she offered to cook for me, and we share similar hobbies. I'm just wondering if I should pursuit her further or only keep her for fun?
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As long as you play it smart and look for any signs just go with the flow.

As long as you dont become a bank account for her i'd say have fun with the situation, you know her and the situation best.

The no condom thing though , i would think about that one.

Being seperated and single is one thing, being seperated with young kids is a whole different world
 
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JackBurton said:
This article is a great way to convince beta males of their place in a woman's life and professional life.
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You must think your an alpha male, please don't make me laugh.
 
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Titalian said:
You must think your an alpha male, please don't make me laugh.
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If you are ok with getting my sloppy seconds after I've done your gf, then far be it from me to stand in the way of true love.

It's a harsh reality and one sex workers try to sugar coat with promises to their partners. The fact is they like sex and money and that work is a great way to fufill those two needs. Finding a chump that can be talked into supporting them emotionally while chasing their narcissitic desires is where you come in.

No thanks, I'm not talking down on sex workers, just any man who would willingly share his partners most intimate part of their being for money is delusional if he thinks she's capable of sharing a deep emotional bond.
 
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JackBurton said:
If you are ok with getting my sloppy seconds after I've done your gf, then far be it from me to stand in the way of true love.

It's a harsh reality and one sex workers try to sugar coat with promises to their partners. The fact is they like sex and money and that work is a great way to fufill those two needs. Finding a chump that can be talked into supporting them emotionally while chasing their narcissitic desires is where you come in.

No thanks, I'm not talking down on sex workers, just any man who would willingly share his partners most intimate part of their being for money is delusional if he thinks she's capable of sharing a deep emotional bond.
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This.
 
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JackBurton said:
If you are ok with getting my sloppy seconds after I've done your gf, then far be it from me to stand in the way of true love.

It's a harsh reality and one sex workers try to sugar coat with promises to their partners. The fact is they like sex and money and that work is a great way to fufill those two needs. Finding a chump that can be talked into supporting them emotionally while chasing their narcissitic desires is where you come in.

No thanks, I'm not talking down on sex workers, just any man who would willingly share his partners most intimate part of their being for money is delusional if he thinks she's capable of sharing a deep emotional bond.
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+1 but Ouch

So she be givin up da pussy for da money AND you know AND you THINK you are OK with it. She also knows YOU KNOW AND are OK with it.... GOOD LUCK
 
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Pickpa said:
I don't write often but check the board quite often. I had a harsh separation with the ex-wife a few months ago due to other reasons than her knowing my hobby. So I took my single life to advantage thankfully no kids were involved or I'd probably kill myself now, with nothing to hide and went to see an mp. My hobby is infrequent but I understand the I pay these girls and they fill me with pleasure and no baggage. I went to a well known Toronto MP this was almost 2 months ago. I feel very lucky that I didn't have kids to take care of and my ex wife is busy who some new guy, that this girl makes me feel alive again. I went to see this MPA whom I booked based from pictures, when I saw her walk in my whole day changed, she was so funny, lovable and sexually. We lost track of time (Double over time I booked) but didn't charge me for it and gave me the tip back.

I'm in my 40s and I usually prefer to date women 10 years younger as I'm not ready to have children but maybe in 5 years. I found out this girl is 25 and doing her bachelors and has a condo. We went out to dinner the next day and she was strict on not going home with me and I was shocked by my age when I told her, but she ended up in my bedroom after that. She's very flirty yet seems honest with me. I took her out several times when we ended up in my house. She said to me if we have sex with no condom then we can't sleep with other people, I agreed, nothing strange of stds came up during the 2 months she had 8 sex partners. she offered to cook for me, and we share similar hobbies. I'm just wondering if I should pursuit her further or only keep her for fun?
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I don't know you or her, but it sounds like you're in an emotionally vulnerable place, and from my own experience it's those times when I'm best doing the 'soul searching' alone. From what you wrote it sounds like you both enjoy each other's company and are enjoying each other, and from my own experience my best relationships have been when it felt natural.

I am curious, what types of things were you both talking about when you went double-over time? Did you do the most taking?

The most telling part of what you wrote is the last sentence, "I'm just wondering if I should pursue her further or only keep her for fun?" These questions are intended to be rhetorical: why are you asking the terb board about your relationship instead of talking to her about it? It doesn't sound like you've talked to her about what you have, and what happens if you want different things (eg. her: for fun, you: relationship)? It's not only about what you want, right?

As it's been brought up before, the condom part is curious. The statement about no condom and no sex with other people was for you: you can't have sex with her and other people unprotected. Rightly so, she is looking out for herself. At the same time the vagina and penis aren't the only routes an STI can enter a body.

You have said that she has had 8 sex partners in 2 months, but you haven't provided any information on the number of sex partners you've had. Perhaps it has been 0, or perhaps more, but the risk that you bring to what you both have is important too. I'm not mentioning that as an example for or against your SP relationship, but mention it as a point for consideration as you only pointed to her activities as being STI risky, and left your own out.
 
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JackBurton said:
If you are ok with getting my sloppy seconds after I've done your gf, then far be it from me to stand in the way of true love.

It's a harsh reality and one sex workers try to sugar coat with promises to their partners. The fact is they like sex and money and that work is a great way to fufill those two needs. Finding a chump that can be talked into supporting them emotionally while chasing their narcissitic desires is where you come in.

No thanks, I'm not talking down on sex workers, just any man who would willingly share his partners most intimate part of their being for money is delusional if he thinks she's capable of sharing a deep emotional bond.
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Never said I was, all I said is that it was in interesting perspective. So much for your perspective on sex workers.
 
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cdnsimon said:
I don't know you or her, but it sounds like you're in an emotionally vulnerable place, and from my own experience it's those times when I'm best doing the 'soul searching' alone. From what you wrote it sounds like you both enjoy each other's company and are enjoying each other, and from my own experience my best relationships have been when it felt natural.

I am curious, what types of things were you both talking about when you went double-over time? Did you do the most taking?

The most telling part of what you wrote is the last sentence, "I'm just wondering if I should pursue her further or only keep her for fun?" These questions are intended to be rhetorical: why are you asking the terb board about your relationship instead of talking to her about it? It doesn't sound like you've talked to her about what you have, and what happens if you want different things (eg. her: for fun, you: relationship)? It's not only about what you want, right?

As it's been brought up before, the condom part is curious. The statement about no condom and no sex with other people was for you: you can't have sex with her and other people unprotected. Rightly so, she is looking out for herself. At the same time the vagina and penis aren't the only routes an STI can enter a body.

You have said that she has had 8 sex partners in 2 months, but you haven't provided any information on the number of sex partners you've had. Perhaps it has been 0, or perhaps more, but the risk that you bring to what you both have is important too. I'm not mentioning that as an example for or against your SP relationship, but mention it as a point for consideration as you only pointed to her activities as being STI risky, and left your own out.
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Thanks Dr. Phil, OP just bang the shit out of her for as long as you can.
 
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I'm curious what the Sp's think of this. They get into this for various reasons, make money for school, single mom, etc... but still living their life outside work. Doesn't matter if SP, MPA or dancing. Do they make a decision not to date anyone while they do this ? Separate their work life from their personal life ? And if it does happen, what do they think of the client ? Will there always be that thought that he pays for it ?
 
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wazup said:
Thanks Dr. Phil, OP just bang the shit out of her for as long as you can.
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It's interesting to see responses of individuals that don't really have any substantial thought to put forward. Sometimes these people are jealous or bitter for some reason, they percieve that some group or part of society has wronged them, and instead of keeping their own toxic feelings to themself - they have to open their mouth and spread their acrimony.

“It's better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than open it and remove all doubt” - Mark Twain

You removed all my doubt in you Wazup.
 
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JackBurton

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Titalian said:
Never said I was, all I said is that it was in interesting perspective. So much for your perspective on sex workers.
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Oh you are very welcome, I'm happy to share.

My perspective is just one of reality, not a case of belittling sex workers. Anybody that wants to date one is setting himself up for failure, unless he understands that he will always come second to her job and other clients
 
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