Dating a sex worker. First timer go further or dump it?

[Pickpa]

I don't write often but check the board quite often. I had a harsh separation with the ex-wife a few months ago due to other reasons than her knowing my hobby. So I took my single life to advantage thankfully no kids were involved or I'd probably kill myself now, with nothing to hide and went to see an mp. My hobby is infrequent but I understand the I pay these girls and they fill me with pleasure and no baggage. I went to a well known Toronto MP this was almost 2 months ago. I feel very lucky that I didn't have kids to take care of and my ex wife is busy who some new guy, that this girl makes me feel alive again. I went to see this MPA whom I booked based from pictures, when I saw her walk in my whole day changed, she was so funny, lovable and sexually. We lost track of time (Double over time I booked) but didn't charge me for it and gave me the tip back.

I'm in my 40s and I usually prefer to date women 10 years younger as I'm not ready to have children but maybe in 5 years. I found out this girl is 25 and doing her bachelors and has a condo. We went out to dinner the next day and she was strict on not going home with me and I was shocked by my age when I told her, but she ended up in my bedroom after that. She's very flirty yet seems honest with me. I took her out several times when we ended up in my house. She said to me if we have sex with no condom then we can't sleep with other people, I agreed, nothing strange of stds came up during the 2 months she had 8 sex partners. she offered to cook for me, and we share similar hobbies. I'm just wondering if I should pursuit her further or only keep her for fun?

 

[shack]

Definitely.

 

[rhuarc29]

Just treat it as you would any other relationship, dude.

In this industry, there's the added risk that she's taking you for a ride in order to get you to spend more money on her. But once you've established that's not the case (sounds like you've made it to that point), then she's just like any other woman looking for a good time, and a short- or long-term relationship.

Since she's an MPA, you have the added bonus of knowing she's not jumping on someone's bone for her work. Some people can't handle that.

She is however doing the typical MPA routine, so if that bothers you at all, you might want to reconsider right now.

If you're just looking for sex, then no worries. Just take it as far as you want.

 

[tribunus]

Big man, you've gone a lot further than most people around here can dream of. This actually seems like a real relationship so keep it going.

 

[Jiffypop69]

I don't know man...just be real I guess. If you like her, but hate her "job" that could be problematic. If she's serious about finishing school, and looking for other career opportunities, then that won't be as much of a problem in the future. Either way, you've been lucky to find somebody that shares your interests, someone you find attractive, funny, smart etc... it sounds to me like you like her enough already to make an adult decision without an endorsement from the Terb masses.
Have fun !

 

[goalie000]

As I have stated before. I am currently dating/with a former SP. We started together while she was still in the business and I was her client. It was hard while she was still working but she has since retired and things are Good. I am 18yr older than her but it doesn't seem to matter. we get along with each others friends and go out with them frequently. So I say go for it!!! You have nothing to lose!!

 

[DanJ]

I do find it odd that she used a condom as a reason to be "exclusive", not a feeling of wanting to be exclusive. But, maybe a minor detail I guess. You are just out of a relationship, so just have fun and see where this goes.

 

[gudnite]

Hey man just enjoy the fun while you can. It may work out good for you. If your enjoying her company and you really like her then don't stop. This only happens now an then. Enjoy :thumb:

 

[Titalian]

Just treat it as you would any other relationship, dude.

In this industry, there's the added risk that she's taking you for a ride in order to get you to spend more money on her. But once you've established that's not the case (sounds like you've made it to that point), then she's just like any other woman looking for a good time, and a short- or long-term relationship.

Since she's an MPA, you have the added bonus of knowing she's not jumping on someone's bone for her work. Some people can't handle that.

She is however doing the typical MPA routine, so if that bothers you at all, you might want to reconsider right now.

If you're just looking for sex, then no worries. Just take it as far as you want.

This +1

 

[AdamH]

I think it'd be kinda hot dating an MPA. The thought that my S.O. had been teasing dudes with her hot body, and jacking them off all day (while none but me got to fuck her) would be really hot.. Having said that, that's based on the fantasy that she was getting off on her job somehow (and getting hornier as the day went on). In reality she'd probably find the whole day rather boring and tiresome (if not outright disgusting at times). The last thing she'd probably want to do when she got home is see another dick.

With this girl you should treat her as she deserves to be treated.. If she's a decent human being then give her the love and respect she deserves..

 

[Pickpa]

Solid feedback everyone. She asked me to use a condom but things got heated up that we ended up not using one and mentioned that.

There is another issue I have noticed. Had anyone dated or been with a younger women (civy or sp) in public? Ever get odd looks ? She enjoys to hold my hand and kiss randomly in public. Whether she's dressed up more mature or in her regular casual clothing I notice people staring. I don't whether its because they are questioning if she's my daughter, SP or that she's attractive haha. How you handle with the social issues in public and personal life ?

 

[Titalian]

Solid feedback everyone. She asked me to use a condom but things got heated up that we ended up not using one and mentioned that.

There is another issue I have noticed. Had anyone dated or been with a younger women (civy or sp) in public? Ever get odd looks ? She enjoys to hold my hand and kiss randomly in public. Whether she's dressed up more mature or in her regular casual clothing I notice people staring. I don't whether its because they are questioning if she's my daughter, SP or that she's attractive haha. How you handle with the social issues in public and personal life ?

Nope, In situations like that I never look for approvals from others, The only thing that counts is her and I.

 

[Mr. Piggy]

Solid feedback everyone. She asked me to use a condom but things got heated up that we ended up not using one and mentioned that.

There is another issue I have noticed. Had anyone dated or been with a younger women (civy or sp) in public? Ever get odd looks ? She enjoys to hold my hand and kiss randomly in public. Whether she's dressed up more mature or in her regular casual clothing I notice people staring. I don't whether its because they are questioning if she's my daughter, SP or that she's attractive haha. How you handle with the social issues in public and personal life ?

I wouldn't let it bother you. If people are looking, let them. She doesn't seem to let it bother her. Good luck Pickpa. Hope it works out for you.

 

[Pickpa]

I don't think my house has anything to do with it's almost 1600 sqft but I usually have coworkers and friends crash. Plus out of the obvious mp hobby I meant hobbies such as cooking and hiking esp

 

[Vermeer27]

If she's 25, hot and has cash, you probably aren't the only guy she's dating. I'm not saying she doesn't like you, it sounds like she does, but I would wager money that there are other men in the picture, clients and civilian. Most people are only as faithful as there options and a girl in her position has MANY options. Take it slow...all is revealed in time.

 

[JackBurton]

Dump it buddy. The fact she is having better sex than she is with you, and that she's bring paid for it will gnaw at your self esteem. Your sexual needs will always come second in her life.

 

[Anbarandy]

What's the probability that she is reading this thread?

 

[K Douglas]

My advice would be to not get involved in a relationship with her as long as she remains an MPA. A FWB relationship seems more appropriate. Good luck to you

 

[DanJ]

What's the probability that she is reading this thread?

LOL, Imagine my surprise one night at a strip club, when a stripper I had been seeing quite a bit of (in and out of the club, not sexually at that point), asked me one day about another message board and asked if I was so and so. She caught me so unaware that I kind of had the deer in the headlights look and said "uh, uh" a lot lol. She recognized a couple situations I posted about in relation to the club she worked at, and she said she reads a lot of boards like this looking to see what might be said, about her specifically, as well as the club or other girls. Wouldn't be shocked parlour girls do too.

 

[Titalian]

LOL, Imagine my surprise one night at a strip club, when a stripper I had been seeing quite a bit of (in and out of the club, not sexually at that point), asked me one day about another message board and asked if I was so and so. She caught me so unaware that I kind of had the deer in the headlights look and said "uh, uh" a lot lol. She recognized a couple situations I posted about in relation to the club she worked at, and she said she reads a lot of boards like this looking to see what might be said, about her specifically, as well as the club or other girls. Wouldn't be shocked parlour girls do too.

My experience has taught me you have to be careful with review boards, not all women in this industry approve of them. Even though they read them.