I have not read the replies in this thread. I have seen an MP for quite a few months, it started of great with lots of fun and fooling around. She didn't push anything and was really laid back about the situation. It ended a few months after as she's been contacting me less and less while she told me she was still interested in me but last time I saw her, she acted completely different and cold towards me. I did ask her to quit of we went forward and offered her a position in my department but she didn't accept. She slowly drifted away from me and then told me she needed time alone. I tried contacting her a few times but I don't think she was fully interested in me as I was into her. She was a friendly laid back chick but she's been dealing with other problems that she didn't want to mention to me. Havnt spoken to her in quite awhile but I do always wonder if it may happened again at a MP with a new girl and go through the ride only to enjoy it. Overall advice enjoy it but don't get serious and don't offer your savings account to her.
Dating a MPA
- Thread starter chongqing
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Just reading some of the outspoken comments, including mine, I have come to the conclusion that terbies, at least the majority of us have one thing in common, we get so arrogant and full of ourselves at times and think how we know it all, been through it all, how we can read the girl very quickly as soon as we meet or the other way around, we are the best, greatest, snd so and so on.....it is not so directly mentioned but is many times hidden within our lines even when we are not trying it still comes across like this. Sometimes its plain as day. What happened to the good ole humble members, even the good ones are turning into jackasses.
... to get back at the discussion and OPs question yes it is a good idea to date an MPA. I along with my fellow loser hobby brothers (including myself) have failed miserably at this attempt, although I have gone out with two it never lasted long, and am trying not to feel bitter about it...lol...hey maybe you figure out how to do it right and give us a pointer or two...no matter what we try looks like they are always a step ahead, at least with me they are, but just digging down into a guys primal instinct, GAWD this is the ultimate win or thrill of the hunt to be able to convince an MPA to go out with you even though you had so much competition of loser clients just like you trying to get her time outside the MP and have the wife and your real life spinning in the background...lol...the other part of me thinks like Alma describes that if a unique connection is there why not persue it cause MPAs are great people.
... to get back at the discussion and OPs question yes it is a good idea to date an MPA. I along with my fellow loser hobby brothers (including myself) have failed miserably at this attempt, although I have gone out with two it never lasted long, and am trying not to feel bitter about it...lol...hey maybe you figure out how to do it right and give us a pointer or two...no matter what we try looks like they are always a step ahead, at least with me they are, but just digging down into a guys primal instinct, GAWD this is the ultimate win or thrill of the hunt to be able to convince an MPA to go out with you even though you had so much competition of loser clients just like you trying to get her time outside the MP and have the wife and your real life spinning in the background...lol...the other part of me thinks like Alma describes that if a unique connection is there why not persue it cause MPAs are great people.
For the ones that didn't get an outright 'yes' when asking out an MPA, what were some of the responses?
e.g. 'sorry no not interested', 'boyfriend', 'maybe', 'think about it', etc.
I can see it being awkward afterwards if she wasn't interested for future visits or did everyone here got a 'yes'.
e.g. 'sorry no not interested', 'boyfriend', 'maybe', 'think about it', etc.
I can see it being awkward afterwards if she wasn't interested for future visits or did everyone here got a 'yes'.
My favorite is when you seemed to have built a connection and you ask them on a non sexual activity that they’ve indicated they want to do and they say yes and are all excited about it .... then say “let’s discuss what the donation will be ...”
99% if the time it’s all about the $$$
